What If Your Partner Wants To See Other People
Posted on November 5, 2007 - Filed Under Breaking Up, Dating Tips, Preventing Breakups, Relationship Tips, Romantic Respect
“What If Your Partner Wants To See Other People”
What does your partner mean when they say
you should both see other people?
As a Smart Dater, it should only mean one
thing: their attraction for you has dropped so much
that the relationship is about to end.
A person does not just wake up one day and
want to start seeing other people. Usually, when a
man or woman wants to see other people outside an
existing relationship, it’s because they want to
meet other people without feeling guilty OR without
facing complete rejection if a potential lover rejects
them. (Yes, you have become their backup plan, get it?)
There’s also the possibility that your partner wants
to break up with you slowly so that you don’t get a
big shock when it finally comes.
In other words, your partner only wants
to see other people because:
1) They don’t like you anymore.
2) They want a “backup” while they hunt for
other lovers.
3) They want to break up with you slowly.
So what do you can when your partner wants
to “see other people”?
Well, honestly there’s not much you can do.
If you disagree, they may get into an argument and
dump you right there since the attraction is so low
anyway.
That’s why your best bet is to end the
relationship right there OR to agree to see other
people too. But either way, you want to actually
start seeing other people and let your now ex-partner
know ALL about it. Show them you ARE capable of
attracting other men or women and that you are NOT
going to just sit there and be their “backup plan.”
If they freak out and beg for you to come
back, good. Otherwise, just move on.
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- Marius Panzarella
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