Why Can’t Women See Me For Who I Am?
Posted on August 9, 2007 - Filed Under Dating Tips, Inner Game, Social Life
“Why Can’t Women See Me For Who I Am?”
I’m often asked, “Marius, why can’t women see
me for who I am? Why can’t women see how great I am
inside?”
There’s only one reason:
Because most people, not just women, judge you
based on your actions and who you APPEAR to be, but
not on “who you are.”
As I always say, women are NOT psychic
and cannot read your mind.
Just like ALL humans, women judge guys by looking
at their PHYSICAL BEHAVIORS. They CANNOT read your thoughts
any better than you can read theirs. The ONLY information
they can rely on is based on your BEHAVIOUR and ACTIONS.
Let’s say there are two men at a party.
One goes around socializing and flirting with all
the women.
The other hides in a corner, avoids eye contact,
and has creepy body language.
If you were a woman, which guy would you have
a better opinion of?
Here’s the lesson of the day: People judge you
according to your ACTIONS. They don’t know what you’re
thinking - nor they care. They only know SEE WHAT THEY
SEE IN FRONT OF THEM.
With a little of work, this can actually work
IN YOUR FAVOR. You can’t change your looks or age, but
you CAN change your behaviour in front of women.
For example, here are a few things ANYONE
can work on:
1) Improving social and conversation skills.
2) Having better posture and body language.
4) Teasing women.
5) Acting like a challenge.
And the truth is, if you master all five,
you will already be PRETTY good with women - at
least better than 90 percent of guys out there!
For more information on how to work on
these areas, sign up for my newsletter at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
Thanks,
Marius Panzarella
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