What If Your Girlfriends Needs More Space
Posted on December 10, 2006 - Filed Under Dating Tips
“What If Your Girlfriends Needs More Space”
What should you do if your girlfriend tells
you she needs “more space” in the relationship?
Should you whine about it?
No.
Should you try to convince her how much you love her?
No.
Should you get jealous because she wants to spend
more time with her friends?
No.
What you SHOULD do is to pull back from the
relationship and focus on YOUR life…even MORE than she does.
Why? Because when a woman needs more “space”, it means
you’re being too needy and you’re suffocating her. It means
her attraction for you is DROPPING and if you keep on pushing
her, she’s going to dump you.
At this point, if you force her to “work things out”,
you will only end up pushing her AWAY since you already have
one foot in the negative zone.
So instead of pushing her away from you, you should
PULL BACK and focus on YOUR life.
Focus on improving your life, working towards your
goals, and creating a stronger self-image.
Because chances are, if she needs more space, you
probably haven’t been spending a lot of time with your own
life outside your relationship.
By focusing too much on a relationship, you risk
losing out what life has to an offer. As a result, you will
become even MORE needy overtime as you lose the grip on
the rest of the world. One day, you will wake up and
find that you “cannot live without her”, and ironically,
that’s usually when a woman will dump you.
A healthy relationship requires SPACE for both
parties to grow. So give her some space, and give YOURSELF
some space too.
As crazy as it may sound to you if you’re a needy
person right now, it may actually be one of the best things
you can do for your relationship!
For more “girlfriend management” tips, check out
my “Smart Dating Newsletter” at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com/
Unlike most other programs on the Internet, my
newsletter won’t just help you “seduce” women. It can help
you attract AND keep a “quality” woman that you won’t mind
having as a real girlfriend!
-Marius
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