A Typical Relationship Horror Story…
Posted on August 4, 2007 - Filed Under Character, Dating Tips, Relationship Tips
“You Sleep With A Girl’s Body, But You Marry Her Character”
Here’s a warning to all of my readers:
You may sleep with a girl’s body, but
when it comes to a long-term relationship, you
marry her character!
You think you have trouble tolerating
her attitude and character now…but you’re
resisting breaking up because you do not want
to stop having sex with that hot body?
Just wait till the drama gets WORSE and
you’re STUCK with her FOR GOOD. (As for that hot
body, just wait till she starts EATING lots once
she has got you roped in!)
As a dating coach, it is sad for me to
see so many men who come to me for help ten or
twenty years after marrying the wrong women.
When you are young and green, you may be
excited to start a relationship with a drama
queen, a depressed princess, or a chronic bitch
because she’s flaming hot. You may even marry
the “first girl who comes along” without really
considering the consequences.
You have sex with a woman, get addicted
to her hot body, and want to keep the relationship
going just because you don’t want to go sexless
again. You keep telling yourself that when the
right woman comes along - someone with your
girlfriend’s body AND a better personality -
you will dump your girlfriend for the other girl.
This way, you can have sex until you find a nice
girl to settle down with.
But somewhere along the way, you find
that eventually you cannot leave the relationship
anymore. You know that her problems are getting
worse and worse and there’re more and more drama
in the relationship. But you’ve been with her
for a few years now…and you think you can help
her with her problems. It is your duty as her
boyfriend to take care of her,
All of a sudden, she cheats on you. You
can’t imagine how if could have been happened.
All you know is that the other guy is a jerk,
and you REALLY want to save her from him.
After a few months of drama, the other
guy suddenly drops out of the picture. There’s
been a lot of tension in your relationship and
she is not sure if things are going to workout.
Next thing you know, you’ve pulled out the
engagement ring and asked her to marry you.
And twenty years later, you end up
searching for relationship advice on the search
engine and find Marius Panzarella.
This is *seriously* how many of my clients
find me. The story above is the archetypical case
story that I have to work on EVERY WEEK, if not
EVERY DAY!
Make sure it doesn’t happen to you…
BE CAREFUL ABOUT WHO YOU START A
RELATIONSHIP WITH!
Your whole life’s happiness depends on
it!
For more dating and relationship tips,
sign up for my free dating newsletter at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
Thanks,
Marius Panzarella
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