Can You Predict Behaviour From Women (Or Men)?
“Can You Predict Behaviour From Women (Or Men)?”
Today’s article is written for a client. (You know
who you are.) It’ll be a little bit depressing because the
case I have been working on is very depressing and full of
drama. I won’t give the details here because there are lives
involved, (Yes, it’s that serious…), but in a nutshell,
it’s an extreme version of the age-old story of a man trying
to play therapist with his psycho girlfriend.
I am going to propose something very controversial.
In fact, there are probably people who are going to
email me flame mails for “not giving people a chance.”
I would like to propose to you that most of the time,
you can predict a person’s behaviour based on judging his or
her past behaviour.
For example…
If a person is a chronic cheater, he or she is
probably going to cheat again in the future.
If a person is full of drama when it comes to
relationships, you’re going to be going on an emotional
roller coaster ride if you date this person.
If a person is always late, he or she is probably
going to keep on being late.
If a person has anger problems, prepare to see
more tantrums.
If a person is violent, leave now or get beaten
again.
If a person is a flake, expect him or her to
flake out on your regularly – especially when the
attraction is low.
If a person has lied many times in the past,
don’t trust that person again no matter what he or she
promises.
If a person keeps on breaking promises, don’t
even to bother to hear the promises.
What you see is what you get. Because for
most people, it is almost impossible to break away
from their old habits.
Of course, this does not mean that a person’s
behaviour can never change. Just don’t EXPECT it to
change.
If you really like the person, then take the
person for who he or she is. But don’t try to change
the person even if you know it’s good for them. You
can try, but you will probably fail.
As a dating coach, I have seen it too many
times.
WAY too many times.
If a person’s behaviour is causing you stress
and problems, you need to find a *new* partner, not
try to fix the person…
Dating martyrs don’t get anywhere. They merely
get walked all over!
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- Marius PanzarellaGracie’s Choice film
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