The Importance of Shifting Your Priorities In Dating and in Life
“The Importance of Shifting Your Priorities In Dating and in Life”
Awhile ago, I talked about the different stages in my
“romantic intelligence” model and how some old “players” are really
losers because they are still stuck at a stage they should have
abandoned years ago. Today I’m going to talk about how chasing
after the wrong priorities can make you retarded over time as well.
Not accepting your age and the “meanings” associated
with it will ultimately erode your confidence and drain you of
energy. It will also put you behind other men. For example, imagine
spending 4 hours at the gym a day at age 35 when other men your age
are focusing on their careers. When it comes to competing against
younger men on your physique, you are going to lose because even
if you do get a nice six-pack, you aren’t going to look as good
as a 25 year old. To make things worse, because you are spending
so much time inside the gym due to your insecurity, you aren’t
going to be as well as other guys financially because you haven’t
been focusing on your career. Either way, you’re going to get
left behind. The younger guys will still be better looking, and
when compared to men your age, you will be poorer and less well-
established.
Of course, looking too far ahead is also not a very good
thing. For example, let’s say you are 19 and you think you are
mature because all you care about is making money or getting into
business. Sure, you may be rich by the time you are 30. But
at the same time, you may regret not having a lot of fun in college.
You may even have an early mid-life crisis and end up trying to
relive your past again. I see it happen all the time.
My advice? Be aware of which life stage you are and adjust
yourself accordingly. Look towards the future without getting too
paranoid, and let your past becomes history before it drags you
down. Live a balanced life and just make the best out of every
moment.
In 20 years, you will thank me for this lesson. (If you
still remember me!)
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Thanks,
Marius Panzarella
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Making your relationship a priority is very important for the long term success of your relationship.Usually When people/couples come together, they spend loads of time getting to know each other and having fun with one another. Then, when they decide to have children the situation becomes more demanding or if their career starts to take up more of their time their intention to spend
time with each other gets buried and lost in the chaos of everyday
activities….