How To Ask A Woman Out Without Giving Her Pressure
Posted on April 25, 2008 - Filed Under Asking Women Out, Dating Tips
“How To Ask A Woman Out Without Giving Her Pressure”
Today I am going to show you how to ask
a woman out without giving her pressure.
Here are the seven steps you should follow:
1) Flirt with her.
2) Build rapport.
3) Talk about things she finds interesting.
4) Find something you have in common.
5) Mention casually, “Yeah. We should do that together
some time.”
6) See her reaction.
7) If her reaction is good, then suggest a time and
place.
So…how is this method better than just
walking up to a woman and asking her out?
Well, if you think about it, how do most
guys ask women out? They wait and wait and wait
until they get enough courage to ask a woman, or
they wait and wait and wait for the “perfect
opportunity.” As a result, when they finally
ask, there’s often a kind of awkward energy that
lingers in the air.
And guess what this energy creates? That’s
right, pressure! When it’s clear that you want to
hear a “yes” for an answer, it gives the woman
a lot of pressure. And when it comes to love and
attraction, the more pressure you give a woman,
the more you push her away.
This is especially true if the woman has
no idea that you are interested in her romantically.
Asking her out one day out of nowhere is going to
give her a shock. Even if she agrees, she may call
you later to flake out on you. (Yes, that’s how
it happens, guys!)
But by using the method I am teaching you,
you will be able to keep your cool and ask her out
SPONTANEOUSLY without giving her any pressure.
She will just see the “date” as an opportunity to
have fun with you and maybe get to know you better,
but not an “official date” that requires full
commitment.
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Thanks,
Marius Panzarella
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