How To Plan The Perfect Date
Posted on September 22, 2008 - Filed Under Asking Women Out, Dating Tips, First Dates
“How To Plan The Perfect Date”
Here are a few tips on how to plan
the perfect date with a woman.
1) Do Plan Ahead
First of all, do plan ahead. If your date
seems unfocused, it will be very hard for the
chemistry to go up. Don’t just call a woman to
hang out and then “do whatever”. Have something
exciting to do that she can look forward to.
2) Be Flexible
One thing to keep in mind is that while
it is good to plan ahead, make sure your plans
are not so rigid that you cannot be flexible.
As a dating coach, I see many guys making
the mistake of planning a date down the smallest
details and then freaking out when the date doesn’t
start out the way they were supposed to. And because
they lack the skill to improvise, they just get stuck
and don’t know what to do.
3) Have Backup Plans Ready
It is good to always have a few backup
plans ready. For example, if a restaurant is full,
know where you can take her instead without
any hesitation. If your date does not like skating,
know where the closest mini-golf place is.
Buy a cheap guide for your city from your
local bookstore. Check out all the cool spots so
that you can change plans at any time.
4) Make It Fun
Whatever you wish to do on your date, make
sure it is fun. The more fun a woman has you
on a date, the more likely she will want to go
out with you again. And the more often she goes out
with you, the easier it will be to turn her into a
girlfriend.
5) Make It Interactive
Avoid watching movies or other things that
do not allow you to interact with a woman. Chemistry
only comes from interaction. If you are just sitting
there watching the screen together at a movie theatre,
how are you going to flirt with or get to know each
other?
6) Tidy Up Your Place In Case You Hang Out After
Remember to tidy up your place before
you head out. This way, if you bring her back
to watch a move or just to hang out, she won’t
be shocked by how messy your place is.
7) Find Somewhere You Can Walk Around
Ideally, have your date somewhere where you
can walk around after lunch or dinner. It could
be a beach, it could be a park, it could even be
a little shopping street with cool stores. (Every
town has one.) This will make her “feel” like you’re
together. (Combine this with acting like a challenge
and she’ll fall for you hard!)
8) Make Everything Natural
As much as you should be planning ahead, try
to let go of the “technicals” and just focus on
your playful attitude. Make the things you’ve
learned from me a “natural” part of your identity
and attitude without worrying too much about
what to do while you’re on the date.
If you worry too much about what to do,
you’re going to end up freezing up, and that’s
not good!
9) Have Points of Advancement
One way to be able to advance ahead without
pre-planning “too much” is by having points of
advancement where you can advance physically without
making it look pre-planned OR awkward.
For example, if you know you are going to
take her across a busy intersection, then you can
use that as an “How To Plan The Perfect Date”
10) Be Somewhere Where You Can Control The Situations
If you put yourself in situations where you
have little control, you are setting yourself up
for failure. For example, I have seen many readers
see their perfectly romantic dates turn into disasters
right in front of their eyes because they ended their
dates at a nightclub or pub where other guys started to
hit on their dates or grab their dates butt. (I’m
serious…) Think about it: If some random guy just
walks up to your date and grabs her butt because
he’s drunk, no matter how well you handle the situation,
your date is going to be upset and your night is going
to be ruined. It is better to pre-empt such situations
by only taking your date to “good” places where such
incidents will not happen. If you want to grab a drink
together, then go to a classy or quiet place that is not
crowded by college students!
For more dating tips, check out
my dating tips newsletter at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
Thanks,
Marius Panzarella
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