Is Flirting Bad Or Immoral?
“Is Flirting Bad Or Immoral?”
A complaint that I get from readers (well, flamers)
all the time is that I want my students to “flirt too much”.
There are many people who believe that flirting is
immoral or “wrong”. I’ve received countless emails – many of
them flame mails – about how I should stop teaching guys how to
flirt with women so that the guys can “be themselves”.
These flamers have no idea what flirting is really about.
To me, flirting is just being playful and having fun. It
isn’t about “seducing” anyone. It isn’t about playing mind games.
It’s not even about picking women up. It’s about making other
people feel good.
Just because I flirt a little doesn’t mean I am sleazy or
manipulative. In fact, people (hopefully including you if we have
had email correspondents in the past) often agree that I’m one of
the warmest and most sincere guys they’ve ever met. Yet, I flirt
with anything that crosses my path, be it women, animals, or even
little old ladies waiting for the bus!
If you have any “moral issues” with flirting, then just
keep in mind that flirting is a way of giving, not a way of taking.
Here’s what a Christian reader of mine has suggested to me
in the past. (Not exact quote…I am paraphrasing him…)
“See flirting as a way of giving attention to people. Think
of it as a way to share your warmth. See it as a way to make other
people feel good about themselves, not as a way to get anything
in return.”
So go ahead and flirt all you want!
To learn how to flirt with women, check out my “Smart Dating
Newsetter” at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
You will find ton of flirting techniques that you won’t
find anywhere else!
-Marius
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