How To Deal With Shyness Around Women
Posted on January 31, 2008 - Filed Under Dating Tips, Inner Game
“How To Deal With Shyness Around Women”
Today we’re going to talk about what you
should do if you’re shy around women.
First of all, you need to find out if
you are shy around women or shy around people
in general. It is a *very* important distinction.
A lot of guys email me for help because
they feel shy whenever they talk to a woman. But
most of the time, it turns out they are also
afraid of talking to strangers. This is why the
first step of overcoming your shyness with women
should be to find out if you’re afraid of women
or of strangers in general.
If you have problem talking to strangers
in general, then really, you should focus on
becoming more sociable before you worry about
picking up women.
Here are 2 articles I have written in
the past that should help you with that:
“How To Turn A Stranger Into A Friend”
http://www.datingsupportcenter.com/datingarticles/how-to-turn-a-stranger-into-a-friend/
“How The Shy Guy Can Get A Social Life”
http://www.datingsupportcenter.com/datingarticles/how-the-shy-guy-can-get-a-social-life/
But let’s say your problem isn’t talking to
strangers. Let’s say you’re a very sociable person,
but you just have problem talking to girls. Here are
a few tips to overcome that:
1) Flirt with girls you don’t find attractive to
practice. This will help you pick up the flirty
attitude.
2) Focus on being a challenge, no matter how hot
the girl is. This will help you remain in control
of yourself.
3) Surround yourself with female friends. It is the
best way to become more comfortable around women.
4) At the beginning, flirt with girls but without
making it look like you’re asking then out.
5) Confidence comes from competence, which comes
from practice *and* knowledge. So read my articles
and “Smart Dating Course” regularly and drill
everything into your head.
6) Take baby steps. Start by saying “hi”. Once you’re
comfortable with that, make friends. Eventually
start flirting. Similarly, if beautiful women intimidate
you, then approach more average-looking women until
you are more confident.
7) Imagine you are talking to an old friend.
Imagine you are talking to a girl to hook her up
with a buddy of yours.
9) Relax and stop caring about the results. Focus
on the fun instead!
For a full program on how to increase your
confidence with women and dating, check out my
“Confidence With Dating” program at:
http://www.confidencewithdating.com
It was the first ebook on the Internet
that focuses just on increasing your confidence
around women, and after all these years, I still
think it is the best!
For more dating tips, sign up for my
free dating newsletter at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
- Marius Panzarella
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