How Most Guys Screw Up Their First Dates and Meetings
Posted on February 23, 2008 - Filed Under Dating Tips, First Dates, Flirting Tips, Inner Game
“How Most Guys Screw Up Their First Dates and Meetings”
In my experience, the biggest reason men screw
up their first dates and meetings is because they
worry too much and focus way too much on the “individual
techniques.”
For example, last week I received an email from
a reader who detailed - in point form - the twenty three
different techniques he used on a first date with a woman.
He was wondering why the woman still did not feel attraction
for him or agree to go on a second date.
The answer is obvious: He cared way too much
about the individual techniques and way too little about
his overall playful attitude. He actually FAILED to flirt
properly because he saw flirting as a task instead of
a mutual activity that is fun to play.
Yes, it is true that I teach hundreds of attraction techniques
on in my “Smart Dating Course.” It is also true that many
of the techniques I teach are so powerful that just using
one or two can often spark attraction or curiosity with a
woman instantly.
But at the end of the day, techniques are just
techniques, and without the proper attitude, they will not
work to their fullest potential.
For example, you can memorize fifteen different
flirting techniques and try to “run down the list” on
a first date like a robot. Chances are, you will only
get nervous and mess up. But if you just focus on having
a playful attitude, then you will flirt, tease, and
acting like a challenge without even thinking.
Here’s what I would suggest for my readers:
Learn my techniques, internalize them, and then
focus on having the right attitude so that you can use
the techniques naturally!
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- Marius Panzarella
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