The Power of Choice In Dating
“The Power of Choice In Dating”
Last time we talked about the difference between “I can”
and “I won’t”. Today I am going to teach you how to use the
distinction between the two to empower yourself.
Something I’ve learned over the years as a dating coach
is that it is very tough to “force” a student to do something.
For example, if I were to say to a student, “You MUST flirt
with women from now on,” that student will usually give me a
lot of resistance before he gives in.
But if I were to tell him, “Okay. You DON’T have to
flirt with women. But if you keep on getting the same results you’ve
been getting all your life because you’re not flirting at all,
then that’s it’s a choice you have made. You don’t want to
be successful with women and I respect your choice…”
All of a sudden, the student to be a LOT more eager
to flirt because he has been given a choice that HE can make!
Here’s how you can use this principle to help yourself.
Next time you tell yourself that you “can’t” do something,
rephrase it as an “I won’t” statement. Next, tell yourself
that you “won’t do it” because you “don’t want to.” Then weight
the benefits of NOT doing something against the benefits of doing
it. Confirm once again that you do NOT Want the positive
benefits of performing the action and that you ARE happy with
the negative consequences of NOT doing it. (Or the other way
around if you do change your mind.)
Either way, by becoming responsible for your own actions,
you’re going to feel strangely empowered!
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- Marius Panzarella
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