How To Not Lose Your Girlfriend
Posted on January 12, 2008 - Filed Under Character, Dating Tips, Preventing Breakups, Relationship Tips, Romantic Respect, Staying Together
“How To Not Lose Your Girlfriend”
Here is how to not lose your girlfriend:
1) Don’t Think Your Work Is Finished
Just because you have a girlfriend
doesn’t mean you will keep her. Here is a
pattern that I see all the time as a dating
and relationships coach:
Guy chases girl.
Guy gets girl.
Guy stops doing the things that helped
him get the girl.
Guy loses girl.
Are you going to be one of these
guys? I hope not!
2) Don’t Ignore The Details
If you want to keep a woman, then
pay attention to details. Notice the things
she does and give her special attention.
When she is unhappy, read between the
lines instead of just taking her word for
it. Because if you ask her what’s wrong,
she will just say “Nothing.”
It is up to you to read into
the details and see why she is upset. But
don’t worry, it doesn’t take a genius to
understand women. With a little bit of practice,
you will get better over time.
3) Don’t Stop Being A Challenge
As I say all the time, if you
stop being a challenge in a relationship,
romantic respect will drop and attraction
will lower over time.
4) Don’t Freak Out Over Her Ex’s
A lot of my readers freak out when
their partners talk to their ex’s. This
is a normal reaction, but next time it
happens, ask yourself this question:
“Is there anything I can do to
lower my partner’s possible attraction
towards an ex?” The answer is “no” and
you should leave it at that. You can’t
change how a woman feels about another
man, so just focus on keeping her
attraction towards you high.
If she likes you enough, she
won’t think about other guys - unless
she has bad character. (In this case,
you don’t want to date her anyway!)
5) Don’t Criticize Her In Front Of People
Remember my golden rule: always
compliment your girlfriend or wife
in public. Don’t put her down in front
of other people!
6) Don’t Clash With Her Friends And Family
Do your best to avoid clashing
with her friends and family. Put on
a smile and be polite no matter how
much you dislike them. After all, you don’t
want her to have to choose between you
and them, do you?
7) Don’t “Just” Be Her Best Friend
Don’t just be a woman’s best
friend. Be her lover. Keep the stakes
and attraction high, and she won’t
leave you.
8) Don’t Let Her Stop Over Your Boundaries
Don’t be a doormat and let women
walk all over you like so many guys do.
Define your boundaries clearly and don’t
let your partner step over them.
Appeasement cannot keep a woman
close to you in the long run!
9) Don’t Try To Solve Her Problems
When a woman is sad, she wants
to be comforted, not lectured to. Keep
your solutions for her problems to
yourself for now. Give her a hug and listen
to her talk. Use my happy walk technique
to cheer her up if necessary.
10) Don’t Stop Being Romantic
When was the last time you
lit the candles?
When was the last time you
were proactive in doing something
romantic?
One of the keys to a healthy
relationship is to keep things exciting.
If she can feel the excitement, then
she will want to be close to you.
For more relationship tips,
get my new “Smart Relationships
Course” at:
http://www.smartrelationshipscourse.com
- Marius Panzarella
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