Why It Is Okay To Lead On A Date
Posted on September 28, 2007 - Filed Under Dating Tips
“Why It Is Okay To Lead On A Date”
A comment I get quite often from flamers
and guys who have doubts about my dating tips is
that it is “wrong” for me to suggest guys to lead
on dates and have things pre-planned because
to these Feminazi’s, leading on a date is
“basically just taking away choice from women.”
I find that silly and absurd. Just because
you have everything planned out well does not
mean you are taking away “choice” from women.
In my experience, in today’s society, if a woman
does not like a suggestion for a date, she WILL
be vocal about it. For example, if you suggest
going to an Italian restaurant and she hates
Italian food, she WILL tell you she wants to
go somewhere else. And if she doesn’t speak up,
then it’s her CHOICE. There is nothing unethical
or evil about planning a date ahead of the time
so that you can be sure you’ll have a GREAT time
together.
(By the way, this is why I often stress
that you should always have a Plan B or C ready
when you’re out on a date. This way, if a woman
does not like Plan A, you can do Plan B or Plan
C and still stay in control!)
As for things like walking in front of
a woman, holding her hand while crossing the
streets, and pulling out her seat for her, these
are proper etiquettes that shouldn’t be part of
any “political correctness” debate. Anyone with
a little bit of experience with dating will
know that most women will *not* have a problem
with you opening doors or pulling out chairs
for her. If a woman REALLY thinks these actions
take away her choice, maybe she should start
dating other women.
Anyway…
As I always say, reality is what matters.
Sure, you can believe the propaganda Feminists feed
you. You can stop leading on a date and start asking
permission for everything. You can act as needy as
you want.
But then don’t whine when women always just
want you to be their “friend” and nothing more.
Because if you act like a little puppy, that’s all
you’re ever going to be!
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Thanks,
Marius Panzarella
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