Do Pick Up Lines Actually Work?
Posted on October 18, 2007 - Filed Under Approaching Women, Conversation Tips, Dating Tips
“Do Pick Up Lines Actually Work?”
Are there any pickup lines that actually
work?
Here’s what I think:
Unless a woman is very interested in you
already - in which case you don’t need a line anyway -
you can’t really use a pickup line to “pick up” a woman
and immediately bring her home.
You can, however, use what I call “openers” so
that you can initiate a conversation naturally and build
attraction from there.
An opener is NOT a “pickup line” that you
use to hit on a woman. Rather, it is an ice breaker
that you can use to start a conversation with
anyone - be it a 80 year old woman or the hairy
man sitting next to you on the bus.
A good analogy is to think about what you
might say to break the ice with a stranger you’re
NOT interested in when you’re in the elevator or
on the bus. For example, you could say something about
1) The weather. (Weather opener)
2) A book the person is holding. (Curiosity
Opener)
3) How slow the elevator is. (Environmental
opener)
9 out of 10 times, the person will respond
politely, making it possible to start a small talk.
Once you get into small talking, then the
approach is complete and you can start flirting
and building rapport with the woman.
So…as an exercise, I want you to start
talking to strangers that you are NOT interested in
romantically. With practice, you will be able to
start conversations with anyone without feeling
nervous. After that, it’s just a matter of flirting
with them as well!
For more dating tips, sign up for my dating
newsletter at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
Thanks,
Marius Panzarella
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