What Marius Panzarella Thinks Of Game Playing
Posted on May 30, 2008 - Filed Under Being A Challenge, Character, Confidence Tips, Dating Tips, Flirting Tips, Inner Game, Relationship Tips
“What Marius Panzarella Thinks Of Game Playing”
A question that I am often asked is,
“Marius, what do you think of game playing? Do
you think it is good or bad?”
Here is what I think:
I think that a lot of what some people
consider “game playing” such as flirting,
teasing, and acting like a challenge are
absolutely necessary in order to spark
attraction or to maintain a relationship. As
I always say, the couple that plays is the
couple that stays. However, at the same time,
I am against playing mind games that are
meant to manipulate or control a person.
So what is the difference between
sparking attraction and playing manipulative
mind games?
Let me show you giving you a couple
of examples.
Here is what I think:
1) It is okay to act a bit mysterious at
the beginning when you first meet a woman,
but it is not okay to act evasive or put
on a charade for an extended period
of time.
2) It is okay to tell a few cool stories
or dress up in nice clothes to raise
your social proof, but it is not okay
to lie about your job or your family
background.
3) It is okay to pull back and use the
silent treatment to “freak out” a
misbehaving girlfriend, but it is not
okay to stop a woman from seeing her
friends as a way of controlling her.
4) It is okay to use the hot/cold
technique from my “Smart Relationships
Course” to bring back the chemistry
in a dying relationship, but it is
not okay to use it to manipulate
a woman until she becomes your slave.
5) It is okay to use my “compliment-
command” technique to break down a bitch
shield, but it is not okay to use flatter
to control an insecure woman’s heart.
Here’s a golden rule:
Dating techniques are not manipulative
in nature, but if you constantly find
yourself various techniques to manipulate
a person, then you should re-evaluative
your goals and possibly the relationship
itself. Here’s a hint: if you constantly have
to use manipulative to be with a person,
perhaps you shouldn’t be together in the
first place!
For more dating tips, sign up for my dating
newsletter for men at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
Thanks,
Marius Panzarella
Related Posts:
"What If You Have Cheated On Your Girlfriend" Today I'm going to talk about what you should do to save your relationship if you have cheated on your girlfriend. Before we begin, I need to ...
"Next Time You Envy A Good Looking Guy..." Next time you envy a good looking guy for his natural ability to attract women through his good looks, think about what I have to say today: In the...
"Dating Is A Numbers Game" If you would like to increase your success with women and find a girlfriend soon, try looking at dating as a numbers game. The more people you meet, the greater your...
"What If You Had Drunk Sex And Now She is feeling Awkward" Here's a scenario that my readers email me all the time: They were drunk the first time they had sex and made out with a certain woman. ...
"7 Inner Game Tips" It has been awhile since I've written about inner game, so today I am going to take a break from philosophy and techniques and give you ten keys to developing your inner game...
Help Me By Linking To This Page:
If you found this page useful, consider linking to it.
Simply copy and paste the code below into your web site (Ctrl+C to copy)
It will look like this: What Marius Panzarella Thinks Of Game Playing
