How To Be Less Angry About Women and Dating

“How To Be Less Angry About women and Dating”

Last time I talked about how some men have
chronic anger problems that they refuse to acknowledge.
Today we will talk briefly about anger in dating and
how you can stop being angry at women or at the world.

Personally, I think the “deep anger” (be it towards
women or other things) some people have often come from fear.

Fear that a woman will leave you for another man.

Fear that you will be abandoned.

Fear that the government or Wall Street bankers
will take away your hard earned savings.

Fear that immigrants will take away your job.

Fear that other people are out to screw you.

Fear that your wife will cheat on you.

And so on…

In my experience, almost all guys with deep
anger problems are useless. Not just in dating, but
in life as well. (This comment alone will piss off many
guys with deep anger problems!) Their lives are so
paralyzed by fear that all they can do is lash out
at other people (including people who are not responsible
for their fears) instead of doing anything constructive.

In fact, I guarantee you that I am going to get
flame mails for saying that, and that the guys that send
me angry emails will just lash out at me but NOT try
to improve their lives at all.

Anyway…enough about negativity…

So what should you do if you think you are
angry towards women or towards life?

Here is my recommendation:

Really think hard about what is causing the
fear underlying your anger. Ask yourself the following
question:

“What is it that I’m afraid of here?”

For example, are you afraid that your girlfriend
may cheat on you?

Are you afraid that you may lose your job in
this tough economy?

Are you afraid that global warming will kill
your grandchildren?

Once you have identified your fears, then
really try to see if they are justified.

If you think about your fears hard enough,
you will often see that they do not make any sense.

Next, think about the action steps you can
take to minimize the chances of your fear turning into
reality.

For example, if you are afraid your girlfriend
may leave you, instead of being angry (which will push her
away even more), think about how to mend the relationship
so that SHE will be afraid of losing you.

Of, if you are afraid of losing your job, then
take additional classes and keep upgrading yourself so
that you can employer cannot afford to lose you.

Finally, think about what knowledge you can seek
to take away the fear of the unknown. (Example: This
newsletter and my “Smart Dating Course”)

In time, you won’t be so angry anymore!

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Thanks,
Marius PanzarellaTorch Singer

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