Are You Trying Too Hard At Dating?
Posted on February 5, 2007 - Filed Under Dating Tips
“Are You Trying Too Hard At Dating?”
Here’s something I’ve learned about attracting
women a few years ago:
If you feel like you’re trying too hard with
a woman, you probably are.
For example, if you walk up to a woman to
compliment her, and when you do, your throat feels dry
because you can “feel” you’re being lame and you can
“sense” that the woman thinks you’re lame too, you’re
probably right!
So what do you do if you find yourself in
such a situation?
The key is to pull back and start acting
like a challenge IMMEDIATELY.
For example, if you’ve just complimented her
on her watch and you’re beating yourself over it in your
mind because you know it’s a normal-looking watch
and she can tell you’re trying too hard, immediately
follow up by saying something “bad” about it to
tease her. (Example: “Too bad the face is so
small. How do you read the time? You must have small
eyes.”)
Next, look into her eyes and smile to let
her know you were kidding about the whole thing.
DON’T LOOK AWAY until she does. This will give you
back some power and make her forget how uncomfortable
you were just a few minutes ago.
Finally, cut the conversation thread and
change topics COMPLETELY. This will help ease
the awkwardness and make you seem less desperate.
(It will also help if you pull back and flirt with
other girls in front of her.)
For more “real-life” dating techniques,
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techniques!
- Marius Panzarella
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