How To Get A Shy Woman To Open Up
“How To Get A Shy Woman To Open Up”
Here is a short list of things you
can do to get a shy or quiet woman to
open up and talk more:
1) Talk about what she likes rather
than what you like.
2) Show respect and always listen to her
with your full attention.
3) Keep things confidential and don’t
repeat what she says to other people.
Be the person she can trust.
4) Show genuine excitement and fascination
about the things she talks about.
5) Use follow-up questions to stir the
conversation.
6) Don’t try to start a conversation
when she is busy with something else.
7) Wait till she is nervous about
something and needs emotional support.
(cheap trick but it works.)
8) Reward her good behavior by complimenting
her when she does talk.
9) Focus on talking about feelings instead of
facts because people tend to feel a greater
need about communicating with others when
they focus on emotions.
10) Always start with non-threatening small-talk.
Only deepen the conversation as rapport is built.
11) Be naturally curious about her.
12) Have relaxed but long eye contact.
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How To Use The Salt Shaker Move To Gauge Attraction
“How To Use The Salt Shaker Move To Gauge Attraction”
Here is a simple little technique that you
can use to see how interested a woman is in you.
1) Play with the saltshaker at the dining table
casually. Just play with it as you talk.
2) Flirt with her.
3) After flirting with her a bit, casually slide
the saltshaker across the table to her side.
Keep on chatting.
4) Observe how she reacts to the saltshaker that
is now on her side of the table. If she is not
interested, the human instinct will be to push
it back over to your side. (Subconscious
rejection.)
5) If she leaves it there, that’s a good sign.
6) If she picks it up and starts playing
with it. That is a VERY good sign!
Warning: As with all attraction gauging
techniques, don’t come to any conclusions just
because of one test. You want to have multiple
confirmations!
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The Now And Then Goal Setting Technique For Dating
“The Now And Then Goal Setting Technique For Dating”
Here’s a quick little technique that you can
use to achieve your dating goals.
1) Grab a piece of paper and a pen.
2) Write down the end results you’d like
to achieve, such as “I’d like to have a better
social life 6 months from now.”
3) Now close your eyes and imagine
six months has already passed by, and you’re still
exactly where you were 6 months ago. Nothing
has changed. No improvements have been made.
You’re still sitting at home without a social
life OR a love life.
Feel the disappointment.
Now…
Think about why you have failed, and on
that piece of paper, write down, “If only I
had…” List everything that you could have done
but didn’t do to make your goal come true.
4) Now close your eyes again, but this time
imagine how you would feel if you had achieved your
goal. Think about how proud and happy you would
be feeling. Look back and think about what you had
done to accomplish your goals.
Now on that piece of paper, write down “I
was able to do it because…” List every reason
that you can think of.
5) Put the two lists together and there you
are: a list of personalized action steps you
need to achieve your dating goals!
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The Biggest Irony In Dating And Relationships
“The Biggest Irony In Dating And Relationships”
As a dating and relationship coach, I see
the biggest irony in dating and relationships every
day: People often make mistakes *because* they
are trying to make things better…
You see…
Most guys and women who write me for
relationship advice are afraid that if they do
not go after their partners or crushes constantly,
something bad will happen. Some even think that
if they maintain any sort of emotional distance,
their crushes or mates will think they are not
interested and give up. So they chase and chase
or push and push until they push their crushes
or loved ones away.
In my opinion, this is the biggest irony
of all: When it comes to dating and relationships,
people often make things worse because they are
trying to make things better. They are constantly
thinking things such as:
“What if she forgets me if I don’t call
her back right away?”
“But I want her to be happy, and I know
she will be happy if I call her again!!!”
“If I don’t ask her out again now,
another guy might beat me to it.”
“If I don’t show her how much I still
love her, she will start seeing that other guy.”
“If I don’t go to the prom with her,
she may find another date, and then I won’t
have another chance…”
And as a result, they do things such as:
- Coming on too strong.
- Acting too needy.
- Being pushy.
- Being annoying instead of persistent.
- Spending money on gifts and flowers.
(Which can kill attraction in some cases.)
- “Confessing” their love. (Bad idea!)
If you’re a student of my “Smart Dating
System”, you should know that these actions
will quickly push a woman (or man) away.
As I always say, just because something
feels good to you doesn’t mean it will raise
a woman’s attraction towards you!
So…how can you overcome your natural
tendency to focus on what feels good to you rather
than what’s actually good for your courtship or
relationship?
The answer is simple: By having self-control
and discipline. In any field of study, self-control
is discipline is what allows a person to stick to
the “correct” and beneficial actions, which
usually don’t feel good in the short run. Dating
is no different. There are times when you must
pull back or not make that phone call, even when
you want to. And to get that self-control, you
should try to focus on the long term and think
and the “big picture” and broad concepts that
I’ve taught you in my newsletter and ebooks.
With a bit of practice, you too will
have that self-control!
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How To Overcome Your Fears With Women
“How To Overcome Your Fears With Women”
If you tend to feel shy or nervous when you
around hot women, here is what I want you to
do to overcome your fear:
Start hangout out with beautiful women for
friendship instead of for romance!
Think about it, if you never see any hot
chicks, when you finally see one and you want to meet
her, you’re probably going to make a big deal out
of it. And when you make a big deal out of it, it’s
only natural to feel a bit nervous or shy.
But if you interact with beautiful women on a
weekly or even daily basis, sooner or later you’re
not going to “feel anything” around them anymore,
meaning you will finally be able to flirt with
them or tease them like they are normal people,
which is very important if you want to have more
success in the dating game.
So here’s the million dollar question…
how can you befriend beautiful women? Here
are some ideas:
1) Take a dance or yoga class. There are tons of
women in these classes.
2) Do theatre. There are lots of women in community
theatre, especially the musical theatre. (Lots of
dancers, etc.)
3) Work at a bar or club. Bouncers and bartenders DO
meet TONS of women. Befriend the barmaids and waitresses
and meet women through them.
4) Do co-ed sports. Then organize a camping trip and
invite the women along. You’ll make tons of friends.
Now get your butt out there and start making
some FEMALE friends. It’s vital to your dating success!
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Marius Panzarella Shares His Experiences As A Dating Coach
“Marius Panzarella Shares His Experiences As A Dating Coach”
Once in a while, I like to share my unique
experiences as a dating coach so that my readers
can get to know the real me behind my newsletter. So
today, I am going to tell you about what upsets
and excites me the most as a dating coach.
Here is what upsets me:
1) When Guys Don’t Use Protection
Not to be cocky or anything, but I’ve
helped *many* men and women get together and
make babies. Unfortunately, sometimes the baby
part is unintentional.
Here’s how it happens: A guy spends
a few years trying to get a girlfriend without
having luck, somehow stumbles across my newsletter
(I don’t even run ads anymore), and decides to try
my tips. Then within a month or two, he successfully
beds a girl…and because of all the excitement…
he forgets to use a condom!
10 months later, he’s a daddy.
It saddens me every time I hear such a
case because I can’t help but to feel partially
responsible.
Listen: If you want to love, wear a glove!
2) When Guys Get Totally Screwed Over But Still Don’t Leave
Then there’re nice guys who are simply wonderful
human beings, but because of their personality or upbringing
(using a mixture), they keep on getting walked all over
by women.
Every week, they will send me stories and ask for
advice. I’ll give them my two cents, but then they’ll go out
and do the exact opposite.
Why write me if you aren’t going to listen anyway,
right? (It really frustrates me. Talking to these guys is
like talking to a brick wall!)
3) When Guys Have Anger Issues That They Refuse To Acknowledge
But that is not nearly as frustrating as trying
to help guys with DEEP anger issues that they refuse
to acknowledge. I am talking about guys that will turn
ANY newsletter article into a debate on why the government
is out to get you (I am not kidding) or that “all” American
women are bad.
Note to these guys:
If you seriously think all women are cheaters
or that everyone is out to scam you, why not just forget
about dating all together. And if you are going to forget
about dating all together, why do you have to email me
to tell me every week?
Right?
With that said, I *do* have some good experiences with:
1) Guys Who Wake Up
I really feel a sense of pride of happiness when one
of my readers “Wake up” and leave their old baggage behind.
I think it’s probably the reason why I’m still working and
answering emails every day despite all the garbage that I
have to take. (If you have read some of the flame mails
I’ve shared with my newsletter readers, I am sure you
know what I mean.)
2) Guys Who Remember and Write Me Testimonials Years Later
It is nice to hear from old students who had
signed up for my course way back in 2001 or 2002 and are
now happily married. It feels really good to be one of
the only dating coaches on the Internet who help people
get into healthy long term relationships rather than
just becoming another “pick-up artist.”
3) Guys Who Improve Their Lives For The Better
Ultimately, what pleases me the most is
watching my readers take what they’ve learned from
my ebook and applying the same concepts to other
areas of their lives – such as school, work, or
business. I love helping people improve their
lives, and I really feel it is what makes my
work worthwhile.
Okay. That’s enough sappiness for a couple
of months. Next time I talk to you, we are going
back to my dating tips!
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How To Invite A Woman Home
“How To Invite A Woman Home”
One of the questions that I’m asked
*all* the time is how a man can invite a woman
home.
It’s actually really easy. Here
are four ways to do it.
1) Cook Her Dinner
One easy way is to offer to cook
her dinner or for HER to come over and cook
YOU dinner. It puts the focus on food (and
women can’t resist great food…) instead of
what may happen at your apartment…
If you need a little bit of extra
courage, try to talk about a nice dish that
you love to make or a nice bottle of wine
that you’d like to open when you have guests
over. REALLY try to sell it. If the woman
gets excited or curious about it, invite
her over for dinner so she can try it.
2) Have Something Cool At Your Place
You can also “tempt” women to
come back to your place by having a
cool place. Artwork and music collection
often work if you share similar tastes.
Cute pets sometimes work wonders. (Depends
on the woman.) Having a nice pad with a hot
tub would obivously be king. (If you can
afford it.)
3) Meet Near Your Place
Look for special restaurants
or dessert places near your place. This
way, you can easily invite her over
when you’re done dinner or dessert.
It’s very easy to ask for a
woman to come check out your place if
it is within walking distance.
4) Meet AT Your Place Before A Date
Of course. You can also offer
to meet AT your place before the date.
(If you’re going to go somewhere nearby)
Why? Because once a woman has gone to
place for a first time, getting her to
go back again will be a lot easier…
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What If A Woman Calls You A Player
“What If A Woman Calls You A Player”
A few days ago, a reader sent me the following
scenario: “Marius, I went on a date with a woman over
the weekend. During dinner she said I looked like a
player and that she’s looking for a relationship with
someone who’s more mature. So I tried very hard
to convince her that I wasn’t a player. She wouldn’t
believe me, and now she won’t answer my calls. What
happened? How can I prove to her that I am really
not a player?”
Here’s what I wrote back, “Congratulations.
She gave you a test, and guess what? YOU’VE FAILED
IT!”
Okay. Here’s the truth. When a woman asks
you if you’re a player, she’s doing it as a test.
If you freak out and start trying to prove to her
what a good guy you are, you’re going to fall right
into her trap and fail the test. To a woman, a man
who is good with women is not necessarily a bad man,
but a man who is interesting and fun to be around.
Guys who are popular with women walk around with
more social proof and romantic respect, which make
them even more challenging and interesting to
other women. So as a man, if you’re seen as someone
who’s good with women, why would you want to
give that power away?
Here’s what you should do if a woman tests
you by accusing you of being a player: Just play
along and tell her it’s not your fault that the
ladies won’t leave you alone. You can even tell
her how much your life sucks because all the women
you meet only see you as a sex object, when
deep inside you really want a woman who will
cuddle and listen. (See how you’re turning things
around?)
Be playful and use a woman’s tests to
flirt with her, and she’s going to fall for you -
HARD!
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Marius Panzarella
How To Become More Comfortable With Asking Women Out
“How To Become More Comfortable With Asking Women Out”
Here is an exercise based on the
temptation routine I taught you last
time.
1) Choose an event or place according
to the requirements I gave you last
time. Basically, pick something that
is cool.
Examples:
- Upcoming party
- Upcoming concert
- Favorite “unknown” restaurant
- Some kind of an upcoming art event
or exhibition
(Especially if you are an expert on it)
2) Now approach 5 women every day. To talk
to these women…use the technique in the
next step.
3) Think of what you would say if you were
to chat up a male stranger at a bus stop
because you are bored. Use the same conversation
topics to start a conversation with the women
you approach. (In other words, focus on
starting “any” conversation with “any”
stranger, but not talk to women for the
sole reason of picking her up.)
4) Continue to make small talk.
5) Now, casually mention the event or place
that you have picked. Really promote it.
Talk about how cool it is and how excited
you are about going. Let the conversation
end naturally and get out of there.
That’s it for the exercise. In the
future, when you feel confident, you can
invite her to come to the event just when
you’re leaving. But for now, the point is to
get yourself used to “tempting” women with
stories.
Once you’re comfortable with this
exercise, you can start substitutingthe
cool events with movies or concerts that
are more common. For example, talk about
a cool trailer that you have been and mention
it casually that you would like to see the
movie. Repeat this exercise until you are
comfortable with asking the woman to see
it with you.
In time, you will see that asking
women out isn’t such a big deal!
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Marius Panzarella
10 Ways To Make A Girl Feel Comfortable At Your Place
“10 Ways To Make A Girl Feel Comfortable At Your Place”
It is in a woman’s nature to enter a man’s
household and domesticate his life. This is why having
a nice pad is such an important part of courtship. If a woman
can see herself as part of your world, her attraction
for you will go up. If she is disgusted or uncomfortable,
her interest will probably drop. So here are 10 ways to
make a woman feel comfortable at your place.
1) Have a Nice Place
Obviously, the first thing to do is to get
a nice place. By nice, I don’t mean expensive. Just be
serious about apartment hunting and find a “cool”
place even if it takes you a few months to find
one. If you know any friends who are great at finding
bargains, ask for their help.
2) Keep It Clean
Girls don’t like messy apartments. If you
want to take things further, you better make sure
your place is spotless (by guy standards, which
isn’t that high) before you bring her back.
3) Personalize It
Clean and tidy doesn’t mean “showroom
empty.” If your place is too bare, she may find
that creepy because you may seem like the kind
of shady guy who moves from town to town.
4) Have a Picture Or Two
To show that you are a real human being
and to generate conversation, have a few pictures
from your past. Guys without any pictures are,
once again, creepy.
If you want to build social proof, then
have cool, adventurous pictures. It always works.
5) Have Good Reading Material
Have some intellectual books or magazines
on your bookshelf. Women love to check out what
kind of books and magazines you read in order
to assess your education level and personality.
6) Be Classy
Be classy. If you can afford it, have
a nice stereo system or home theatre. If you
can’t afford it, then buy cheap poster prints of
famous paintings and put them up on your wall.
(I am not asking you to be fake here. I assume
that you will actually go read up on the
paintings!)
7) Act Casual As If She’s Been There Before
When she shows up, act like as if
she’s been there before. This will create
a relaxed atmosphere for her. Don’t do the
tour stuff. Just sit down on a couch and
relax.
8) Let Her Cook
Set up a cooking date so that she
can cook for you. As soon as a woman steps
into a kitchen and cooks for a man, she
sees herself as part of the domain.
9) Display Trophies
If you have any cool trophies,
display them as a way of building social
proof.
10) Display Some Sort of Musical Instrument
If you play any musical instruments,
display it as a way of building social
proof and generating conversation topics.
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Marius Panzarella
How To Flirt With Women – Techniques and Examples
“How To Flirt With Women – Techniques and Examples”
I know how much you guys love flirting
tips. So here are some tips on how to flirt
with women.=)
1) Have a flirty voice tone
Use a flirty voice tone when you
talk to girls. Prolong your vowels a tiny
bit and slow down on certain words. Make
it clear that you’re not being serious.
2) Use sexual innuendos
Drop a sexual innuendo or two
here and then – but only once rapport has
been made. If she gives you a weird look,
stop.
3) Touch her
Be just a bit more touchy than
you would otherwise be. Don’t forget
to hug her – most women love to be hugged.
4) Prolong your eye contact
Look at her eyes just a bit
too long. Let the tension build up and
don’t look away until she does.
5) Be a bit naughty
Just be a bit naughtier than
usual in general. Be playful and focus
on having fun.
6) Joke around and laugh at her jokes
Joke around and plenty, and
don’t forget to also laugh at her
jokes. (Women know how to do this well.
When they are flirting with a guy, they
will laugh at *anything*.)
7) Open up your body language
Open up your body language
so that it is more inviting. Don’t
cross your arms, etc.
8) Relax
Relax, relax, and relax
some more! Everyone is funny and
playful when they are relaxed and
among friends.
9) Tease her and be a bit sarcastic.
Tease her plenty and be just
a bit sarcastic. (But make it PLAYFUL-
sarcastic!)
10) Be genuinely interested in what
she has to say. That little bit of
attention can sometimes give you the
extra mile you need.
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How To Achieve Your Dating Goals
“How To Achieve Your Dating Goals”
Last time I promised I will help you
make your “dating new year resolutions” come
true, so today I am going to talk about the
Smart Dater’s way of accomplishing goals.
By now, you probably have a list
of things that you would like to accomplish
in 2008, such as “I would like to get a
girlfriend” or “I would like to become
better with women.”
And guess what?
Chances are, you will probably have
forgotten these goals by February.
Don’t believe me? Well, ask yourself
the following question:
How many times have you looked back
on the previous year and found you never
reached last years resolution?
In fact, how many times have you
REMEMBERED last year’s resolution without
looking at the sheet of paper?
It’s sick, isn’t it?
So how do you get around that? How
do you actually make your resolutions come
true?
Lots of self-help books will tell
you to make up complicated plans to break
down your resolutions into mini-goals and
to use various exercises to motivate
yourself.
I don’t agree with these methods.
In my experience, there is only
one thing you need to do to make your
resolutions come true:
Write down your goals on a piece
of paper that you stick somewhere you
can see, and then just do ANYTHING to be
one-step closer to one of your goals
every day.
Why? Because it will force you
to incorporate your goals into your
lifestyle. This is important, because in
the real world, LIFESTYLE HABITS create
success.
Here are some examples:
- Training is a part of an athlete’s
lifestyle.
- Studying is a part of a good
student’s lifestyle.
- Going out and meeting people is
part of a Smart Dater’s lifestyle.
- Flirting with women is part
of a Smart Dater’s lifestyle.
If someone is unwilling to change
his lifestyle so that he can go out and
expand his social circle and improve his
flirting skills, no matter how many goals
he writes down, he is not going to see
any success a year from now.
So instead of worrying about the
end results, I want you to focus on
the PROCESS.
Get it?
Here is an exercise for you to try:
For each new year resolution you
have, write down five to ten things you
can start doing this week to bring you
just a tiny step closer to your goals.
Here are some examples:
1) Talk to one stranger.
2) Flirt with one stranger.
3) Workout at the gym.
4) Compliment and then tease a
stranger.
5) Call up a friend you haven’t
seen for awhile.
6) Try just one technique from
Marius.
7) Make eye contact and smile
at a stranger.
8) Plan a house party.
And so on…
Once you have a list of couple
dozen items (assuming you have a few
goals), print it out and pick one or two
things to do each morning.
If you follow this plan and do
something each and every day to move
forward, all the time and energy (even
just a few minutes a day) will add up,
and one day you will find yourself with
more success than most people.
And if you have trouble finding
actions you should take to start making
your goals come true, then download my
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It is *packed* with ideas and
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improving your love life. In fact, it is
why the course is so powerful – because
anyone can start reading, applying, and
begin seeing some real positive changes
to their love lives – often in a matter
of days.
So what are you waiting for? Give
yourself a jumpstart to the new year by
downloading my “Smart Dating Course.”
2008 promises to be a great year,
and I expect you to send me success stories
in a few months!
- Marius Panzarella
How To Deal With Bitchy Women
“How To Deal With Bitchy Women”
As you go out there and approach many women,
you will see some women are naturally bitchy when they
talk to strangers. Here are three ways to deal with
these women.
1) The Guilt Trap
The first way is to make them feel bad by
acting disappointed at them. Let them know that
their behaviour is incongruent with their image
and how disappointed you are. Say something such
as, “You know, you looked like a nice person so
I thought you would be interested in making new
friends. But I guess not. Pleasure meeting ya.”
Then simply leave and go back to doing whatever
you were doing.
This will make the woman feel guilty without
lowering your own status. After all, you have turned
the table around and made it clear that SHE is the
one who’s being the loser. Sometimes, a woman will
approach you and apologize for being a bitch
before.
2) Lower Her Social Status
The second way is to make her feel bad
by asking her friends, “Does she always act like
a bitch to new people?” Then turn to her and use
the guilt trap in front of everyone. Before anyone
can answer, leave and go back to do whatever you
were doing.
By bringing other people into the picture,
you will lower her status in front of her own
group. She will feel bad in front of her friends,
and sometimes her friends may even come talk to
you after.
3) Slam Her Back
The last method is to make her feel bad
by being a bigger bitch than she is. Say something
such as “Well, just because your parents never
raised you properly doesn’t mean other people have
to take your bullshit. Have a nice evening.”
Note that even with this method, you should
still keep your cool and say something positive at the
end such as “Have a nice evening.” This will
keep your social status high and make it clear that
she’s the unreasonable one here.
Just remember the following: When you
stand up to a woman who always acts like a
bitch in front of men, two things may happen.
She’ll either submit to you and feel the need
to please you, or she’ll get even more bitchy
in order to see if you will back down. If she
chooses option one, good. If she chooses option
two, then just keep your cool but stay dominant
without giving in. She’ll probably go crazy
cause she can’t control you, but eventually
she’ll fall into place. (If she doesn’t, chances
are she may have serious character problems,
and you should avoid her as much as possible!)
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4 Important Keys To Having A Great Relationship"
“4 Important Keys To Having A Great Relationship”
Over the past 8 years of working as a
dating coach, I’ve identified a few key thing
that can either make or break a relationship.
They are:
1) Character
A side effect of being a dating and
relationship coach is that over time you become
more cynical towards people with bad character.
While I still love people in general and
I will try to help anyone who come my way, whenever
I see a student dating someone of bad character,
I just know it’s probably not going to work out.
Unfortunately, most people don’t listen
until they’ve been hurt badly. I know I’m going
to sound like an asshole for suggesting that
you should stay away from liars, cheaters,
drugs addicts, and people with psychological
problems in general…but it’s my job to warn you!
It doesn’t matter how much you love
the person. A relationship with someone with
bad character is going to be extra tough. Expect
tons of drama and be prepared to be drained
emotionally.
If you want a relationship free of
relationship drama, then don’t go out with the
wrong person in the first place!
2) Personal Space
To this date, I have not yet seen a case
where a couple without a fair amount of breathing
room can stay together in the long run. (And I’ve
worked with thousands of relationships!) No
matter how addicted you are with your partner at
the moment, make sure you give them sufficient
breathing room. Otherwise, they more you try to
keep them within an arm’s reach, the more you will
push them away.
I promise you!
3) Quality Romance Time
No matter how long you’ve been together,
you still have to spend some quality romance time
together. If you never do anything fun and
romantic, the chemistry will eventually die and
it won’t be long before the relationship falters
too.
Don’t use lack of time as an excuse. Life is
about priorities. If you aren’t willing to put the
time and energy to make your relationship work,
then don’t cry when you lose it one day.
4) Romantic Respect
Lastly, a relationship without proper
romantic respect *will* die over time. This is
why you should never totally stop acting like
a bit of a challenge – even if you have been
together for twenty years. If your partner
loses romantic respect with you, it’ll only
be a matter of time before the relationship
goes down the tube as well!
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7 Inner Game Tips
“7 Inner Game Tips”
It has been awhile since I’ve written
about inner game, so today I am going to take
a break from philosophy and techniques and give
you ten keys to developing your inner game as
a Smart Dater.
1) Be Positive
The first key is to keep a positive
attitude towards life. This may sound like common
sense, but you wouldn’t believe how many guys I
talk to every week who are just too darn depressed
about life. How can you radiate charm and confidence
if you do not believe in yourself or if you always
think everyone is out to screw you? The guys with
positive attitudes ALWAYS win against guys with
negative attitudes or self-imposed limitations.
2) Forget About The Outcome
The second key to having a great inner game
is to ignore the potential outcome. Don’t worry
about what may happen if you approach a woman
or flirt with her. Just do it.
3) Focus On Having Fun
One easy way to forget about the outcome
is to focus on the fun and experience. Go out with
your buddies without worrying about whether you will
come home with a woman or not. Just focus on having
fun!
4) Take Small Steps
Don’t try to take on too much when you’re
just starting out. Taking small steps can help you
build confidence over time.
5) Focus On What You Can Change
If something is out of your control, such
as your height or looks, just ignore it. Focus on
what you can change instead. As I always say,
YOU are the environmental constant. No matter where
you are or how tough a situation us, YOU can control
what you do on YOUR end. So focus on what you
can do and do your very best. Ignore everything
else!
6) Be Adventurous And Try New Things
Be adventurous and just go out and experience
life. Don’t be afraid of trying out new things. It’s
how you expand your horizons and get better at
the game.
7) Create Opportunities
Don’t be the loser who reads my stuff but
stays at home. Don’t wait for women to approach
you. Go out there and create opportunities for
yourself.
8) Be Flirty
Be flirty and playful with all the girls
you meet, whether you are attracted to them or
not. Focus on the fun rather than the outcome!
9) Don’t Ignore The External
Make sure your external image reflects
what you’re trying to achieve internally.
Without proper external adjustments such as
grooming yourself properly or taking positive
actions, working on your inner game is nothing
but mental masturbation.
10) Balance Your Life
Balance your life so that you don’t
burn out. If your life consists of nothing
except chasing women, sooner or later you’re
going to find your life going downhill, and
your love life will get dragged down as
a result!
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