Are Women Shallow?
Posted on July 20, 2007 - Filed Under Character, Dating Tips, Inner Game
“Are Women Shallow?”
As a dating coach, one complaint I hear from frustrated
men all the time is that “women are shallow.” According to these
guys, women are only attracted to men who are good-looking,
rich, and out-going.
I disagree.
I think that most PEOPLE - not just women - are shallow
to a certain degree, and that one should not blame a woman
for having certain expectations when it comes to meeting men.
After all, aren’t you attracted to women who are good
looking? Isn’t that shallow too?
Let’s go back to my famous “fat chick with beard”
analogy.
I want you to imagine a fat, ugly woman with a THICK
BEARD on her face. If it weren’t for the two baggy tits hanging
down her fat body, you wouldn’t even be able to tell she is
a woman. Her voice is hoarse and she is missing a few teeth.
You cover your nose as she walks up to you because she stinks.
BUT…she has a real sweet personality…and she would
never, never cheat on you.
Are you going to be attracted to her?
I didn’t think so.
Now let’s say there’s a hot girl standing in front
of you. She looks like everything you would want in a movie.
So even though you know nothing about her yet, do you think
you might be interested in meeting her - even just to find
out if she has brains and a good personality to go with
that body?
Probably.
My point is that most people are at least a LITTLE
bit shallow. I’ll even admit I am a little bit shallow
myself. Do I want a 300 pound woman in my bed? No. But does
that mean I will only date anorexic women? No, of course
not. I just want a woman with enough self-respect for
herself to not eat 5000 calories a day.
Similarly, just because a woman does not “mind”
the fact that a man is successful does not mean that
she is a gold-digger. It really does not mean that she
is “shallow.”
Instead of complaining that women are shallow,
men should take a good look at themselves and see if
there’re any ways they can improve themselves for the
better.
Cleaning up and dressing well can make a man
move up the attraction scale by at least a few points.
Learning how to flirt and socialize with women
can help a man move up the attraction by MANY points.
There’s no use going against the little bit
of shallowness in human nature. Instead of wishing
that people were not shallow “at all”, think about
how to use it to help yourself and those around you.
Being a rebel against the system may protect
your ego, but it won’t do you any good in the long run…
Because reality IS reality!
For more honest dating tips, check out my
free dating newsletter at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
Thanks,
Marius Panzarella
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