How To Save Your Relationship If You Have Cheated On Your Girlfriend
Posted on December 5, 2007 - Filed Under Dating Tips, Relationship Tips
“What If You Have Cheated On Your Girlfriend”
Today I’m going to talk about what
you should do to save your relationship
if you have cheated on your girlfriend.
Before we begin, I need to point
out that I am 100% against cheating. If
you’ve both aware that you’re only seeing
each other casually, fine. But if you’re
actually in a long-term relationship, then
you should not cheat.
Here’s my view: Basically, if you
have cheated on your girlfriend you should
expect the worst and prepare to lose your
relationship. If your partner confronts you
about it, then you should confess the truth
for sure. As for confessing when your partner
does not know, it’s really up to you. Telling
your partner will definitely cause them a lot
of pain on their end. But at the same time,
not telling them may allow the guilt to build
up on your end and that can hurt the relationship
too. I’ll leave the decision to you.
If you do choose to confess, then
apologize sincerely and let them know that
you are ready for them to dump you. (But make
it clear that you won’t be going to the other
party you’ve been cheating with.) This is a
bit of reverse psychology. Since the “worst”
punishment they can give you is to break up
with you, if you offer it because you think
you deserve it, then they may just decide to
work on the relationship after all. (I am not
advocating game-playing here. This is for
saving a relationship and building a future
with someone you love, not playing someone
or stringing two lovers along. Do NOT abuse
this technique!)
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- Marius Panzarella
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