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“Why It Is Silly To Worry About What People Think”
Today’s tip will be very short…
Over my past eight years as a dating coach,
one thing I’ve noticed is that people are often
scared of what people may think of them when they
try to make a move on a woman.
Here are a few examples:
1) “They will laugh at me if she rejects me.”
2) “They are going to cockblock me.”
3) “Her friends hate me.”
4) “My friends will think I am not being myself
if I change.”
The list goes on and on!
Here is what I think:
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too busy thinking about themselves – just like you!
Don’t believe me? When was the last time
you REALLY cared when one of your friends approached
a woman and get rejected? Did your respect for the
person go down at all?
Just remind yourself of this next time
you find yourself hesitating about approaching
a woman because there are some other people around:
Life is too short to worry about what
other people think. Just go do your best
and worry about YOURSELF!!
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“How To Ask A Woman Out Without Giving Her Pressure”
Today I am going to show you how to ask
a woman out without giving her pressure.
Here are the seven steps you should follow:
1) Flirt with her.
2) Build rapport.
3) Talk about things she finds interesting.
4) Find something you have in common.
5) Mention casually, “Yeah. We should do that together
some time.”
6) See her reaction.
7) If her reaction is good, then suggest a time and
place.
So…how is this method better than just
walking up to a woman and asking her out?
Well, if you think about it, how do most
guys ask women out? They wait and wait and wait
until they get enough courage to ask a woman, or
they wait and wait and wait for the “perfect
opportunity.” As a result, when they finally
ask, there’s often a kind of awkward energy that
lingers in the air.
And guess what this energy creates? That’s
right, pressure! When it’s clear that you want to
hear a “yes” for an answer, it gives the woman
a lot of pressure. And when it comes to love and
attraction, the more pressure you give a woman,
the more you push her away.
This is especially true if the woman has
no idea that you are interested in her romantically.
Asking her out one day out of nowhere is going to
give her a shock. Even if she agrees, she may call
you later to flake out on you. (Yes, that’s how
it happens, guys!)
But by using the method I am teaching you,
you will be able to keep your cool and ask her out
SPONTANEOUSLY without giving her any pressure.
She will just see the “date” as an opportunity to
have fun with you and maybe get to know you better,
but not an “official date” that requires full
commitment.
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Posted by Marius Panzarella on January 30, 2008 · Leave a Comment
“How To Recover From A Breakup”
Here are some tips on how to recover from a breakup.
1) Cut All Contact
No matter you’re moving on or trying to get your
ex back (see www.reverseyourbreakup.com), it is very important
that you CUT ALL CONTACT with your ex.
This will help rebuild your confidence so that
you can move on.
2) Workout
Working out at the gym will help you get your
ex off your mind. The endorphins released during your
workouts will make you a happier person. The body you get
from working out will also make you a more confident
person.
3) See Your Friends
Remember all the friends that you’ve ditched
just to hang out with your ex? Start hanging out with them
again! Go hang out with them and let them lift you up!
4) Meet New Friends
You should also meet as many NEW friends as
possible while you’re single again. Being sociable is
one of the best ways to meet members of the opposite sex.
Even if you don’t want to start dating again
yet, meeting new people will help you get your mind off
your ex.
5) Spend Time With Family
Spending time with family is a good way to
“recharge” your energy while you’re single.
6) Find New hobbies
Spend some time on a new hobby or two while
you’re single. Besides taking your mind off your ex,
developing your passion for different hobbies or
subjects will definitely make you a more interesting
and well-rounded person.
Plus, chances are you will be able to meet men
or women who enjoy the same hobbies as you do.
7) Education and Self-Improvement
Take a few college classes and buy a few
self-improvement programs. You can NEVER spend
too much time or money on your self-education.
8) Go After Your Dreams
Ambition is the most powerful aphrodisiac.
Setting a long term goal will definitely help lift
you out of your blues.
9) See Other People
See other people casually. This will help
you build up your confidence again. You don’t have to
get into another long-term relationship right away…but
at least start seeing other people!
10) Improve Your Dating Skills:
Lastly, you should improve your dating skills
while you are single. You want to make sure you don’t
repeat whatever mistakes you made last time with your ex.
Remember: If you keep on doing the same things,
you’re going to keep getting the same results. I have
seen too many “stubborn” people bump into the SAME walls
OVER AND OVER with every person they date.
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Posted by Marius Panzarella on January 21, 2008 · Leave a Comment
“How To Fix Your Boyfriend or Girlfriend”
I’m often asked, “Marius, I am interested
in dating this girl but she’s a bitch . How
can I get her to change so that she will be the
perfect girlfriend?”Here’s my answer: In most cases, if
you can’t stand something about a person, you should
not get involved in a romantic relationship with
them. (I am not talking about tiny things. I am
talking about big issues.)
As a dating coach, I have worked with many men
and women who had married a person with flaws because
they thought they could “fix” the person over time.
Some of these clients even took on fixing (though they
usually call it “supporting”) the person as their
personal mission.
I feel sorry for these men and women!
In my experience, you cannot make a person
change. Ultimately, it is up to the person to change
themselves. Any kind of external stimuli you put on
a person to make them change will lose its effect
over time.
In other words, don’t expect your mate to
change much from the way they are right now. What
you see is what you get. Because for most people,
it is almost impossible to break away from their
old habits – especially if the person is past 30.
Of course, this does not mean that a person’s
behavior can never change. Just don’t EXPECT it to
change.
If you really like the person, then take the
person for who he or she is. But don’t try to change
the person even if you know it’s good for them. You
can try, but you will probably fail!
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Posted by Marius Panzarella on January 19, 2008 · Leave a Comment
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“One Good Reason For Her To Like You”
Sometimes I’m asked, “Marius, what if a woman
asks me to tell her one good reason why she should go
out with me?”
Here’s my opinion: If a woman actually asks you
this question when you ask her out, it should be
obvious that the attraction is on the low end and that
she does not really see you as boyfriend or lover
material. Otherwise, she would just said “yes” instead
of making you jump through hoops as an attempt to
get you to leave her alone.
Bottom-line: If a woman feels she can ask
you to give you reasons why she should hang out
with you, you’ve given her way too much power.
So what should you do to even the playing
ground a bit? Honestly, there’s not much you can
do, since if a woman actually asks you this question,
you have been doing a very poor job of attracting her.
But here’s what you could try:
Try to turn things around by growing
some balls and saying something like, “Because I
want you to have the most amazing evening you
have ever had.” This may pique her curiosity and
make her want to come out. But don’t count on it
or get your hopes too high, as even a great line
won’t save you when the attraction is near
zero!
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Posted by Marius Panzarella on January 18, 2008 · Leave a Comment
“What If Your Girlfriend Hangs Up On You”
A question I often get is, “Marius,
what should I do if a woman hangs up on me?”
Well, it depends on the situation.
If she’s a girl you’ve just met
or are just dating casually, then just delete
her number and move on. (Good riddance!)
But if she is your girlfriend, then
things are a bit trickier since you’re kind
of in a lose-lose situation:
If you call back, her romantic respect
and attraction may drop, and if you don’t,
the incident could be “used” against you in
the future. (It doesn’t matter who’s right
and who’s wrong. All she will remember is that
she cried for hours because you didn’t call
back.)
So here is what I suggest:
After she hangs up on you, call her
back ONCE and see if she answers. If she does,
then good. But if she doesn’t, then simply leave
a message telling her to call you back and
then DO NOT CALL AGAIN UNTIL SHE DOES.
If she doesn’t call for a week,
then don’t call for a week.
This way, you will demonstrate you
*have* tried calling back, but she was the
one who didn’t accept it. And since you did
not keep on calling her like a little puppy,
her romantic respect for you shouldn’t lower.
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“Why Do Women Fall Out Of Love Quickly?”
As a dating coach, a complaint I get all the
time is that sometimes a woman will be crazy about
a guy for a short period of time and then suddenly
turn cold. I have seen cases where a woman will literally
call a man at three in the morning every night just
to hear his voice…but then not even answer a
single phone call the week after.
So why does this happen?
The answer is quite simple: Women who fall
in love fast often fall out of love just as fast.
This is exactly why I always stress the
importance of taking things slowly…and also I
always stress the importance of acting like a
challenge with women.
Of course, acting like a challenge won’t
always stop a woman from falling out of love. The
character of a woman is extremely important. If a
woman is just flaky by nature, even if you act like
a challenge to keep her interested, she may still
swing from being in love with you to not liking
you at all. But at least in those cases, you can
consider yourself as lucky for finding out early
on that she is flaky. In the long run, getting
into a relationship with a flaky woman
but bad with strange character will only bring
a lot of your drama in your life!
Just follow the golden rule:
Act like a challenge, and if she still
acts flaky and falls out of love quickly, then she’s
not the kind of gal you would want anyway!
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“The Now And Then Goal Setting Technique For Dating”
Here’s a quick little technique that you can
use to achieve your dating goals.
1) Grab a piece of paper and a pen.
2) Write down the end results you’d like
to achieve, such as “I’d like to have a better
social life 6 months from now.”
3) Now close your eyes and imagine
six months has already passed by, and you’re still
exactly where you were 6 months ago. Nothing
has changed. No improvements have been made.
You’re still sitting at home without a social
life OR a love life.
Feel the disappointment.
Now…
Think about why you have failed, and on
that piece of paper, write down, “If only I
had…” List everything that you could have done
but didn’t do to make your goal come true.
4) Now close your eyes again, but this time
imagine how you would feel if you had achieved your
goal. Think about how proud and happy you would
be feeling. Look back and think about what you had
done to accomplish your goals.
Now on that piece of paper, write down “I
was able to do it because…” List every reason
that you can think of.
5) Put the two lists together and there you
are: a list of personalized action steps you
need to achieve your dating goals!
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“How To Exchange Phone Numbers With A Woman”
Here’s how to exchange phone numbers with a woman.
1) Make sure you have pen and paper (even
business cards) on you before you go out.
2) Make eye contact with a woman and smile.
3) If she smiles back, approach her. (Or
use other approaches you have learned
from me.)
4) Make some small talk.
5) Flirt with her and build rapport.
6) Find something in common with her,
7) Suggest doing that something “in common” together.
(Important tip: Don’t ask. Suggest!)
Example: “We should do rock-climbing together
some time.)
8) Watch her reaction.
9) If the reaction is good, rip a piece of
paper or business card in half and write
your phone number on one half. Offer it to her
along with the other half and the pen.
10) Based on the psychological rule of
reciprocity, it is more likely for her to
give you her number in return. Of course,
if she doesn’t want to give it out at all,
this technique won’t help. But if she’s already
thinking about it, then this could mean the
difference between success and failure!
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“One Easy Way To Show Affection”
Here’s one EASY way to show affection to
your girlfriend…
When you pick her up, give her one LONG
hug that lasts at least 10 seconds.
During the hug:
1) Do not kiss her.
2) Do not grab her butt.
3) Do not do anything sexual.
4) Do not say anything. Just be silent.
Little actions like this, not words,
are what show your girlfriend you really care
about her in a long-term relationship!
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Posted by Marius Panzarella on January 30, 2007 · Leave a Comment
“What Does It Mean When A Woman Keeps Looking At You?”
What does it mean if a woman keeps looking
at you?
Well, there are two possibilities. One is
that she is checking you out. Remember that in
most cases, if a woman is not interested in you
at all, she will not even “see” you. So the
fact that she is looking at you could be a sign
that she is curious about you and checking you
out.
Of course, there’s also the possibility
that she’s looking at you because she thinks
you look or act funny in a bad way. This is quite
rare because women often IGNORE the guy they
find disgusting to avoid any contact. However,
when a group of girls gather together, they
may look around for guys to make fun of because
it is “safe” to do so.
To find out which category you belong in,
check out the body language of the woman and
the “context” of the situation. If a woman is alone
and she keeps looking at you and smiling, then
chances are, she’s interested. If a woman is
in a group and the women keep looking at you
and giggling in your direction, then try smiling back
at one of them and see how they react. If she
woman gets excited, it’s a good sign. But if she turns
away in disgust while other woman keeps laughing,
then they’re probably making fun of you. (Once
again, this is quite rare. Most of the time, a
woman who keeps checking you out is at least a bit
interested in you!)
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“Where To Sit At A Restaurant”
In the past month, a few readers have asked
me where I think they should sit at the restaurant
when they go out for dinner with a woman. There
are also questions about whether or not a man should
let a woman face the wall when she sits.
Honestly, I think it really doesn’t matter
as long as it is a quiet spot.
If you sit facing the wall, then see it
as a way of protecting your woman. You’re being
a gentleman and letting her sit at a “safer” spot.
And if you let the woman face the wall,
then use it as opportunity to tease her. Make
up funny stories about what is happening behind
her back and see if she turns around.
Either way will work.
What happens *the most* is that you REALLY
build rapport with her during dinner. If you do
everything right, she should be focusing all her
attention on YOU anyway…so it really doesn’t
matter which way she is facing!
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Posted by Marius Panzarella on January 28, 2007 · Leave a Comment
“Why It Is Okay To Lead On A Date”
A comment I get quite often from flamers
and guys who have doubts about my dating tips is
that it is “wrong” for me to suggest guys to lead
on dates and have things pre-planned because
to these Feminazi’s, leading on a date is
“basically just taking away choice from women.”
I find that silly and absurd. Just because
you have everything planned out well does not
mean you are taking away “choice” from women.
In my experience, in today’s society, if a woman
does not like a suggestion for a date, she WILL
be vocal about it. For example, if you suggest
going to an Italian restaurant and she hates
Italian food, she WILL tell you she wants to
go somewhere else. And if she doesn’t speak up,
then it’s her CHOICE. There is nothing unethical
or evil about planning a date ahead of the time
so that you can be sure you’ll have a GREAT time
together.
(By the way, this is why I often stress
that you should always have a Plan B or C ready
when you’re out on a date. This way, if a woman
does not like Plan A, you can do Plan B or Plan
C and still stay in control!)
As for things like walking in front of
a woman, holding her hand while crossing the
streets, and pulling out her seat for her, these
are proper etiquettes that shouldn’t be part of
any “political correctness” debate. Anyone with
a little bit of experience with dating will
know that most women will *not* have a problem
with you opening doors or pulling out chairs
for her. If a woman REALLY thinks these actions
take away her choice, maybe she should start
dating other women.
Anyway…
As I always say, reality is what matters.
Sure, you can believe the propaganda Feminists feed
you. You can stop leading on a date and start asking
permission for everything. You can act as needy as
you want.
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Posted by Marius Panzarella on January 27, 2007 · Leave a Comment
“How To Compliment A Woman Without Losing Your Power”
I am often asked, “Marius, how can I compliment
a woman without losing my power?”
The answer is really quite simple…
Instead of trying to flatter a woman with
compliments, try to “approve” them with compliments
instead!
Although the compliment itself may carry the
same meaning, if you say it with an “approving tone”
instead of a “sucking up tone”, you will not lose any
status or power by saying the compliment.
Let’s look at some examples of the “flattery”
compliment:
1) “You look so hot in that dress…”
2) “You are such a sexy woman.”
3) “No man has ever made me feel the way you
make me feel before”
These flattery compliments are not “bad.” It’s
just that if you use them too often,the woman may
start taking you for granted and lose her romantic
respect for you.
Now let’s look at some examples of the
“approval” compliment:
1) “Not bad, not bad at all!” (Give her a
kiss, hold her close, and smell her.)
2) “You’re quite the sexy woman, you know.”
(Said in a flirty way.)
3) “If you keep cooking this great, we
should stop eating out.”
4) “I give you a 9 out of 10, and that’s
very high in my books.” (Said in a flirty way.)
See how the underlying meanings are
the same, but you’re not losing your power by
over-complimenting the woman any more?
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Posted by Marius Panzarella on January 26, 2007 · Leave a Comment
“How To Practice Smart Dating Techniques Effectively”
Here’s an important concept to remember
when you’re out practicing your dating skills:
Focus on your actions, not on the results.
For example, instead of worrying about how
many phone numbers you’ve gotten so far, worry
about how many women you’ve asked.
And instead of worrying about how many
women reacted to your flirting positively, focus
on how many women you’ve approached and the PROCESS
of flirting with these women.
Finally, instead of worrying about getting
a girlfriend or finding your soul mate, focus on
meeting as many new friends – male and female –
as possible. Expand your social circle, and love
will come.
These attitude adjustments may seem tiny
and insignificant, but they will make your
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“Should You Smile In Front Of Women?”
Apparently there are some dating coaches
out there who tell my readers they should not
smile when they are around women. The logic is that
women like “serious guys” and that smiling will
only make a guy look “goofy” and stupid.
I do not agree with this advice. Just
because you’re smiling doesn’t mean you will look
goofy or stupid. If you smile a nerdy smile that
makes you look more nervous than anything else, then
of course it will work against you. But if you smile
confidently and just share your warmth and positive
energy around the room, I absolutely do not see how
it could hurt you. (Think actors and politicians.
Do they look “stupid” or “goofy” when they smile
in front of the camera?)
Anyhow…as a “Smart Dater”, I think
you SHOULD smile warmly when you are around women
for the following reasons:
1) Smiling and acting cheerful is a major
key to getting a good social life, and having
an active social life is VERY important if
you would like to meet women.
2) It will help you have more playful
energy not just in front of women, but in front
of people in general
3) Smiling will relax your mind and body
and give you better body language.
4) It will make you happy and put you in
a positive frame of mind.
5) It will make women more receptive to
you.
6) It will help keep you out of reach
of negative people.
Now go out there and smile. After all,
smiling does not cost you anything!
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Posted by Marius Panzarella on January 17, 2007 · Leave a Comment
“What To Do When A Woman Dresses Up For You”
Here is how you should compliment a woman if she dresses up for you.
1) Act impressed right away. Don’t delay for
even a second. Drop your jaws when you check her out.
Be shocked at how good she looks. (Don’t feel this
is manipulative or dishonest. She will appreciate
the attention.)
2) Tell her she’s always beautiful, but that
she’s looking especially hot in that outfit. (Remember
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3) Act like you’re unable to keep your eyes off her.
4) Act like you’re unable to keep your hands off her.
5) Take your time to undress her slowly. You don’t
want to make her feel like she has wasted a hundred bucks
on a few minutes of fun.
6) Cuddle and make out (or beyond) with the outfit
on. A lot of women think it is sexy and romantic to be
dressed up in frilly lingerie in bed. As a female reader
puts it, it makes them “feel girly.”
7) Have fun!
Some other dating coaches (and readers) may feel
these tips are a bit too “nice”. However, keep in mind
that even that there is a difference between teasing a
girl you’ve just met to disarm her bitch shield and
teasing a girlfriend who have worn a sexy outfit
for you for a special occasion. If you want, you can
add a bit of teasing to these compliments. But keep
in mind that if you give nothing *but* negativity,
then your girlfriend may eventually stop dressing up
for you!
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“How To Avoid Dating Divas Online”
Not so long ago a reader sent me the Internet
dating profile of a psycho woman he had met on the
Internet. It was the perfect example of how the
self-descriptions of online women may not match
their ACTUAL personalities. After a nasty break-up,
my reader wanted me to take a look at the profile and
see if there were any clues that he had missed when
he first read her profile. He didn’t tell me what
was wrong with her. He just told me to read her
profile and tell him what I thought.
When I went to the site, everything in
the descriptions looked fine. The woman was
a devoted Christian who emphasized qualities
such as commitment, honest, and care on her profile.
Everything looked good.
But as soon I looked at some of the woman’s
pictures, I laughed.
One of the picture was a shot of the woman
in a classic diva pose, with her nose pointing
towards the sky.
After years of dealing with women and
dating cases, I can smell a diva from a mile
away. The women was a diva. I just knew it…
And I turned out to be right.
Here’s a little tip:
When you look at the pictures of a woman,
try to gauge her “attitude”.
If all of her pictures are warm, that’s
a good sign.
But if there are any “glamour” or “diva”
type shots…or if there’s an album of 891 pictures
on her profile (true story from another
client on Facebook), that’s a sign a woman is extremely
self-centered!
In that case, just click on “back” as
soon as possible and check out the next profile!
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“How To Perform The Number Switch On Women”
Here is a good way to get a woman’s phone
number:
1) Make eye contact.
2) Approach with an opinion or
compliment opener.
3) Make small talk based on the opener
you’ve used. (For example, talk about a band,
movie, or book.)
4) Joke around and flirt a little bit.
5) Show a genuine curiosity in the
woman.
6) Just when the energy is good, make
an excuse to leave.
7) Ask for her number at the LAST
second. (The number switch.)
The idea behind the number switch is
to not seem like you are trying to pick up
a woman until the very last moment. This will
make your move look spontaneous and smooth!
Keep in mind that this move will only
work *if* you’ve flirted with a woman before you
attempt the switch. If there is NO connection
between you and her…such as if your conversation
with her has been very mundane and boring, then
when you finally switch to asking her number,
she may be shocked and give you an excuse.
But if the chemistry has been good and the
conversation has been going very well, then
doing the number switch will improve your
odds of getting her number (and a date)
greatly.
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How To Have Better Posture
Here is a tip I received from a
reader:
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Here is a tip I discovered, which
might help some guys. Please feel free to
distribute it around if you want:
I’m fairly tall, and I was always
taller then my mates at school. This was
very useful for obvious reasons, but there
are also one or two disadvantages; I developed
a habit of bending down slightly when talking
to others. I also did it just to fit in more
with the crowd and not stick out. In discos I
felt very self conscious that people looked
at me for being taller then the rest.
The result is that today as an adult
I have bad posture. It takes a BIG extra
effort and a lot of energy for me to stand
perfectly straight. However, I found a trick
which helps me a lot: I imagine that I am
walking/standing beside/talking to a gorgeous
blonde who is slightly taller then I am. When
I do this right, BOY do I stand up straight!!
This came to me after talking to a very
attractive tall girl who was standing in
rollerblades, which gave her about 5 or 6
inches more. After 10 minutes I realised that
I was subconsciously standing as straight as
I could in order to be taller then she was…
what a challenge! I could feel it in my back
bone and muscles. Subconsciously I felt that
I just HAD to be taller then she was.
Since then I just imagine I am standing
or walking beside her.
By the way, I saw Bono (of U2) in
on the street in Dublin once – That man has
THE BEST posture and most confident, cocky
walk I EVER saw!! Talk about presence!! His
was trying to be semi-incognito I think, and
it was actually the way he carried himself
which first caught my eye. He is actually
quite a small guy, but obviously trained
very well in this area, as you might imagine.
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Hope the tip was helpful!
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“How The Shy Guy Can Get A Social Life”
Here are some tips for meeting women if you’re shy.
1) Volunteer. Read my post on volunteering to get
women if you haven’t done so yet.
2) Sign up for a weekly class such as a dance class.
Don’t hit on the girls in the class. Instead, develop
friendships with them and hang out with them to meet
OTHER girls.
3) Accept all invitations. Make going out a priority.
No matter who invited you and how busy you are, GO.
(Life is ALL about priorities. If you ARE serious
enough about improving your social life and your
love life, you WILL find time to go out.)
There is an old saying for people looking for a job,
“No job is below you.”
For the shy guy who needs to go out more, it’s
“No invitation is below you!”
4) If nobody invites you, then play the host and
host your own party. Invite everyone to come.
5) Work on your flirting WITHOUT trying to pick
up girls. To learn how to flirt, study my free
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Posted by Marius Panzarella on January 10, 2007 · Leave a Comment
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“Energy States and Approaching Women”
Here is a tip that you should remember
when you approach a woman: You need to try to
match her energy state.
Okay…let me give you an example…
Let’s say you’re at a club and a girl
is dancing on the floor. If you stay at the
back and don’t have the same “energy”, she
probably won’t notice you.
Here’s another example. Let’s say
a bunch of guys are drunk on the street. If
you’re drunk too, then you may cheer them on
or give them high-fives because you all share
the same state. But if you’re sober,
you’re probably going to think they’re crazy.
They may also think you’re a snob for giving
them dirty looks and even try to start a fight.
Bottom line…if two people react to
the same way to a situation or environment, then
there’s going to be natural rapport. An upbeat
party girl showing her moves on the dance floor
will usually want a guy who’s having fun too.
The shy girl who’s hiding in the back will
probably get scared if a guy approaches her
with “too much energy.” The closer you match
a woman’s energy state, the higher your chances
of making a successful approach!
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Posted by Marius Panzarella on January 9, 2007 · Leave a Comment
“An Arrogant Dating Tip For Guys Who Keep Dating Drama Queens”
Here’s an “arrogant” dating tip for guys who seem to
keep dating drama queens:
Do not date any woman who has more problems than
you do…
In my experience, guys who always end up with
problem women are usually drawn to crazy women:
1) Because of their own problems. (Likes attract…)
2) Because they want to make themselves feel
better for “saving” people with bigger problems
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3) Because they are addicted to relationship drama.
Therefore, if you make it a conscious effort
to avoid dating any woman who has more problems than
yourself, you will automatically screen out most of
the drama queens who’ll eventually drain all your energy
out of you.
Of course, you may find it hard to do at
the beginning.
You may find “normal” women too “boring”
for you to date.
You may even find this tip arrogant and offensive
because you think everybody deserves a chance and that
you should not avoid a woman just because she has a lot
more problems than you do.
If you feel that way, then be my guest and
keep getting involved with drama queens who’ll
eventually destroy your life – over and over.
It’s your own choice!
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Marius
P.S. So what if you have more problems than other people? Does
it means you do not deserve a chance to date? No, not at all -
but it is YOUR responsibility to work on your life first.
Don’t expecting dating to solve your life’s problems. When you
can chronically depressed or bankrupt, you should be worrying
about fixing your problems, not meeting women!
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“How To Turn A Friend Into A Girlfriend By Pulling Back”
Last time I mentioned it is possible to turn
a friend into a girlfriend by pulling back from her.
Today we will go into the details of how to do it.
Basically, when turning a friend into a
girlfriend, you should always start by flirting with
the her. If she flirts back, good. But if she doesn’t,
then obviously flirting more won’t help because she
has already put you into the friendship zone. This
is when pulling back comes in handy.
I want you to imagine two scenarios. First,
imagine yourself with a friend of the opposite sex
that you’ve been hanging out with for a long time.
There is NO romantic chemistry at all. If she suddenly
starts flirting with you, do you think you will
start liking her? Maybe, maybe not.
Now imagine BUMPING into a friend that you
haven’t seen for a LONG time. She happens to be
wearing a cute outfit that shows off her great body.
She flirts with you and suggests going out for a cup
of coffee to catch up with each other some time. Do
you think you’ll be a bit excited about getting
coffee with her?
Probably!
Here’s another good example. If you see a friend
everyday and your friend loses a lot of weight over
a period of a year, you’ll probably not going to notice
it.
But if you don’t see the person for a year,
then the first thing you say when you meet your friend
again will probably be, “Wow. What happened to you?”
Bottom line: Not seeing a person for a while
can often reset the friendship back to more “neutral
territory.” By pulling back for now, you will have
a higher chance of getting out of the “friendship
zone” and starting a relationship with the person
in the future than if you just keep on “being
good friends” with a woman.
If a woman can say to herself, “Oh, my.
He has changed! Wow…” when she sees you again,
then you’ll be officially out of the friendship
zone!
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Posted by Marius Panzarella on January 5, 2007 · Leave a Comment
“How To Deal With Your Girlfriend’s Family”
Here are some tips on how to deal with your
girlfriend’s family.
1) Be polite.
Always be polite to your girlfriend of date’s
family, even if they are agitating you. In retail, the
customer is always right; in dating, your girlfriend’s
parents are always right.
2) Have a firm handshake.
Family members can often tell if a new boyfriend
is a “loser” just from his handshake. Even if you’re not
a “loser”, you still do not want to give the impression that
you are?
3) Say something good about your girlfriend publicly.
Make sure you compliment your girlfriend in
front of the family. Her parents will lick it up.
4) Repeat good things about her family.
If possible, repeat something positive that
your girlfriend has said to you about a family member.
This will prevent her family from thinking that she’s
going to “side” with you in the future.
5) Show respect.
Leave your cockiness or attitude behind. Show
respect for every single family member – including the
“stupid brother.”
6) Compliment and act interested.
Compliment her family members and act interested
in what they do. If her father is a military dad, then
obviously, you’ve “always” wanted to join the military
because you have respect for the honor and integrity
soldiers have.
7) Don’t argue religions or politics with her family.
When you’re with her family, their beliefs
are “right”, no matter how stupid their beliefs really
are.
8) Don’t be afraid of “sucking up”.
Don’t be afraid of sucking up to her family
a little. The point is to make her parents smile.
9) Play with the family pet or the children
If your girlfriend has a family pets or
younger siblings, play with them. It’s an excellent
way of building rapport with her family!
Don’t worry if these tips seem “wimpy”.
Remember you are trying to build rapport with her
family, not attracting them sexually! Even if you
ARE the devil, you don’t want your girlfriend’s family
to KNOW you are the devil, do you?
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“Do Ultimatums Really Work?”
For those of you who have been my students for
awhile, you should know that unlike many other dating
coaches, I am against my clients giving ultimatums to
their partners except on rare occasions.
In my opinion, making a person choose between
something (or someone) and the relationship isn’t very
useful except for making YOU feel better. In many cases,
it may even hurt the relationship.
Think about it. If you force a woman to pick
between you and another man, you’ll be screwed no matter
who she picks.
If she is currently attracted to the other man
more than she is attracted to you, then she will just
leave you and chase after the other person.
If she is currently more attracted to you than
she is to the other man, then you’ll STILL be screwed
because her attraction for you will drop as soon as after
the ultimatum has been made. She’ll always see you as
the obstacle between her and the other guy (or
thing) that she wants.
In all honesty, if you have been following my
material well, there shouldn’t even be a REASON for you
to give your partner an ultimatum.
If the problem has started out as something
minor that got worse and worse over time, then my
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And if the problem is an one-time event such
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or infidelity, then you could just follow my
2-Strike Rule
and give her a chance instead of an ultimatum.
Finally, if the problem is a character problem
that has always been a part of your partner. Then
you should have followed my rules on character and
not gone out with the person in the first place!
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Posted by Marius Panzarella on January 2, 2007 · Leave a Comment
“Is Your Dating Scenario Really That Unique Or Special?”
Do you think your dating scenario (or
your situation) is really that unique or special?
I disagree.
If I could have ten dollars for every
client who told me their case was somehow “different”
or “special”, I would be a rich, rich man. As humans,
we have the tendency to pick out the differences
instead of seeing the similarities. It’s just how
our brains work. But if you want success, you
need to look at the common recurring patterns
in the world around you and see how they apply
to YOUR life.
Here’s a little example. Imagine one of
your female friends is going out with a chronic
liar and gambler. Every week, she sobs on the
phone and tells you all about the drama she
is going through.
To her, her case is probably too
“special” and “unique” for any relationship
book out there. But to you, you just think
she’s one of the many women who have fallen
for the wrong man. At the end of the day,
any experienced relationship coach can reduce
her whole case into one short little paragraph
and tell her what’s probably going to happen
to her relationship in the future based on
similar cases they have worked on in the
past. (I do it all the time!) And if she
refuses to listen to the advice, she may
one day turn into a statistic along the
hundreds, thousands, of even millions of
relationships that fail for similar reasons
every year. How’s that for uniqueness?
The same with guys who think they
are “special” because of whatever
insecurities they have. Guys always think
they are unique when they write me and say,
“Marius, you don’t understand…flirting
simply does not work for me because I…”
And guess what? I always have a
solution.
To this date (and that’s after
seven years of coaching men and women
in the dating game), I have yet to work
on a case where I cannot reduce it to
a simple explanation.
I’m serious.
In every field or activity, you can
find patterns of success and failure. Dating
is no different. Everything can be reduced
to a set of rules and suggested actions.
Just like knowing how to swing your golf
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of the game, knowing these relationship
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No dating tips today. Just want to wish everybody a happy new year!
May you all have fun and find a lot of success with your love lives
in 2007!
-Marius
Posted by Marius Panzarella on December 16, 2006 · Leave a Comment
“Is Flirting Bad Or Immoral?”
A complaint that I get from readers (well, flamers)
all the time is that I want my students to “flirt too much”.
There are many people who believe that flirting is
immoral or “wrong”. I’ve received countless emails – many of
them flame mails – about how I should stop teaching guys how to
flirt with women so that the guys can “be themselves”.
These flamers have no idea what flirting is really about.
To me, flirting is just being playful and having fun. It
isn’t about “seducing” anyone. It isn’t about playing mind games.
It’s not even about picking women up. It’s about making other
people feel good.
Just because I flirt a little doesn’t mean I am sleazy or
manipulative. In fact, people (hopefully including you if we have
had email correspondents in the past) often agree that I’m one of
the warmest and most sincere guys they’ve ever met. Yet, I flirt
with anything that crosses my path, be it women, animals, or even
little old ladies waiting for the bus!
If you have any “moral issues” with flirting, then just
keep in mind that flirting is a way of giving, not a way of taking.
Here’s what a Christian reader of mine has suggested to me
in the past. (Not exact quote…I am paraphrasing him…)
“See flirting as a way of giving attention to people. Think
of it as a way to share your warmth. See it as a way to make other
people feel good about themselves, not as a way to get anything
in return.”
So go ahead and flirt all you want!
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Posted by Marius Panzarella on December 14, 2006 · Leave a Comment
“What To Do With A Jealous Girlfriend”
I am often asked, “What should I do if my girlfriend
is jealous?”
Well…it depends on HOW jealous she is.
If she’s a normal woman who gets jealous every once in
awhile, then you don’t have too much to worry about. In fact,
it’s good that she DOES gets a bit jealous every now and then.
It shows she still sees you as a stud.
In that case, you can just “defuse” her jealousy by
teasing her playfully . For example, if your girlfriend calls
a woman a bitch after the woman talks to you at a party, just
say something like, “Nah. She’s not a bitch. She just has
good taste. And so do you.” Then give her a kiss.
Problem solved.
But if your girlfriend is one of those women with a
“chronic” jealousy problem, then you’re in trouble.
Never forget that a person’s jealousy usually comes
from insecurity. This is why EVERYONE gets jealous every
once in awhile…because nobody is perfect and we all do have
our own insecurities.
So if a woman is VERY jealous ALL THE TIME, it’s
a sign that she is very insecure…
And guess what?
Insecurity means low self-esteem, and low self-esteem
means BAD CHARACTER.
If you’re a student of the “Smart Dating System”, then
you already know what bad character means…
FIND ANOTHER WOMAN!
I have said this a thousand times and I will say it
again:
Remember that you cannot change a woman’s character.
You have to accept her for who she is BEFORE you enter the
relationship. If you try to play therapist, her attraction
for you is going to drop very fast and you’ll most likely
end up as her “friend”.
In other words, you CANNOT do anything to “help”
her become less jealous. You cannot cure a woman’s jealousy
or insecurity. It’s something that she has to do on her
own.
The other alternative, of course, is to learn to
“tolerate” her jealousy. But let me warn you now: as time
goes on, it will get harder and harder, and you’ll probably
be in for a very rough ride.
You have been warned!
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Marius