8 Tips On How To Deal With Rejection and Failure
Posted on May 17, 2008 - Filed Under Approaching Women, Dating Tips, Inner Game
“8 Tips On How To Deal With Rejection and Failure”
When you first go out to practice the dating
techniques I’ve taught you, you’re bound to
hear a few “no’s” from the women you meet. (Actually,
this is an ongoing process. You will never have a
100% success rate.) So here are a couple of ways
to make the rejections easier to take and more
valuable to you.
1) Disassociate yourself.
Look at the rejection as an event, not as a rejection
of your inner core. Think in “third-person” as if
you’re watching a movie.
2) Think about “why”.
Think about why the woman rejected you. Think back
on your actions. Were you being too pushy? Did
you not build up enough chemistry before you asked
for a date? Try to locate any potential blindspots.
3) Learn from it.
Learn from your mistakes and try to improve each time.
If you improve just a tiny bit each time, you’ll
improve a lot in the long run!
4) Try In A New Environment
If you few like a certain environment may be holding
your back, try the following: Take your practices
to a new environment and see if you get different
results.
For example, if the nightclub setting does like
work for you, try taking a few dance classes, and
so on.
5) Hang Out With A More Successful Person
How do you get smarter? By hanging out with
smarter people! They’ll be able to point out
your mistakes when you make them.
One of the best ways to get really good at something
is to get active feedback from someone who is
already good at it. It’s like playing sports.
If you constantly play against opponents that are
stronger than you, you will learn faster than if
you constantly play against opponents who are
not as good as you.
6) Make New Connections In Your Mind
Take the time to organize your new thoughts and
ideas. Make connections between different topics
and ideas that weren’t there before. You don’t
really get something until you can see all the
connections! Ask yourself questions such as,
“How does flirting fit into building attraction?”
7) Take a Break If Necessary
If you feel like you are hitting the same
wall over and over, then take a small break so
you have time to recharge. The more you push
when you’re already frustrated, the more
resistance you will build. Sometimes when you
take a small break and then come back, you will
find the obstacles will have disappeared on
its own.
8) Take the Time to Learn’
It is hard to bounce back from failure
if you don’t even have a direction. That is
why it is very important to pick up the knowledge
you need to be successful. Instead of learning
everything through your own mistakes, try to
learn everything through other people’s mistakes.
For more dating tips, sign up for my dating
newsletter for men at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
Thanks,
Marius Panzarella
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