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A Flirting Trick For Instant Messaging

Posted by Marius Panzarella on September 12, 2007 · Leave a Comment 

“A Flirting Trick For Instant Messaging”

Here is a flirting trick that works very
well over Instant Messaging and texting.

Send something that is blatantly flirty
or outrageous, and then before the woman can answer,
follow up with a SECOND message and change topics.

Here’s the logic behind this flirting technique…

When you’re chatting with a woman, if you
just “play it safe” and never take any risks by flirting
with her, then you’re not going to build any attraction.
Sooner or later, the woman will probably start seeing
you as a friend. At the same time, if you send a woman
a really flirty message that she does not quite know
how to respond to, she may just “keep it open in a
window” and wait for you to say something else. And
if you wait awhile and send her another message to
keep the conversation going after this awkward
silence, both of you may think something is wrong.
You may see it as rejection and feel discouraged, and
she may start believing that you “should” be rejected.

On the other hand, if you send her a second message
to change topics AS SOON AS you have sent her a flirty or
over-the-top message, then she has a new conversation anchor
that she can use to keep the conversation going no
matter what her reaction to your first message is. The
second message will take away the seriousness of the
first message and she will be free to laugh at or respond
to your joke without worry.

With this technique, you can “slip in” a lot of
blatantly over-the-top flirty messages in a chat conversation
that might otherwise have offended a woman or scared her away.
Using this technique, you can just keep going and going
with your flirting – so that her attraction for you will keep
on growing and growing!

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What If An Ex Keeps On Bugging You

Posted by Marius Panzarella on May 11, 2007 · Leave a Comment 

“What If An Ex Keeps On Bugging You”

Here’s how to deal with an ex who won’t stop
bugging you:

Be stern and cut contact, period.

The longer you try to be his or her friend,
the harder it will be for them to move on.

Next time your ex calls, just say, “I’m making
things worse for you by talking to you. I think it would
be best if we do not talk for awhile.”

Of course, your ex will probably freak out and
beg you to stay in contact. But no matter what he or
she says, stand your grounds and cut contact.

Change your phone number and block their email
if you have to. If they try stalking you or calling
from pay phones, don’t respond to them. As soon as
you recognize the voice, hang up. Don’t even bother
to hear the excuse. Just hang up without saying
anything.

It may sound harsh – but it is necessary.
If you act soft, they will never move on!
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One Way of Reframing That Marius Uses To Help His Clients With Their Dating Problems

Posted by Marius Panzarella on January 22, 2007 · Leave a Comment 

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Today I am going to give away one of the personal
techniques I use to help my clients when they come to me
for therapy or help.

Quite often, when I see a client or reader has
a certain self-limiting belief, I will ask, “So can
you tell me there’s not a single with the same problem the client has> who is action or outcome>?”

Here are some examples:

1) “Do you think there’s not a single bald
man in this world who is dating a good woman?”

2) “Do you think there’s not a single guy
in the world who is dating a taller woman?”

3) “Do you think there’s not a single black
man in your town who is dating a white woman?”

4) “Do you think there is not a single
guy in a wheelchair who is happily married?”

5) “Do you think no fat guy has ever lost
weight in this world?”

Here’s a little exercise for you. Think
about what self-limiting beliefs YOU have and
think of exception cases.

Then think about why there are guys in
the same situation as you who are having more
success than you. (Hint: It’s not luck.) Think
about what they are doing DIFFERENT than you…
and then do the same!

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Developing Rapport Through Voice Tone Matching

Posted by Marius Panzarella on January 21, 2007 · Leave a Comment 

“Developing Rapport Through Voice Tone Matching”

Here is an exercise I would like you to
do to work on your voice tone matching skills.
This is an important technique you can use to
build rapport with women.

1) Choose an unimportant situation you
don’t get about…with someone you don’t care
about.

Pick a situation where you don’t care
about the outcome at all, such as a casual
conversation on the bus or a meeting with a
friend of a friend.

2) Match their voice tone.

As you talk to the person, pay attention
to the tempo and voice tone of their voice. Try
to adjust your own tempo and voice tone until you
are matching theirs.

Now see if there is a feeling of rapport
in the conversation.

3) Mismatch their voice tone.

Next, try to mismatch your tempo and voice
tone on purpose. Notice how this impacts the
rapport.

4) Go back to matching

Finally, change back to matching the person’s
voice tone. See if you regain the rapport.

With a little bit of practice, you will
be able to build rapport by matching a person’s
voice. You will get so used to it that it
will become second nature to you. That is when you
can used my advanced conversation techniques to
“lead” a conversation with your voice tone!

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Conversation Deepeners You Can Use On Women

Posted by Marius Panzarella on January 18, 2007 · Leave a Comment 

“Conversation Deepeners You Can Use On Women”

Last time I talked about potential conversation
topics you can have with a woman. Today I am going to
show you how to deepen your conversations with women
with my conversation deepeners.

Here are some sample conversation deepeners:

1) “If you had all the money in the world and didn’t have to worry about working, what would you be doing?”

2) “What did you want to do when you were a kid?”

3) “What is the craziest thing you have done?”

4) “If you could have one wish, which would it be?”

5) “How do you feel when you meet someone you are instantly attracted to?”

6) “Were you a bad kid or a good kid?”

7) “How about now? Are you are bad girl or a girl good?”

8) “What is the one thing you have always wanted to do?”

9) If you could be any character from any movie, who would you be?

10) “What were you like when you were a kid?”

Remember that you will still need to build basic
rapport before you can use these conversation deepeners.
I will show you how to do that in my next few articles!

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Posted by Marius Panzarella on January 15, 2007 · Leave a Comment 

“100 Dating And Relationship Tips From Marius”

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"Dating For Workaholics"

Posted by Marius Panzarella on January 8, 2007 · Leave a Comment 

“Dating For Workaholics”

If you’re a workaholic who is without a
girlfriend, here’s a bit of advice:

Leave time for your social life, or you’re
NOT going to find a girlfriend any time soon.

As I always say, life is all about priorities.
If you’re a busy person, then your work will always
expand to fill up how ever much time you give your
career. So if you’re a workaholic, leave time for
your social life, and you’re going to find yourself
without any friends (or family) in a few years.

And if you’re currently in a relationship
and you often get accused of not spending enough time
with your girlfriend, think about whether the
accusation has any merits to it. The best way to look
at this is by looking at the character of your partner.
If your partner has any character issues, financial
issues due to bad financial management, or just likes
to play around and do no work, then there’s a
possibility that your partner is complaining just
because you’re not spending 24/7 playing with them.
But if your partner is a reasonable person with a
pretty stable career, then chances are, they might
be right. In that case, go ask others if they think
you’re working too hard, and think about how you
might adjust your lifestyle.

Sit down with your partners and have a good chat.
See how much time they want to spend with you. Make
sure you are talking in the same language. (For
example, “more time” might mean an hour a day to
a person or three hours a day to another person.)
Be flexible and work together to come with a certain
agreement that works for both parties.

As I always say, life is all about priorities.
If you’re a busy person, then your work will always
expand to fill up how ever much time you give your
career. So if you’re a workaholic, it is very
important that you find a way to block off some
time for your relationship, or in a few years,
you may not even have a relationship anymore!

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Office Romance Tips – If You Must Engage In Office Romance

Posted by Marius Panzarella on January 7, 2007 · Leave a Comment 

“Office Romance Tips – If You Must Engage In Office Romance”

If you’re a long-time reader, you should already
know that I am very much against office romance. As I have
said in the past, having a romance at the workplace is
one of the quickest ways to lose both. But if you absolutely
MUST engage in office romance, here are three important rules
to follow:

1) One of you should volunteer to transfer to
another department…before ANYONE finds out that you are
together.

2) Be discreet. Don’t tell anyone. Not even your
close friends at the office.

3) Avoid showing ANY kind of intimacy at the office,
even if you appear to be alone.

4) Avoid taking breaks together.

5) Avoid unnecessary business trips together.

6) Don’t use any of the company’s resources for
romantic purposes.

Breaking these rules could cost you your job…
especially if there is a no-office-romance policy at
your company!

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The Most Powerful Word In A Smart Daters Vocabulary

Posted by Marius Panzarella on January 3, 2007 · Leave a Comment 

“The Most Powerful Word In A Smart Dater’s Vocabulary”

Today I am going to teach you the most powerful
word in a Smart Dater’s vocabulary.

It’s not “flirting”.

It’s not “teasing”.

It’s not “love”.

It’s definitely not “seduction”.

It’s not even “attraction”.

It’s…”next”!

As I’ve stressed in the past, the greatest power
you can have in a relationship is the power to leave
at any time. Once you realize that nobody is forcing you
to be in the relationship and that you do not “need” the
other person in order to survive, you’ll demand respect
for yourself and set clear boundaries about what you
will and will not tolerate, which ironically will raise
your girlfriend’s romantic respect for you and give
you more power in the relationship.

I know it’s hard to say “next” when you’re very
much in love with a woman. You may want to tolerate her
bad behavior even though it is driving you crazy. You
don’t want to do anything that might lead to a breakup.
Being with your girlfriend feels great, and you don’t
want to risk losing her.

But guess what? Unless you’re willing to take
that risk, your girlfriend will keep taking you for granted
and her romantic respect for you will continue to drop –
until she finally gets tired and finds herself another
man.

Is that what you want?

Think about this one really hard!

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How To Be Flexible And Compromise In A Relationship

Posted by Marius Panzarella on January 2, 2007 · Leave a Comment 

“How To Be Flexible And Compromise In A Relationship”

If you want a strong and healthy relationship,
you’re going to have to learn to compromise with your
partner.

If you aren’t willing to be flexible, it means
you are either not mature enough to be in a serious
relationship (flaw in your character) or you just don’t
like the person enough to compromise. The same goes for
your partner.

Here are two ways to compromise:

1) Find the middle ground. Take the “average” between
your differences and meet each other half way.

2) Alternate. You compromise this time, your partner
compromises next time.

If you do choose the second way, remember that it
should be “balanced” over time. Even if one side is pushier
than the other, both parties should make just about the
same amount of compromises over time. If one party constantly
gives in, there’ll be a power imbalance, which will lead
to a loss of romantic respect and eventually a loss of
attraction.

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