8 Tips On How To Deal With Rejection and Failure
Posted by Marius Panzarella on May 17, 2008 · Leave a Comment
“8 Tips On How To Deal With Rejection and Failure”
When you first go out to practice the dating
techniques I’ve taught you, you’re bound to
hear a few “no’s” from the women you meet. (Actually,
this is an ongoing process. You will never have a
100% success rate.) So here are a couple of ways
to make the rejections easier to take and more
valuable to you.
1) Disassociate yourself.
Look at the rejection as an event, not as a rejection
of your inner core. Think in “third-person” as if
you’re watching a movie.
2) Think about “why”.
Think about why the woman rejected you. Think back
on your actions. Were you being too pushy? Did
you not build up enough chemistry before you asked
for a date? Try to locate any potential blindspots.
3) Learn from it.
Learn from your mistakes and try to improve each time.
If you improve just a tiny bit each time, you’ll
improve a lot in the long run!
4) Try In A New Environment
If you few like a certain environment may be holding
your back, try the following: Take your practices
to a new environment and see if you get different
results.
For example, if the nightclub setting does like
work for you, try taking a few dance classes, and
so on.
5) Hang Out With A More Successful Person
How do you get smarter? By hanging out with
smarter people! They’ll be able to point out
your mistakes when you make them.
One of the best ways to get really good at something
is to get active feedback from someone who is
already good at it. It’s like playing sports.
If you constantly play against opponents that are
stronger than you, you will learn faster than if
you constantly play against opponents who are
not as good as you.
6) Make New Connections In Your Mind
Take the time to organize your new thoughts and
ideas. Make connections between different topics
and ideas that weren’t there before. You don’t
really get something until you can see all the
connections! Ask yourself questions such as,
“How does flirting fit into building attraction?”
7) Take a Break If Necessary
If you feel like you are hitting the same
wall over and over, then take a small break so
you have time to recharge. The more you push
when you’re already frustrated, the more
resistance you will build. Sometimes when you
take a small break and then come back, you will
find the obstacles will have disappeared on
its own.
8) Take the Time to Learn’
It is hard to bounce back from failure
if you don’t even have a direction. That is
why it is very important to pick up the knowledge
you need to be successful. Instead of learning
everything through your own mistakes, try to
learn everything through other people’s mistakes.
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Thanks,
Marius Panzarella
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What If You Are Overwhelmed By Her Beauty
Posted by Marius Panzarella on January 11, 2007 · Leave a Comment
“What If You’re overwhelmed By Her Beauty?”
Here are three techniques you can use to keep yourself
under control when you feel you’re overwhelmed by a woman’s
beauty.
1) Pick Out A Flaw
The first technique you can use is to pick out a flaw
on a woman’s face or body when you talk to her. For example,
if her nose has a funny shape, then try to “find that funny”
and think about it as you chat with her.
2) Use The Old Boxers Technique
The second technique you can use is to imagine the
woman in a pair of old, funky looking underwear. This technique
is actually used by actors to overcome their stage fright
when they audition for roles in movies. I have no idea why
it works for many people – it just does. See if it works for
you too.
3) Hang Around Beautiful Women More Often
The last technique is a long-term technique. You should
try to befriend beautiful women and just hang around them until
you’re comfortable hanging around or having frequent physical
contact with women. Don’t worry about hitting on them or getting
into their pants. You’re just using them to train yourself. In
time, you will be “used” to having beautiful women around you
and when you meet a new woman who’s considered beautiful by most
guys, you won’t be scared to approach her anymore.
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- Marius Panzarella
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How To Use The Unique Compliment
Posted by Marius Panzarella on January 6, 2007 · Leave a Comment
“How To Use The ‘Unique’ Compliment”
Most people wish they were somehow “different”
or “above” the rest of society, and you can use this to your
advantage in a relationship or courtship.
When you make a compliment, remind the person
how “different” you think they are from the rest of society –
in a good way, of course. They will be very flattered.
Here are some examples:
“I love how you are able to analyze situations
most people don’t even understand.”
“I am glad you understand. Not many people do.”
“I just love how good you make the people
around you feel. It’s like you’re their guardian
angel.”
“I love your light makeup, it makes you look
classy. Many women don’t realize they do not need heavy
makeup to look pretty.”
With a bit of practice, you can even turn
this into a compliment-command:
“I am glad I married a woman who’s not shallow
like many women out there.”
“I am glad I married a woman who doesn’t waste
money on designer handbags.”
This is a very powerful technique. So
make sure you don’t abuse it!
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The Inside Joke Phone Opening
Posted by Marius Panzarella on January 5, 2007 · Leave a Comment
“The Inside Joke Phone Opening”
Here’s a technique you can use to open a phone
conversation the first time you call a woman. Establish
an inside joke with her BEFORE you ask for her number,
and then use the inside joke to tease her when you call
her as a way of starting the conversation.
For example, let’s say I met a girl who stepped
on a puppy by accident at a party. Here’s how the
conversation would go if I were to call her:
Me: Hi.
Her: Hello?
Me: Hi. I’m looking for the dumb blonde who stepped
on the poor little puppy.
Her: Hi. Oh my God it’s you!
Me: Yeah. I’m just calling to let you know that
the puppy has died of ganggrene from the serious infection
and they’re offering a $5 reward to anyone who knows where
that dumb blonde is.
Her: (laughing) Ah…I’m so sorry.
Me: Anyway…
Now go out and try it!
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Do Not Call A Woman For A Date Until You Have Read These Rules
Posted by Marius Panzarella on November 26, 2006 · 1 Comment
“Don’t Call A Woman For A Date Until You’ve Read These Rules”
Don’t call a woman until you’ve read the following
rules:
1) Don’t call to Chit-Chat: The longer you talk,
the more likely the conversation will become
boring. Don’t risk it. Keep all conversations
short.
2) Call Only To Make A Date: When you call a
woman, you only call to make a date. Wait until the
date for everything else!
3) Talk Slowly: Most guys talk too fast and sound
way too eager. Relax, and talk slowly!
4) Use Your Flirty Voice: Don’t sound like a robot
when you’re on the phone asking her out. Use your
flirty voice.
5) Sound Cheerful: The energy of your tone is very
important. If you sound cheerful, the woman will
feel more comfortable accepting the date from you.
6) Don’t Leave Her Messages: Messages are pretty
useless. A lot of women just screen them and don’t
answer them. Or they’ll just “forget” to call back.
7) Don’t Call Her Too Often: Don’t call her more
than twice a day. If you call her at lunch and she
doesn’t pick up, wait 6 hours and call her again in
the evening. If you call her in the evening and
she still doesn’t pick up, wait 2 days before you
call again!
8) If a family member answers, just ask for
her to call your back. Don’t leave any messages
about meeting her, etc. You don’t want her to be
embarrassed!
9) Hang Up Before She Does: Keep all conversations
short and hang up as soon as you’ve made the date!
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