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“The Guy Who Got Drunk On A Date…”
Last night I went out for dinner and saw something
really funny.
There was a guy out on a date with an Asian girl.
The girl wasn’t drinking at all. But the guy…let’s
just say he had had way too much to drink. In fact, he
was so intoxicated that he was laughing (alone) half
of the time. And when he needed to go to the bathroom,
he stood up, looked around helplessly, and just stood
there dumbfounded for thirty seconds. Eventually,
a waiter stopped by to show him where the bathroom was.
Meanwhile, the girl had a semi-disgusted look on her
face – and the guy was totally oblivious to it. (The
next day, he’d probably wonder why the girl did not
answer his calls after such a “great” date.)
It was quite embarrassing to watch.
Listen. I am not against responsible drinking
at all. In fact, I encourage every adult to drink
socially as long as their health and religion permits.
But please have self-control when you’re out on a date.
Save the binging for when you’re with your buddies.
There’s no point in getting plastered in front of a
woman. You will never impress a woman by the amount
of alcohol you can hold – especially when she is sober
and you’re not!
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Thanks,
Marius
“How To Hold A Womans Hand With The Crook Technique”
Yesterday I taught you one of my favourite
kino tricks – The Crook Technique.
Today I am going to show you how to go from
the crook position to holding a woman’s hand.
Here’s how to do it:
1) Get into the crook position by using the
crook technique.
2) Have some kind of an event or situation
(such as crossing the road) to break the armlock.
3) Wrap your arm around her waist and tug
her closer as if you’re just leading her.
4) Depending on the mood of the date,
you can remain in this position for awhile (draw
her close to you!) or move on to the next step.
5) Stop wrapping your arm around her waist.
Brush your hand across her lower back as you pull
back and grab her hand just as your hand leaves
her body.
6) Hold her hand!
Smooth, eh?
To learn more kino techniques, sign up for
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Thanks,
Marius Panzarella
“Using Money To Attract Women”
Last time we talked about how you should not envy
the good looking guy’s advantage in the dating game. Today
we will talk about how the same principle applies to
guys with money too.
Even a fool would know that having a lot of
money *will* help attract women to you. There’s no
question about that.
But if money is the only thing you have,
then watch out: Just like the good looking guy,
you may be in for a rude awakening one day.
First of all, there’s no guarantee that
your fortune will last forever. There are *many*
readers on my list who are “ex-millionaires” -
guys who have made it and then lost it all. When
they were rich, women swarmed all over them. But
as soon as they lost their shirts, the same women
left them for other men.
Secondly, even if you manage to keep
your fortune, if you only use money to attract women,
then chances are, the women who are going to be
drawn to you will be the gold diggers and other
women with bad character. These women will
give you a LOT of trouble in the long run.
In some states, they can even have a love affair
with another man, get a divorce, and STILL get
a lot of money from you.
Lastly, it is very easy for a man with
money to practice down-dating, which is often a
recipe for disaster.
So…what should you do if you don’t have
a lot of money?
Here are some rules to follow:
1) Make yourself, not your money, the focus.
Instead of using your money to attract
women, focus on your PERSONALITY and INTELLIGENCE -
the things that allowed you to accumulate your
wealth.
2) Be careful of gold diggers.
Watch out for gold diggers. Get together
with the wrong woman and you wallet take a big hit.
3) Make sure you have other qualities.
Money may get you into the door, but to
keep a woman attracted to you so that she doesn’t
cheat or leave you, you need to have more
“substance” than just having deep pockets.
(Note: If you read the papers, you will
find a lot of victims of gold diggers are men
who have inherited their money or struck gold
through “circumstance” such as achieving sudden
stardom or selling stock options at the peak of
a major stock bubble. Guys who accumulate their
wealth “the long way” are usually too smart to
fall for gold diggers. Those are the guys I
want you to emulate if you’re very rich.)
4) Raise your romantic intelligence.
Make sure you educate yourself about
women and raise your romantic intelligence.
You can do that by signing up for my
dating newsletter and also by downloading my
“Smart Dating Course”
To sign up for my free dating newsletter,
go to:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
It contains tons of dating advice
that will help you improve your love life
and get the girls!
Thanks,
Marius
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“10 Signs A Woman May Be Manipulative or Have Character Problems”
Here are 10 signs a woman may may be manipulative have
character problems.
1) She falls in love WAY too fast.
When a woman advances WAY faster than most
women do, watch out. It may not mean you’re lucky,
it may mean you’re dealing with a psycho. Watch out
for her either dominating your life completely or
falling out of love just as fast.
2) She treats her family badly…
Watch out for women who treat their family
members badly or say bad things about them. Eventually
she’ll treat you that way too.
3) She likes to blame the world.
If a woman blames the world for everything
instead of taking responsibility for her out actions,
you can be sure there’ll be LOTS of drama in your
life when you start dating her.
4) She’s on drugs.
Drugs are bad and will mess up a woman’s
mind, period. And if you are a heavy drug-user,
I suggest you seek help too.
5) She’s an alcoholic.
In the past I have been flamed by readers
for advising against dating alcoholics. To all you
alcoholic-lovers out there, I am sorry to offend you
but I still stand by what I have said. It’s okay to
date an alcoholic who’s been clean for a few years, but
it is NOT okay to date a woman (or man) who is still an
alcoholic.
6) She hangs out with the wrong crowd.
As I have mentioned in the past, you can
often judge a person’s character by looking at their
choice of friends. So if your new girlfriend hangs
around with the wrong crowd, watch out.
7) She plays mind games from the start.
If you can “sense” a woman is playing
mind games with you, chances are, she is.
Stay away.
8) Her income or living space do not
justify the lifestyle she has.
A little surprised that she can afford
all the nice clothes and makeup when she lives
in a hold or works a bad job? It’s a sign that
she’s a gold digger and has at least one other
man supporting her.
Always be cautious about home who
lifestyles do not match with their income or
home. Even if she is NOT a gold digger, you
don’t want a woman who wastes all of your
income on handbags and fancy gowns when you
get married.
9) Her stories don’t match up.
Do her stories seem to not match up?
Watch out? She could be a chronic liar.
When dealing with liars and cheaters,
follow my two-strike rule. First time, you
let her off with a warning. Second time, it’s
over!
10) Your friends tell you there are
things wrong with the woman.
Friends are usually less-biased than
you are since they are not in love with your
girl. If everybody starts telling you how they
think your new girlfriend is a slut or a
manipulative bitch, it’s time to take a step back
and see why they feel that way.
For more practical dating and relationship
tips, sign up for my free dating newsletter at:
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- Marius Panzarella
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“The Cumulative Factor In Dating”
Something I’ve learned from my years of
working as a dating coach is that many men expect
to learn a few “pick up techniques” that can turn
their love lives around instantly.
For example, they may try to “act cocky”
or spit out the “seven magic words” and think that
is all it takes to attract women.
This isn’t surprising, as there are many
dating coaches there that are trying to make a quick
buck by promoting single “magical” concepts that
should improve your success with women.
But you know what? I don’t believe there’s
such a “magic bullet” that you can use to attract
any woman at all.
In my opinion, the CUMULATIVE effect of using
MANY techniques is a lot more important than just using
over magical technique that is supposed to work under
every situation.
For those of you who have read my Smart Dating
Course, you will know that the CUMULATIVE effect of
your actions is MUCH more important than any single
“bullet”.
In the real world, if you get a BB gun
and shoot BB bullets at a window, you’re not going to
break it. The bullets are just going to bounce off the
window. But if you melt a hundred BB bullets together
and throw it at a window like a baseball, it’s going
to crack it open.
Dating is the same. EVERY action you do will
either attract a woman towards you or push her away
from you. All your tiny actions may seem very
insignificant to you, but when you add them together,
they’ll determine the amount of success you have with
a woman.
Too many men try to “act cocky” or “be
funny”…and don’t realize that it’s the CUMULATIVE
EFFORT of their actions that really “get” them women.
Focus on the cumulative effect, and you’ll
be able to have powerful, long-lasting results when
it comes to raising attraction and keeping a healthy
relationship with a woman.
Focus on single “magical” techniques, and
you will create walls of resistance in front of yourself
on the pathway to success.
To learn various techniques you can use to
attract women, sign up for my free dating newsletter at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
I’ll show you how to attract women – step-by-step!
- Marius Panzarella
