10 Ways To Make A Girl Feel Comfortable At Your Place
Posted on October 9, 2008 Filed Under Asking Women Out, Dating Tips, First Dates, Hooking Up, Relationship Tips, Where To Meet Women | Leave a Comment
“10 Ways To Make A Girl Feel Comfortable At Your Place”
It is in a woman’s nature to enter a man’s
household and domesticate his life. This is why having
a nice pad is such an important part of courtship. If a woman
can see herself as part of your world, her attraction
for you will go up. If she is disgusted or uncomfortable,
her interest will probably drop. So here are 10 ways to
make a woman feel comfortable at your place.
1) Have a Nice Place
Obviously, the first thing to do is to get
a nice place. By nice, I don’t mean expensive. Just be
serious about apartment hunting and find a “cool”
place even if it takes you a few months to find
one. If you know any friends who are great at finding
bargains, ask for their help.
2) Keep It Clean
Girls don’t like messy apartments. If you
want to take things further, you better make sure
your place is spotless (by guy standards, which
isn’t that high) before you bring her back.
3) Personalize It
Clean and tidy doesn’t mean “showroom
empty.” If your place is too bare, she may find
that creepy because you may seem like the kind
of shady guy who moves from town to town.
4) Have a Picture Or Two
To show that you are a real human being
and to generate conversation, have a few pictures
from your past. Guys without any pictures are,
once again, creepy.
If you want to build social proof, then
have cool, adventurous pictures. It always works.
5) Have Good Reading Material
Have some intellectual books or magazines
on your bookshelf. Women love to check out what
kind of books and magazines you read in order
to assess your education level and personality.
6) Be Classy
Be classy. If you can afford it, have
a nice stereo system or home theatre. If you
can’t afford it, then buy cheap poster prints of
famous paintings and put them up on your wall.
(I am not asking you to be fake here. I assume
that you will actually go read up on the
paintings!)
7) Act Casual As If She’s Been There Before
When she shows up, act like as if
she’s been there before. This will create
a relaxed atmosphere for her. Don’t do the
tour stuff. Just sit down on a couch and
relax.
8) Let Her Cook
Set up a cooking date so that she
can cook for you. As soon as a woman steps
into a kitchen and cooks for a man, she
sees herself as part of the domain.
9) Display Trophies
If you have any cool trophies,
display them as a way of building social
proof.
10) Display Some Sort of Musical Instrument
If you play any musical instruments,
display it as a way of building social
proof and generating conversation topics.
For more dating tips, check out
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http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
Thanks,
Marius Panzarella
How To Be A Cool Guy With Women
Posted on September 30, 2008 Filed Under Approaching Women, Being A Challenge, Body Language, Confidence Tips, Dating Tips, Inner Game | Leave a Comment
“How To Be A Cool Guy With Women”
If you look around you, you will
probably see that “cool guys” tend to be
more popular than “boring guys.”
Sure, you can be nice and you can
be good-looking. You can even hang out
with women all the time. But if the women
around you don’t think you are “cool” or
exciting, then they are just going to see
you as a “friend.”
A fellow dating coach, Jay Julio,
has written a new book on “How To Be The
Cook Guy With Women.” I have read it and
I can say that it’s packed with some very
solid material.
In fact, I liked it so much that
I’ve talked him into giving my readers a special
discount. (This offer is exclusive to my
readers and NOT available *anywhere* else.)
You can check it out at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com/coolguyspecial.html
You’ll learn:
- What “bad boys”, jerks, and jocks do
differently than “average” guys that
cause women to chase and fawn over them.
- What 90% of men do that make women
think they’re “losers”…
- What women really mean when they say
that they want a guy with a sense of humor
and how to develop the SPECIFIC kind of
sense of humor women would gladly die for.
- 3 techniques that make sure you ALWAYS
know what to say next.
- How to make a much better impression
on a woman before you even open your mouth
than Pick-Up Artists can make after 20 minutes
of conversation.
…and much, much more!
Anyhow…you can check out the special
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Do so before this exclusive offer expires!
Thanks,
Marius Panzarella
