What Do Players Have That You Lack
Posted on September 3, 2008 - Filed Under Being A Challenge, Dating Tips, Flirting Tips, Hooking Up, Inner Game, Nightclubs, Social Life
“What Do Players Have That You Lack”
Last time I talked about how there
are many men out there who resist the theory
of attraction. Today I am going to confront
another group of men - guys who think it is
hard for them to get a girlfriend because
they are not players.
Here is what I think: Instead of
of envying players because they get more
women than you do, think about how you can
learn from them and borrow some of their good
qualities that you lack…
For example…
1) Do they flirt more than you? (Flirting
and being playful are extremely important
when it comes to building attraction.)
2) Do they have more experience than you?
(As my romantic intelligence theory goes,
a lot of players are good with women
simply because they started out at a younger
age.)
3) Do they act like more of a challenge than you?
(This ties in with experience. A man with
more experience and lots of options can
AFFORD being a challenge.)
4) Are they more sociable than you?
(As I have stated in the past, I have yet
to meet a player who isn’t sociable.)
5) Do they have a better external image than you?
(It is not who you are inside, but what
kind of IMAGE you give, that matters.)
6) Are they more comfortable with their
own body than you are?
(How can you close if you aren’t even
feel comfortable cuddling with a woman?)
7) Do they know more than you?
(If you don’t have the experience, then
make it up with knowledge and practice.
Get my “Smart Dating Course” at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com/ebook.html
Once you have identified the
things that you lack, then the next step
is to work on getting the same things. Work
on one thing at a time, and eventually
you will have the same success.
By the way, you can use the same
technique to model yourself after successful
people in various fields including business
and school!
For more dating tips, check out
my dating tips newsletter at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
Thanks,
Marius Panzarella
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