How To Be A Cool Guy To Women Without Being A Jerk
“How To Be A Cool Guy To Women Without Being A Jerk”
An excuse I hear from guys all the
time is that “women are only attracted
to jerks and I am a nice guy…”
Every time I hear this, I just have
to take a deep breath and say…
All right. Let’s make something
really clear here. I personally don’t believe
that women are attracted to bad guys. I just
think women are attracted to INTERESTING
and STRONG guys. Women are naturally drawn
towards guys that can make them feel SAFE
and GOOD – the things that a boring or
“wimpy” guy can’t do for them.
Sure, you can be a nice guy and STILL
get all the girls. You can open doors for them
and pull out chairs. You can be honest and
never lie. You can treat women with respect…
as long as you are still INTERESTING and
a CHALLENGE.
Whatever you do, just make sure you
do not confuse “nice” with acting needy and
insecure. Don’t be nice because you seek a
woman’s approval. Be nice on your OWN terms.
As I always say, sure, people can “like”
you because you let them walk all over you,
but it doesn’t mean they will respect you.
In fact, they probably like you “just as
friend” because you don’t matter to them at
all – and that’s the last you want when you
are trying to get a girl.
As an assignment, I want you to get
out a piece of paper and a pen and write
down what qualities the jerk has that make
them fun and strong. Then think about how
you can adapt these traits without becoming
a jerk yourself!
Examples:
- Self-Centered (Translate it as knowing
what you want and going for it.)
- Cocky (Translate it as acting like a challenge.)
- Loud and rude (Translate it as acting confident.)
- Chauvinistic (Translate it as acting dominant).
- Unpredictable (Translate it as being interesting.)
Now go and finish this exercise on
your own!
For more dating tips, please visit:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
Thanks,
Marius Panzarella
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