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“How To Flirt With Women”
I am often asked, “Marius, how exactly do I flirt
with women?”
Here is a list of flirting techniques that you
can use to flirt with women, as well as a link to an ebook
gift on flirting that you can download and read.
The ebook gift is at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com/flirt.pdf
And here are the flirting techniques:
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Flirting Technique: Eye-Contact
Most of flirting is done with your eyes. Keep good
eye-contact on a woman when you talk to her. Just keep
your eyes focused on her bit “too long.”
Flirting Technique: Say “Hello” With Energy
When you approach a woman, say “Hello” in a flirty way.
It will make her think you e sexier than the average
geek who walks up to her and gives her a shy “Hi”.
Flirting Technique: Shake Her Hand A Bit Too Long
When you shake her hand, let your hand stay on hers
for a bit too long and then brush against her hand as
you pull back. Do this while smiling and looking into
her eyes sincerely. You don want to come off as a
pervert.
Flirting Technique: Repeat The Woman Name
As you talk to her, repeat her name as much as you can.
Say her name slow, softly and sensually each time you
say it.
Example: “Hello, De-bbie, I am very glad you came
here…”
Flirting Technique: Stir Your Drink
Stir your drink with a rhythm as you talk to her.
The effect can be “hypnotizing” under the right
atmosphere.
Flirting Technique: Lower Your Volume
Lower and lower your volume so she has to lean towards
you to listen.
Flirting Technique: Whisper
When she gets close enough, whisper to her. This works
well in a bar, when the music is so loud you have to
talk in each other ears.
Flirting Technique: Be Playful
Ask yourself the following questions:
1) How much fun can I have tonight?
2) What sorts of interesting things can I
find out about this girl?
Flirting Technique: Use Nicknames
When you get closer to a woman, make up a cute nickname
for her.
Flirting Technique: Touch Her Back
If she starts touching you, then touch her on the
shoulder or arm when you laugh. Increase the frequency of
touching as the night goes on.
Flirting Technique: Leave Her Wanting More
Do what strippers do the guys. Get a girl all hot and
then leave her wanting more!
Flirting Technique: Laugh At Her Jokes
Laugh at her jokes whenever she makes one. Touch her on
the arm lightly when you laugh if she already touching you.
Flirting Technique: Listen To Her Stories
Pay attention to what she says. Be focused on her, not
on the hot waitress.
Flirting Technique: Drop A Compliment
Drop her a compliment every once in awhile. Not too often
though!
Flirting Technique: Tease Her
Incorporate teasing into your flirting. Tease her till
she’s wet!
Flirting Technique: Get More Personal
Ask her more and more personal questions as the evening
progresses. Things about her childhood, etc!
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Thanks,
Marius Panzarella
Posted by Marius Panzarella on November 9, 2007 · Leave a Comment
“How To Tease Your Girlfriend Without Putting Her Down”
I am often asked, “How should I tease a woman once
I’m in a relationship with her?”
The answer is quite simple. You do the same things
you’ve always done…except for ONE thing:
You now only tease her ALONE, but not in
front of other people.
When you’re courting a woman, you should
tease her in front of other people so that you’ll raise
your own social proof, lower her social proof, and also
act like a challenge.
But that changes once you get into a
relationship with a woman. If you tease your girlfriend
in front of other people, it will seem like you’re putting
her down. It will appear you care more about your buddies
(or other women in the room) than you care about her.
At the same time, you don’t want to stop teasing
her because you don’t want the attraction to drop. So
the solution is to do it when there aren’t any other
people nearby. Make the teasing part of the “bubble”
that is around the two of you. Make it seem like you
tease her because you’re STILL in love with her.
Here’s one rule you can go by:
Compliment her when you’re in front of other
people, and tease her when you’re alone!
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- Marius Panzarella
Posted by Marius Panzarella on January 29, 2007 · Leave a Comment
“Where To Sit At A Restaurant”
In the past month, a few readers have asked
me where I think they should sit at the restaurant
when they go out for dinner with a woman. There
are also questions about whether or not a man should
let a woman face the wall when she sits.
Honestly, I think it really doesn’t matter
as long as it is a quiet spot.
If you sit facing the wall, then see it
as a way of protecting your woman. You’re being
a gentleman and letting her sit at a “safer” spot.
And if you let the woman face the wall,
then use it as opportunity to tease her. Make
up funny stories about what is happening behind
her back and see if she turns around.
Either way will work.
What happens *the most* is that you REALLY
build rapport with her during dinner. If you do
everything right, she should be focusing all her
attention on YOU anyway…so it really doesn’t
matter which way she is facing!
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Marius Panzarella
Posted by Marius Panzarella on January 25, 2007 · Leave a Comment
“How To Approach Women With A Little Wave”
As a Smart Dater, you already know you should make
eye contact and smile at a woman before you approach her.
But here’s one more thing that you can add to the duo to turn
it into an actual approach routine:
Add a little wave after the smile!
I’m serious. When you go to a nightclub and see a
woman you would like to approach, make eye contact, smile,
and then give her a little wave. See how she reacts. As long
as she doesn’t looked annoyed or disgusted, you are free
to approach.
Why does this work?
First of all, you’re getting the woman to interact
with you, which is important for an approach. If she waves
back at you, the dialogue is no longer “one-sided.” She’s
in it as much as you are.
Secondly, you’re giving her a lot of room by waving
from afar. You’re being playful and not making a scene.
But even though you’ve giving her a lot of room,
you’re still “shocking” her into giving an honest response.
Whatever facial expression you get will probably be “honest”
and not a canned response, and you can use that to decide
whether you’re going to approach or not.
By the way…
If you’ve brave or experienced, you can even add
one more step to this routine:
If she waves back and seems intrigued by you, motion
her to come over.
If she does, good.
If she doesn’t, then approach her and tease her about
being shy.
You can use this approach on the dance floor.
As you dance, try to notice if there are any girls watching
you. If there are, smile and wave at them and them motion
them to come out and join in.
A lot of times, they will. Even if not, they will
still talk about you, which will raise your social proof.
Either way, you win!
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before!
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Posted by Marius Panzarella on January 5, 2007 · Leave a Comment
“The Inside Joke Phone Opening”
Here’s a technique you can use to open a phone
conversation the first time you call a woman. Establish
an inside joke with her BEFORE you ask for her number,
and then use the inside joke to tease her when you call
her as a way of starting the conversation.
For example, let’s say I met a girl who stepped
on a puppy by accident at a party. Here’s how the
conversation would go if I were to call her:
Me: Hi.
Her: Hello?
Me: Hi. I’m looking for the dumb blonde who stepped
on the poor little puppy.
Her: Hi. Oh my God it’s you!
Me: Yeah. I’m just calling to let you know that
the puppy has died of ganggrene from the serious infection
and they’re offering a $5 reward to anyone who knows where
that dumb blonde is.
Her: (laughing) Ah…I’m so sorry.
Me: Anyway…
Now go out and try it!
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- Marius Panzarella
Posted by Marius Panzarella on December 26, 2006 · Leave a Comment
“What If A Woman Asks You If You Have A Girlfriend”
Today’s tip is going to be very short. I’m going to
answer one of the most common questions I receive every
day.
A question that I always get from my readers is:
“Marius, what if a woman asks me about my love life
or if I have a girlfriend while I’m on a first date…when
I haven’t even had a girlfriend for a long time?”
Obivously, you don’t want to “lie” to her and tell
her that you have “many” girlfriends when you don’t.
Nor do you want to tell her that you’re a loser who
hasn’t been on a date for years. (Remember: You need
to remain a challenge!)
So here’s what you tell her…
Tell her “I don’t have a girlfriend right now, but
I do have a couple of prospects.”
When you get to the “couple of prospects” part, tilt
your head a bit, look into her eyes, and smile at her. Then
IMMEDIATELY throw the ball back into HER court by asking,
“How about you? How’s your love life?”
Or…if you wanna tease her, then asks, “How about you?
How’s your love life? You even have one?”
It works like a charm!
For more techniques on how to “handle” yourself on
a date like a Smart Dater (the kind that gets all the girls!)
download my “Smart Dating Newsletter” at:
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You’re going to love it!
Thanks,
Marius