How To NOT Make Sexy Eye Contact With Women
Posted on February 28, 2008 - Filed Under Approaching Women, Dating Tips, Eye Contact
“How To NOT Make Sexy Eye Contact With Women”
A complaint that I sometimes get from my
readers is, “Marius, how come women always look
at me and avoid me when I try to make eye contact?”
Well, as both someone who makes eye contact
with people all the time and an experienced dating
coach who has received many successful “eye contact
stories” from all around the world, I can tell
you that making eye contact works. Most people who
use this technique will find success with it,
so if you haven’t been having much luck with it,
then chances are, you’re probably doing something
wrong. Here are two things that I can think of:
1) You’re being intrusive.
If someone looks like they want to be
left alone, then leave them alone. If you intrude
on their personal space by looking at them non-stop
while they are busy reading or eating, of course
they are going to think you’re a freak.
2) You are staring, not making eye contact.
There is a big difference between staring
and making eye contact. Proper eye-contact is quick
and friendly. It means you’re drifting your eyes
around and giving attention to what interests you -
but only for a split second. Staring at a woman
for too long will get you the “What are you looking
at?” response.
3) You are looking too hard.
Proper eye contact is casual and relaxed.
If you’re too serious and stare too hard, you will
may across as a crazy or potentially dangerous
person. In that case, of course women will break
the eye contact and avoid you.
4) You come off as dangerous.
The “safer” you look, the more comfortable
women will be around you. By “safe”, I don’t mean
geeky. You can be a bad boy and still look safe. But
if you look or at a bit “creepy”, then women will
naturally avoid making eye contact with you at all
costs.
5) You’re not smiling.
Once you have “clicked” with the eye
contact, you should always smile. This way, a woman
can smile back. Without this, there’ll be “no next
step.” In that case, of course the situation will
feel awkward and the woman will want to break eye
contact.
6) You’re too tense.
The whole exercise should be fun and casual.
If you’re too tense, women are going to react to
your eye contact negatively because you’re acting
relaxed. So do yourself a favor and RELAX.
Now go out there and make some eye contact!
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- Marius Panzarella
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