Dating Tips For Needy Men
“Dating Tips For Needy Men”
If you have been reading my column for awhile, you should know
that being needy pushes women away from you. So today we’re going to go
over some ways to make yourself less needy around women if that is
problem for you.
Here is a little test: See if you can look into the eyes of
an extremely attractive woman without feeling nervous or worrying
about what she thinks of you. If you can, good for you – you dont
need this article. But if you can’t, then it’s a sign you need to
follow my tips.
All of the points and techniques below are based on two
observations I’ve made over my career as a dating and relationship
coach:
Needy men are needy due to a lack of options and confidence.
They are needy because they think they cannot get a “better”
woman, which in turn comes from a lack of confidence. Here are a few
way a man can overcome these two obstacles and act less needy around
women.
1) Get used to attractive women
The first thing a needy man needs to do is to get used to
being around beautiful women. If you never get to see or hang out
with women, OF COURSE you’re going to get nervous or act needy
when you see one.
Start hanging out with beautiful girls without hitting
on them. Just befriend them without trying to make them yours. Get
used to having them around. See how HUMAN they are. See how they
have problems just like everybody else. Once you see that they
aren’t any better or different than yourself, you won’t feel a
needy to impress them anymore.
2) Build friendships with other males
It is also important that you build good friendships
with other men. In my experience, most men who do not feel
confident around women do not get along well with other men
either. Play some team sports and go out with the boys. Act
“stupid” with them and let loose! You need that competitive
testosterone!
3) Have ambition and be naturally competitive with yourself
Most people would tell you that women like men with
ambition. The more you have in your life – be in wealth or
money – the more choices you will FEEL you have in your choice
of women, period. Note I am not suggesting that all (or even
most) women are attracted to money and power, or that you
should go after the gold-diggers. What I am saying is that having
these things in your life will help you FEEL like you have
ACCESS to more women and act less needy as a result.
The perfect scenario is for you to KNOW you are
on the same caliber of the women you are trying to attract…
and that you don’t have try to impress them at all.
4) Have things to live for outside of a relationship
If you make a woman your whole world, you’re going to
drive her away, period. If you don’t have anything right now,
then go out and get it. Nobody is stopping you besides
yourself.
5) Be less available
Do not be available all the time. Don’t answer every
call and don’t accept every date. Let there be priorities
other than dating and romance.
6) Expand Your World
Go out and explore the world around you. Get interested
in what life has to offer you. Go out and meet new people. Read
books and take classes. Travel to new countries. Try new hobbies.
7) Grow Thicker Skin
Stop thinking that you are the center of the world and
stop worrying about what others think of you. Get a sales job
and get used to being rejected. Know that not everyone will
like you and that you don’t need them to like you. Focus on
being competitive with YOURSELF instead!
8) Take responsibility
Needy men love to feel victimized. Stand up for yourself
and take responsibility for your own life. Come up with solutions
for your problems and execute them. Stop whining to other people
or getting them to feel sorry for you. It won’t help you any in
the long run.
9) Exercise and dress nice
Exercise and dress well so that you always look your best.
It will make you feel more confident around strangers.
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Thanks,
Marius Panzarella.
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