Next Time You Envy A Good Looking Guy…
Posted on June 18, 2007 - Filed Under Confidence Tips, Dating Tips, Hooking Up, Preventing Breakups, Relationship Tips, Staying Together
“Next Time You Envy A Good Looking Guy…”
Next time you envy a good looking guy for his
natural ability to attract women through his good looks,
think about what I have to say today:
In the long run, good looks won’t help. In
fact, it may even hurt you.
If you’re interested in a long-term relationship,
then no matter how good looking you are, if you don’t have
the personality or the “substance” to keep a woman, she’s
going to leave you sooner or later. Good looks will help
you get in the door, but it won’t help you keep her.
Even if you’re interested in just “playing the game,”
then having good looks will help you at the beginning…
but not forever.
I have many 30 or 40 something readers who used
to be very good-looking. In fact, some of them used to
look so good looking that they had never had trouble meeting
random women when they were in their early twenties…
But not anymore.
Everybody gets old and ugly. It’s just a fact
of life. You can delay it by exercising and eating well,
but eventually your age WILL catch up on you. Your
metabolism will slow, your hair will thin out, and your
good looks will fade.
And if you have been relying on your looks to
attract women all your life without really planning
ahead - such as getting married with a nice girl
instead of playing the field or working on your career
to improve your cumulative score - eventually you’re
going to wake up one day and realize that you have
“turned into a loser.”
When you’re in your 20’s, having good looks can
help you boost your cumulative score and get the ladies.
But in the long run, if your cumulative score relies
too much on looks, when your good looks go away you’re
going to be left with nothing. Your life will literally
be turned upside down as you go from “stud to dud” because
you never learned how to attract women through
your personality or skills.
I see it happen all the time!
Here’s the moral of the day: No matter how
good or bad looking you are, focus on your skills,
attitude, and personality.
In twenty years, they are all that’s
going to matter!
To learn how to improve your skills with women,
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http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
Thanks,
Marius
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