What If There Is Not Much Attraction At The Beginning
Posted on May 26, 2008 - Filed Under Character, Dating Tips, Relationship Tips, Romantic Respect, Staying Together
“What If There Is Not Much Attraction At The Beginning”
Once in awhile, I get a question along
the lines of, “Marius. I started seeing this girl
a couple of weeks ago. She’s wonderful, but
somehow I don’t really feel excited when I
see her anymore. Should I stay with her
to see if my feelings increase, or should I
just break up.”
Here is what I always answer, “If you
have to ask this questions, then chances are,
you already want to break up with her but
would just like my confirmation.”
It’s true. A person who is crazily
in love will not ask a third party if he or she
should break up. And if you are not crazily
in love at the beginning of a relationship,
that should be a major red flag because
attraction tends to DROP over time. So if you
aren’t even that crazy about a woman in the
first month, I can promise you that you won’t
be any more crazy about her a year from now.
Now. What if you’re on the “receiving
end” of this low attraction problem? What if
your new girlfriend or boyfriend is quickly
losing interests?
In that case, you should try to bring
back the passion by flirting, teasing, and
acting like a challenge. And if that doesn’t
work, then try pulling back to see if he or
she cares. If it works, good. If it doesn’t,
then you should really try to move on!
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http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
Thanks,
Marius Panzarella
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