How To Turn A Stranger Into A Friend
Posted on May 16, 2007 - Filed Under Approaching Women, Confidence Tips, Conversation Tips, Dating Tips, Nightclubs, Parties, Phone Numbers, Social Life, Where To Meet Women
“How To Turn A Stranger Into A Friend”
I often stress the importance of expanding
one’s social circle in my dating newsletter, Smart
Dating Course, and my dating blog column. So today,
I am going to teach you how to turn strangers into
friends. Use these tips to expand your social circle.
When you meet a new person (male or female),
try to:
1) Start with a bit of fluff talk.
“Yeah…it sucks to wait in line, doesn’t it.”
“So why do you have a laptop with you?”
“What do you do?”
2) Act impressed by them, no matter what they tell
you.
“Really? I have always wanted to become a…”
“Really? My friend Joe is a
too…Maybe you’d know him.”
3) Ask them for their expert opinion in their field.
“So what do you think of…”
4) Now go deeper in the conversation by figuring out
who they are and what they want in life.
Do you think you see yourself doing this
in five years?”
5) Encourage them to go after what they want.
“I think you should…”
6) Demonstrate a bit of social proof by talking
about some adventures you’ve had in the past.
“Yeah. I am just back from France.”
“Totally. It’s like the time I went
sky-diving and…”
7) Find out their hobbies. Search for something in
common.
“Really? I love running too. Are you doing
the sun run?”
“Really? I do Yoga too. You ever done it
in the steam room before? I almost fainted the
first time I tried that.”
8) Bring the spotlight back to them. Let them know
how much you believe in them.
“You know…about what you said earlier…
I really believe in you…”
9) If you have any information or contacts that can
help them get what they want, offer it.
“If you ever need any help, let me know.
I know a couple of people in the business…”
10) Suggest doing that something in common. OR if
you have an event coming up, invite your new friend
to come.
“Come join my group for
you’d like it if you really like
Now go out and start meeting some new friends!
Now that you know how to turn a stranger into
a friend, do you want to learn how to turn a friend into a
girlfriend? Sign up for my free dating newsletter at:
htt://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
I’ll teach you some very powerful flirting
and teasing techniques that you can use RIGHT NOW to
start attracting women!
- Marius Panzarella
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