Using Money To Attract Women
Posted on June 19, 2007 - Filed Under Character, Dating Tips, Preventing Breakups, Relationship Tips, Romantic Respect, Staying Together
“Using Money To Attract Women”
Last time we talked about how you should not envy
the good looking guy’s advantage in the dating game. Today
we will talk about how the same principle applies to
guys with money too.
Even a fool would know that having a lot of
money *will* help attract women to you. There’s no
question about that.
But if money is the only thing you have,
then watch out: Just like the good looking guy,
you may be in for a rude awakening one day.
First of all, there’s no guarantee that
your fortune will last forever. There are *many*
readers on my list who are “ex-millionaires” -
guys who have made it and then lost it all. When
they were rich, women swarmed all over them. But
as soon as they lost their shirts, the same women
left them for other men.
Secondly, even if you manage to keep
your fortune, if you only use money to attract women,
then chances are, the women who are going to be
drawn to you will be the gold diggers and other
women with bad character. These women will
give you a LOT of trouble in the long run.
In some states, they can even have a love affair
with another man, get a divorce, and STILL get
a lot of money from you.
Lastly, it is very easy for a man with
money to practice down-dating, which is often a
recipe for disaster.
So…what should you do if you don’t have
a lot of money?
Here are some rules to follow:
1) Make yourself, not your money, the focus.
Instead of using your money to attract
women, focus on your PERSONALITY and INTELLIGENCE -
the things that allowed you to accumulate your
wealth.
2) Be careful of gold diggers.
Watch out for gold diggers. Get together
with the wrong woman and you wallet take a big hit.
3) Make sure you have other qualities.
Money may get you into the door, but to
keep a woman attracted to you so that she doesn’t
cheat or leave you, you need to have more
“substance” than just having deep pockets.
(Note: If you read the papers, you will
find a lot of victims of gold diggers are men
who have inherited their money or struck gold
through “circumstance” such as achieving sudden
stardom or selling stock options at the peak of
a major stock bubble. Guys who accumulate their
wealth “the long way” are usually too smart to
fall for gold diggers. Those are the guys I
want you to emulate if you’re very rich.)
4) Raise your romantic intelligence.
Make sure you educate yourself about
women and raise your romantic intelligence.
You can do that by signing up for my
dating newsletter and also by downloading my
“Smart Dating Course”
To sign up for my free dating newsletter,
go to:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
It contains tons of dating advice
that will help you improve your love life
and get the girls!
Thanks,
Marius
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