How To Have Confident Body Language Around Women
Posted on December 2, 2006 - Filed Under Dating Tips
How To Have Confident Body Language Around Women
There’s no question that having the right body language
can project a sense of self-confidence when you’re talking
to women. Today I am going to teach you a few tricks on how
to use “confident body language” to help you attract women.
1) Broad smile
Have a broad smile on your face. As a beginner, try to
aim for what I call a “baby smile”. Smile openly and sincerely
like a baby. Later on, you’ll be able to tone it down to a more
serious “James Bond” kind of smile. But for now, stick to the
baby smile. It will help get you the kind of attention you need!
2) Relax your face muscles
Make sure that your whole face is relaxed. (Even your
smile should be relaxed.) If you show any kind of tension on
your face, women are going to know you’re nervous. Practice
relaxing your facial muscles in the mirror. Smile and tighten
your cheeks, hold for a few seconds, and then release.
Do this 10 times every day.
3) Strong eye contact
Make sure you keep strong eye contact with the person
you’re talking to. Looking at the ground convey shyness and
submissiveness - which is what you do NOT want.
It helps to try to look “past” the woman’s eyes and
gaze into her soul.
4) Don’t break eye contact upon meeting
When you first meet a woman, don’t break eye contact
until she does. This will demonstrate your masculinity and
your status as an alpha male.
5) Keep palms open.
Keep your palms open or only slightly closed when
you’re with a woman. Do not clinch them into fists. Don’t
stick them into your pockets or hold onto your shirt or jacket.
6) Stand with feet wider apart.
Stand with your feet wider apart than you usually do.
Open up, take up more room, and be “grounded”.
7) Lift up your chest
Expose your chest like a soldier. It is a sign of the
alpha male. The alpha male proudly shows off his chest as a
symbol of dominance. The beta male tries to cover it up because
opening up makes him feel vulnerable.
8) Slow down your breathing
Slow down your breathing. Breath EASY! Breath from
your rib cages, not from your chest.
9) Shoulders up
Keep your shoulders up without tightening them. Don’t
hunch. Hunching is often perceived as a sign of having low
self-esteem. Always stand tall and walk tall!
10) Move slower
Move slowly using broad movements. Make sure all of
your movements are slow and relaxed. Don’t have any kind of
fast, “flaming” movements or any “jerky” movements that are
often associated with insecurity.
11) Lean forward…and then lean back.
When you talk to a woman, lean forward when the
conversation is going good. But don’t stay in that position
the whole time, you also want to lean back some times to
“let go of the tension”.
12) Take up room
Take up as much room as you can when you sit, stand
and walk. If you have trouble opening up, do the following
exercise. Imagine yourself as a roughneck and think how
they move. Do the same.
13) Invade people’s personal space
Don’t be afraid of moving into a woman’s personal
space. Keep getting closer and closer to her. It’ll show
that you’re not afraid.
14) Touch people
Touch women on the elbow casually when you
laugh at their jokes. Don’t be afraid to hug a woman
when the opportunity arises.
15) Have purpose
Have purpose with your life and know what you’re
going after. Raise up the social hierarchy ladder.
Acting like an alpha male in can help you have the right body
language naturally.
For more dating tips and exercises that can help you
become more confident and attractive in women’s eyes, check
out my dating newsletter at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
It contains many exclusive articles that are not
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definitely not something you want to miss out!
Thanks,
Marius
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