Why You Should Be Careful With Flirting Over Email
Posted on December 12, 2006 - Filed Under Dating Tips
“Why You Should Be Careful With Flirting Over Email”
Today we’re going to talk about the danger of flirting
with a woman through email before you have a strong rapport
with her.
Many guys have asked me how they can attract a woman
they have just met by sending them emails with “hypnotic
words”. They want to know things such as how they can
“describe the sensations” of all the naughty things they would
like to do to these women so that the women will fall in love
with them by just reading their emails.
Guess what? It doesn’t work that way. You *cannot*
expect to attract a woman just be writing sheets and sheets
of “romantic language” to her.
In fact, you will probably scare her away.
The trouble with flirting over email is that there’re
NO “romantic calibration” at all. There is NO way to judge her
by her body language if she’s interested in what you’re saying
at all. As a result, you could be going down the wrong path
without knowing.
In real life, you can see her reactions adjust your
flirting accordingly. But in an email, there’s no way for you
to get any kind of feedback. You could start going in the wrong
direction at ANY time, and keep on going on in the wrong direction
after.
For example, you could talk all about how much you
would enjoy rock-climbing or going star-gazing with her - when
the woman is not even interested in these things.
Or you could think you’re teasing her and joking around
with her, when she thinks you’re actually insulting her.
Because without body language and voice language,
a lot of your flirting and teasing may become “lame”. The women
may take your teasing “literally” because you’re not there to
express yourself.
So what’s the solution?
Well…it’s pretty simple…
BE A MAN and don’t try to attract women by writing
emails.
Pick up the phone and call the woman. This way you
can use your voice tone to show your playfulness and also get
feedback in real time.
Or better yet, ATTRACT HER IN REAL LIFE.
If you absolutely must flirt with a woman over email,
then make sure you keep your emails SHORT. For example,
when I email a woman the first time, I usually say nothing
except “Knock knock, is
Try this, and if a woman responds positively, then
you can send a few more short messages and finally ask
if she has Instant Messenger.
This way, you can interact with her in real time!
For more practical dating tips, sign up for my
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http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
It contains tons of free tips that you can use to
attract the woman of your dream!
-Marius
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