Should You Get Your Ex Back?
Posted on March 8, 2008 - Filed Under Breaking Up, Dating Tips, Preventing Breakups, Staying Together
“Should You Get Your Ex Back?”
A question that I am asked all the time is, “Marius,
should I get my ex back?”
Well…it depends…
If you are thinking about getting your ex back,
the first thing you should think about is why you guys
broke up in the first place, as in if it was a character
or an attraction issue. If it’s just an attraction or
communication issue, then by all means try to raise the
attraction and save your relationship.
But if you guys had broken up because of relationship
drama, such as if you or your ex had too much emotional
baggage to be involved with a romantic relationship, then
I’d recommend against getting back together. If it was
you who had character problems, then fix yourself first
and then think about getting back together. If it was your
ex who had character problems, then be glad that the
relationship is over and don’t even think about getting
back together.
This will require an objective review of your
ex’s and your own character. If you’re still too emotional
to have clear judgment, then here’s a simple test: Think
about whether your close friends and family hate your ex
do. If they do, chances are, there’s something wrong with
your ex that you don’t see.
You should also think about how compatible you
actually are with your ex. If it’s “just too hard” for
you guys to be together, maybe you both would be better off
being with someone who’d create less drama.
If you still want to get your ex back after
cooling down and thinking things through, then download
a copy of my “Reverse Your Breakup” course at:
http://www.datingsupportcenter.com/reverseyourbreakup.html
It will show you how to get your ex back, step-by-step.
If you’re not broken up yet but would like to
improve your relationship, then get my “Smart Relationships
Course” at:
http://www.smartrelationshipscourse.com
- Marius Panzarella
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