How To Make More Friends And Become More Popular
Posted on July 27, 2008 Filed Under Conversation Tips, Dating Tips, Social Life | Leave a Comment
“How To Make More Friends And Become More Popular”
As I always say, the guys that are
best with women are often the guys that are
the most sociable. So here are twenty ways
to be more popular and make more friends.
1) Have a natural curiosity towards people.
2) Smile a lot and be friendly.
3) Talk about what other people want to hear about.
4) Be positive and give people encouragement.
5) Be a good listener.
6) Flatter people sincerely.
7) Have fun hobbies.
Volunteer
9) Mention people’s names when you speak.
10) Make time to see people.
11) Remember birthdays.
12) Connect friends with other friends. This
way they will all remember you or mention you
when they see each other.
13) Act like a leader.
14) Raise your social proof.
15) Leave people better than you find them.
16) Don’t be intimidating.
17) Ignore rejection. There are plenty of
other people who will want to be your friend.
18) Speak out and seek attention.
19) Join a co-op sports team.
20) Take hobby classes.
21) Organize study sessions if you are still
in school.
22) Join hobby clubs.
23) Be reliable and trustworthy.
24) Think about how you can help other people
with their goals.
25) Make small talk with everyone you meet,
period!
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Thanks,
Marius Panzarella
How To Lift Yourself Out of Dating Blues
Posted on July 20, 2008 Filed Under Breaking Up, Dating Tips, Inner Game, Relationship Tips | Leave a Comment
“How To Lift Yourself Out of Dating Blues”
One of the most common questions
I get is how a person can get out of their
“dating blues” when they are down. This
may include moving on after a bad breakup
or getting out of depression after being
rejected.
This is my honest answer:
Do something that will have long
term benefits.
From my experience, depressed people
need to feel alive. It is quite useless to
tell them to be happy or just to do things
they like. When you are depressed and drained
emotionally, it is hard to get pleasure out
of anything - even in activities you would
normally enjoy.
However, doing things that can
give you long term benefits will make you
feel like you are in control of yourself,
and it is a great feeling to feel like
you’re taking responsibility for yourself!
Set objectives and goals that have
long-term benefits, be it working out,
taking a class, or simply cleaning. By
focusing on the future instead of immediate
gratification, not only will you feel more
in control and have more confidence, you
will also see that you have a future to
look forward to!
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Marius Panzarella
