How To Build Rapport Through Your Body Language
Posted on December 28, 2007 - Filed Under Confidence Tips, Dating Tips, Social Life
“How To Build Rapport Through Body Language”
Last time I taught you how to build
rapport with women by matching their voice
tone. Today I will show you how to build rapport
with the ladies by mirroring your body language
with theirs.
It’s very similar to the voice tone
exercise:
1) Choose an unimportant situation you
don’t get about.
Pick a situation where you don’t care
about the outcome at all, such as a casual
conversation on the bus or a meeting with a
friend of a friend.
2) Match the way they stand or sit.
As you talk to the person, pay attention
to how they are sitting or standing. Adjust your
posture until you are mirroring theirs. If they
are leaning forward, lean forward just a little
bit (but not too much). If they are leaning back,
then relax and sink into your chair.
3) Match their energy.
Next, notice how expressive they are
with their body language. For example, are they
waving their arms around as they speak? Or are
they holding still?
Mirror whatever they are doing. If they
are using a lot of gesture, use a lot of gestures.
You will probably feel the rapport building
up!
4)Mismatch on purpose
Now, try to mismatch your body language
and energy level. Notice how this impacts the
rapport you have been building.
5) Finally, go back to mirroring their
body language and energy level. See how much
rapport you regain.
Next time, I’ll start showing you some
more advanced rapport-building techniques that
you can use. So stay tuned!
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- Marius Panzarella
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