What If A Woman Tells You She Is Not Ready For A Relationship
“What If A Woman Tells You She Is Not Ready For A Relationship”
When a woman tells you she sin’t ready for a relationship,
most of the time she really means one of the following three
statements:
1) “I am ready for a relationship – but not with you.”
Remember that a woman has to be attracted to you before
she will have a relationship with you. So if a woman turns you
down because she is “not ready”, you should ask yourself this:
“Is she really not ready, or does she just not want to give me
false hope?” Search your feelings, young Jedi. If you feel a
lot of pain, insecurity, or discomfort, chances are, she probably
doesn’t like you that much.
Remember: It doesn’t matter she recently got out of
a relationship. If she REALLY, REALLY, REALLY likes you, she
will want to be with you. It’s simple as that.
2) “I am attracted – just not enough.”
The second possibility is that she IS attracted to you,
but “not enough” to start a relationship yet. Now, here comes
the bad news. If that’s what she means, then it means you’ve
screwed up already by advancing too fast. Pull back IMMEDIATELY
and start focusing on building the attraction instead of trying
to “get serious” with her. The more you try to turn her into a
girlfriend before she’s attracted to you, the more you will
push her away.
3) “I am a party girl.”
The last possibility is that she is not ready for any
sort of relationship because she is a party girl.
If that’s the case, then don’t try to change her.
A party girl doth not a good girlfriend make. You’re going to
end up in a world of hurt in the long run.
With that said…
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attraction for you so that she WILL want a relationship? Sign
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- Marius Panzarella
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Ok so I have to say I dissagree with the “not ready yet” statements…I just recently informed my bf that I was not ready for a relationship and for good reason.. a lot of horrible things have happened to me over the past year and I get anxious that it might happen again with a new guy..Im sincerely attracted to this guy and I love spending time with him. He makes me happy..but the point is at this point in my life I am not ready to rush into a relationship and I believe that later on we will have a chance. SO guys please don’t lose hope..there are a lot of girls like me who are just going through a rough patch in their lives and they can’t be in a relationship yet.
Then that is your problem, and he should not have to go through the drama. If a girl is not ready for a relationship, then move on until she is. It could take 6 months. It could take 3 years.
If a guy was still having trauma with his ex-wife, then he should not expect you to wait and wait either.
Yes I have been dating a lady for the past month or so, and we hit it off really well. We have been on about 6 or 7 dates so far, and seem to have developed a real connection with one another. However, just given a couple of things about her, I don’t really anticipate us getting involved in a relationship. She has mentioned that her two previous boyfriends both cheated on her. Also, she is currently doing renovations to her house which have so far taken about 1 year, and still isn’t finished. I can tell she feels like she’s stuck in a rut. The last couple of times I’ve seen her, she acted a little disinterested, and obviously has other things on her mind. I can tell she is not ready for a relationship, she doesn’t need to tell me that. And I wouldn’t really want to have a relationship with her until her issues are resolved. Bottom line is, sometimes if a girl says she’s not ready for a relationship, it’s actually true. When you find yourself in this situation, don’t always assume she doesn’t like you, she just may not be in a position to take things further with you, or with anyone else, for whatever reason.
I started seeing a girl, we got together and started getting close. She told me from the start that things would be difficult because she works long hours and gets tired. I told her that it wasnt a problem for me because I really liked her. Anyway, we started off really well, she was so sweet but she started getting thoughtful and I noticed a difference in her behaviour. When I asked her about it she said that her hours are too long, she doesnt have time for a personal life and she just cant fit in a relationship. I’m finding it REALLY hard to take because she told me she really liked me but she cant do it right now. I really like her too and now it feels like the whole thing is screwed up forever. Is Work really ever a reason to put ur life on hold for someone that you really like?
I, too, have to disagree with these being the only reasons a woman might say she’s “not ready for a relationship”.
I have told a man that I was not ready for a relationship because I needed time to work on some things for myself, in order to be strong enough and healthy enough to give him a fair chance at success with me.
I knew I had some things to sort out with myself first, and told him that I would be delighted to be his friend, and that if he were still single once I was able to return to the dating scene, he would definitely be a candidate for romance.
I did not ask him to wait for me nor did I imply that he should.
I was not ready to put energy into a relationship at that time, because I needed to focus my energy on myself. It seemed a far better thing to do than to get involved while I still had things to work on, and subject him to my instabilities.
Some of us ~do~ say what we mean, without need for interpretation.
In my opinion if a girl said that she’s not ready this means that she is not interested and it’s hard if not impossible to turn her mind later. We must always remember that attraction is done on the subconscious level and thus it’s not a choice. So if a girl is attracted to you she will do whatever it takes to stay connected to you.