Picking Up Waitresses and Bartenders
“Picking Up Waitresses and Bartenders”
A question that I get all the time is, “I don’t know
if this bartender is interested in me or not. Is she flirting
because she likes me, or is she just flirting for tips? How can
I tell?”
Well, I can tell you right now that in 90% of cases, a waitress
is flirting for tips. That’s just reality. Anyone who makes
a living in tips has learned the skills to flirt in his or
her way – be it the valet, the cab driver, or the ballhop.
Heck, even I am flirting with you right now – so that
you will buy my ebook, Right?
So…what should you do if you want to flirt with a waitress
or bartender?
First start by teasing her about bad service. Make
sure you keep a smile on your face to show you are just kidding.
For example. if you are ordering wine, show disgust when you
taste it. Then smile and say, “Bet you don’t get that very often.
Have you ever seen anyone send their wine back?”
Next, start to have longer and longer conversation
exchanges each time she comes to your table. Start talking about
things that are outside of her work environment and see how she
responds.
Build rapport based on non-threatening topics such as:
- Family
- Hobby
- Day Occupation
- Plans for the future
If she is more receptive to your advances than she is
to other customers, then go for her phone number *and* Facebook
account. (Some girls don’t want to give their numbers out but
don’t mind giving out their Facebok accounts.) Or even better,
instead of trying to get her number, ask her when her shift
ends and offer to meet her at the bar for a drink.
If that’s not possible, then tell her you’ll be with
some friends at a popular bar later on, and that she’s welcome
to join you. You can even offer her number so she can call you
if she needs a ride.
Beyond that, you will just have to leave it up to chance.
Waitresses and bartenders do get hit on a lot and may
not be interested in you. That’s okay. Just move on.
After all, they are paid to flirt back! So why
not just flirt and not worry about it?
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Thanks,
Marius
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“Marius…I just want to thank you for showing me all the little
secrets about attracting women. Thanks to you, I am now dating
the girl I’ve had a crush with for 2 years. We’re engaged and
getting married next fall! Thanks!”
-L.C. from Seattle, Washington
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So their is this waitress that seems to like me but im not real good at picking up the signs,as i have been out of the dating game awhile. Anyway; She always seems to go out of her way to talk to me even if she isnt serving me.She or somtimes i will subtley touch hands,arm,shoulder in passing or when im checking out. She likes to tell me whats going on in her life even if i do not initiate a conversation, and lots of eye contact and light smiles from both of us. After reading about some of the signs of flirting. It would appear that i am a complete idiot and that she is probably interested in me. We have talked briefly a few times and trying not to scare her.