One Way of Reframing That Marius Uses To Help His Clients With Their Dating Problems
Posted on August 22, 2007 - Filed Under Dating Tips
“One Way of Reframing That Marius Uses To Help His Clients With Their Dating Problems”
Today I am going to give away one of the personal
techniques I use to help my clients when they come to me
for therapy or help.
Quite often, when I see a client or reader has
a certain self-limiting belief, I will ask, “So can
you tell me there’s not a single
Here are some examples:
1) “Do you think there’s not a single bald
man in this world who is dating a good woman?”
2) “Do you think there’s not a single guy
in the world who is dating a taller woman?”
3) “Do you think there’s not a single black
man in your town who is dating a white woman?”
4) “Do you think there is not a single
guy in a wheelchair who is happily married?”
5) “Do you think no fat guy has ever lost
weight in this world?”
Here’s a little exercise for you. Think
about what self-limiting beliefs YOU have and
think of exception cases.
Then think about why there are guys in
the same situation as you who are having more
success than you. (Hint: It’s not luck.) Think
about what they are doing DIFFERENT than you…
and then do the same!
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Thanks,
Marius Panzarella
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