How To Build Rapport With Anyone You Meet
Posted on June 8, 2008 - Filed Under Conversation Tips, Dating Tips, Social Life
“How To Build Rapport With Anyone You Meet”
Today I am going to give away one of
my best secrets. I will show you my personal
method of building life-lasting rapport with
anyone I meet…anywhere, any time.
The key is to share a similar philosophy
with whoever you are talking to.
Why? Because beliefs are way deep within
the core identity with someone, and deep inside
everybody wants to be understood and recognized.
so if you let someone know that you have some
strong core beliefs that are similar to theirs,
they are going to feel like you’re their best
friend.
You don’t have to agree with their
beliefs completely. Just look for something that
you DO agree with and focus on that.
For example, with scholars, you want to
recognize the importance of education.
With hippies, you want to recognize
the importance of freedom and doing whatever
you want. (Even if you make it clear that
you are still stuck in the “system” and can’t
travel as often as you’d like. The hippies would
pity you, but they would still like you.)
With soldiers, you can focus on
traditional values such as honor and loyalty.
And if you want to make this technique
even more powerful, than isolate yourself and
your new friend from the rest of the world
by suggesting that it is really too bad the
rest of the world would not understand what
you’ve just talked about together.
Can you see how this simple technique
can turn you into a social chameleon who can
relate to anyone?
Now go out and practice using this
technique on both men and women. Just don’t
abuse it, or I will come after you!
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tips newsletter for men at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
Thanks,
Marius Panzarella
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