How To Turn A Friend Into A Girlfriend By Pulling Back
Posted on October 8, 2007 - Filed Under Dating Tips, Hooking Up
“How To Turn A Friend Into A Girlfriend By Pulling Back”
Last time I mentioned it is possible to turn
a friend into a girlfriend by pulling back from her.
Today we will go into the details of how to do it.
Basically, when turning a friend into a
girlfriend, you should always start by flirting with
the her. If she flirts back, good. But if she doesn’t,
then obviously flirting more won’t help because she
has already put you into the friendship zone. This
is when pulling back comes in handy.
I want you to imagine two scenarios. First,
imagine yourself with a friend of the opposite sex
that you’ve been hanging out with for a long time.
There is NO romantic chemistry at all. If she suddenly
starts flirting with you, do you think you will
start liking her? Maybe, maybe not.
Now imagine BUMPING into a friend that you
haven’t seen for a LONG time. She happens to be
wearing a cute outfit that shows off her great body.
She flirts with you and suggests going out for a cup
of coffee to catch up with each other some time. Do
you think you’ll be a bit excited about getting
coffee with her?
Probably!
Here’s another good example. If you see a friend
everyday and your friend loses a lot of weight over
a period of a year, you’ll probably not going to notice
it.
But if you don’t see the person for a year,
then the first thing you say when you meet your friend
again will probably be, “Wow. What happened to you?”
Bottom line: Not seeing a person for a while
can often reset the friendship back to more “neutral
territory.” By pulling back for now, you will have
a higher chance of getting out of the “friendship
zone” and starting a relationship with the person
in the future than if you just keep on “being
good friends” with a woman.
If a woman can say to herself, “Oh, my.
He has changed! Wow…” when she sees you again,
then you’ll be officially out of the friendship
zone!
For more ways to build attraction and to
turn a friend into a girlfriend, sign up for my
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Thanks,
Marius Panzarella
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