Should You Engage In Office Romance?
Posted on April 1, 2007 - Filed Under Dating Tips, Office Romance, Relationship Tips
“Should You Engage In Office Romance?”
I am often asked by my readers, “Marius, what is
your view on office romance?”
I think it is like playing with fire.
In today’s world, it is simply WAY too easy to get
screwed as a guy when you hit on girls at the office.
Heck…you could even lose your job.
For example, what if she calls for sexual harrassment?
Now…you may be thinking, “But she seems like a cool
person…I don’t think she would do that…”
But what if the relationship goes south in a few
months? Have you seen how crazy and irrational some women get
after a breakup?
Speaking of breakups, what are you going to do if
you breakup with her after a few dates? Keep in mind that
as a co-worker, she will be saying her day after day, week
after week. If there’s ANY sort of weird “post-breakup vibe”,
it’s going to stay there until one of you quits.
Here’s another potential scenario that has happened
to one of my readers:
What if your boss likes her too and discovers that
you like her as well? Don’t laugh…I’ve seen it happen.
Or take the following example: What if a co-worker
has a crush on the same girl and starts backstabbing you
in front of the boss?
As you can say, these kinds of situations can turn
UGLY really fast.
So…here are my two cents to office romance:
KNOW WHAT YOU’RE GOING INTO.
If possible, get HER to pick you up. Have a playful
personality…and flirt in a VERY subtle way. ALWAYS EXAMINE
HER REACTIONS. If she flirts back, then advance a little.
Otherwise, NO.
It’s better to get her to come onto you.
Or even better, consider dating women OUTSIDE work.
If you sign up for my free dating newsletter, I
will teach you many powerful methods that you can use to
attract women.
You can check it out at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
-Marius Panzarella
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