The Importance of Shifting Your Priorities In Dating and in Life (Part Two)

“The Importance of Shifting Your Priorities In Dating and in Life (Part Two)”

Last time I talked about the importance of shifting your
priorities in dating and in life because if you go after the
wrong priorities at the wrong stage of life it is going to
hurt your chances with women as well as your future.

As an example, I mentioned how it does not make sense
to just focus on your physique once you are over 35. I mentioned
that most 35 year old men are not going to look as good as 25 year
olds, and that gym-rats who spend too much time inside the gym
are probably going to be not as well off as other men financially
because they have not been focusing on their careers as much. As
a conclusion, I mentioned that the younger guys would still be better
looking, while the guys their age would be better off financially and
more established career-wise.

For this comment, I received a lot of praise as well as
some criticism. A few angry men in their mid-30’s emailed
me to tell me to take them off my newsletter. Some claimed to look
better than “any 25 year old”. Some claimed 25 year olds and 35 year
olds don’t really that much different. One guy even mentioned
that guys with good bodybuilding genetics will look better than
a 25 year guy with bad genetics. (As if that changes the lesson
I was trying to share…)

To me, these guys were just nitpicking minor points. Do
ALL guys in their thirties look as good as they used to when they
were still in their early 20’s? Even if they do, does it really
matter? Is it really something to be obsessed about? The fact that
these got pissed off at someone saying men in their age group
GENERALLY do not look as good as younger men is a sign that they
have real self-image problems.

A true man should know that with age comes wisdom,
wealth, and power. Looking youthful is only icing on the cake.
As I always say, it’s all about your CUMULATIVE SCORE. It’s
not one thing, but a COMBINATION of things, that makes you
an attractive man. So if you want to focus solely on looks,
go ahead. You’ll eventually fall behind because time is
against you.=)

Here’s another one of my life principles: A man is
only as strong as his biggest weakness. If you are too obsessed
about looks, money, or any other one thing, that’s going to
cause you real problems in the long run. I see it all the time
as a dating coach. Here’s an extreme example: You can be rich,
good looking, and smart. Add a bad addiction that you are
unwilling to cure, and it may destroy all of your relationships.

Here’s an exercise you should do:

1) Think about what women care about in your age group. Write
down some action steps to improve yourself in these areas.

2) Think about what women in your age group will care more
and more about as they age. Write down some action steps for
these too.

3) Work on both.

4) Next, identify your greatest weakness in dating and
relationships. It could be something small and insignificant
such as not knowing how to close a kiss. Or it could be
something much deeper, such as always falling for crazy
psycho chicks because you like drama. (This can ruin you!)

5) Think about how to fix your weakness and write down some
action steps.

This exercise will give you a “blueprint” on how to bulletproof
your love life over time. Not only will it help you both in the short and
long run, it will also limit your weaknesses so that they don’t hold
you back. (One big flaw is all it takes to reduce your cumulative score
to zero!!!)

Now go have fun with the exercise!

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Thanks,
Marius Panzarella

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