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“What Does The Number 77.8 Have To Do With Dating and Women?”
Two things I need to do today.
The first thing is to tell you
that I have finally updated the web site for
my “Smart Relationships Course.” Many readers
have been telling me they see nothing but a
blank blue screen when they go there. The
problem has now been fixed and you should check
it out at:
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If it still does not work for you,
let me know. (Thanks for checking it for me!)
The second thing I need to do is to
wish you a Happy New Year…
As we step into 2008, I would like
you to stop for a few moments and reflect
on what you have done for your love life
(and other areas of your life too) in 2007.
- Have you gone up to talk to the
girls you like?
- Have you actively gone out to
improve your social life?
- Have you worked on your dating
and flirting skills?
- Have you been practicing my
techniques in the REAL WORLD?
- Have you tried your best to
break out of your comfort zones?
- Have you worked on yourself?
- Have you read (and re-read) my
“Smart Dating Course” and “Smart Relationships Course”?
I am sure that somewhere in the
back of your mind you have an honest feeling
of how much you’ve accomplished in the past year.
Now… it’s time to put that
into the past and focus on the upcoming year.
Here are two questions for you:
- Are you mentally prepared to
work on yourself and to improve your dating skills?
- Are you mentally prepared to have
the potential success I can help you get in
the upcoming year?
In the next few issues of my dating
newsletter, I will show you some tips on how
to prepare yourself for a whole new year of
success with the opposite sex.
But for now, here is a number I would
like you to REMEMBER…
77.8
Do you know what it is?
It is the average life expectancy
in the United States.
With that number, I am going to do
some quick math.
Let’s assume you’re 30 years old.
That means you have about 48 years left on
this earth. Since you spend about 2/3 of each
day eating and working or studying, that means
you only have about 16 years left to do the
things you really want to do.
I am sure spending time with the girl
you like is somewhere on your list.
But let’s not even talk in terms of
years. In a few hours, there will be just 365
days left before 2008 is over. Take away the
2/3 for eating and working, and there are
just 120 days left for you to get the girl
you want.
That’s right…just 120 days.
With that in mind, are you going
to waste any more time, or are you going
to get a head start for the new year?
With the clock ticking and ticking,
I think I’ve laid out a very, very compelling
case for you to use my “Smart Dating Course”
as your blueprint and shortcut to get yourself
the girl you want.
You should download it a.s.a.p at:
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a current relationship, then I highly recommend
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“10 Speaking Tips For Improving Your Speech”
Here are 10 tips for improving your speech.
1) Talk slowly. Slow down your speech as much
as you can – especially when you’re nervous.
2) Talk in a deep voice.
3) Speak from your diaphragm. To feel your diaphragm,
lie on the floor and put your hands on your tummy.
Breathe in and out.
4) Avoid “filler words” that don’t mean anything.
(Examples: “Umm”, “eh”, and “right…”)
5) Fluctuate your pitch. Think of your words as
music,
6) Fluctuate your volume/dynamics as you speak.
Sound energetic during the exciting parts and
whisper when you get to the profound points.
7) Pause before important words.
8) Record yourself speak, listen back, and
practice.
9) Talk in a sensual voice. Imagine the vibration
of your voice caressing the soul behind her
eyes.
10) Relax while you’re talking!
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“5 Signs A Woman Is Blowing You Off”
Here are five signs a woman is blowing you off.
1) She mentions a boyfriend AND she does not flirt back.
If a woman mentions her boyfriend when you attempt to
flirt with her, it’s a sign she probably wants to be left
alone. If she keeps flirting back, however, then she *could*
be attracted to you.
2) She ignores your emails completely.
If she never replies to your email, you can bet
she wants you to leave her alone.
3) She sends you one-word answers to your emails.
A woman with a high interest level will not give
you one-word answers when she responds to your email. It
is a major indicator that she is not interested. Keep
bugging her with more emails, and eventually she will stop
answering them completely.
4) She still won’t come over for dinner after a few dates.
A woman with a high interest level will love to
come over for dinner – even if she does not expect to
have sex. In fact, if a woman is interested enough, she
probably won’t mind cooking dinner with you or for you!
5) She tells you “maybe” when you suggest doing something
2 weeks in the future.
A woman with a high interest level will not
say “maybe” when she has not even scheduled so far away
into the future yet. Instead, she will say “yes” and then
fit her schedule AROUND you.
So…what do you do if a woman blows you off?
Well, honestly, by the time a woman blows you
off, it’s usually over. The resistance point isn’t at
the point where she blows you off. It’s at BEFORE you
make a move on her and she blows you off.
If a woman blows you off, there are two
possibilities. One is that you’re not her type. The other
is that she is not attracted to you enough.
If a woman is not attracted “enough”, it means
you haven’t done a good enough job of building the chemistry
and rapport with her.
To build chemistry with a woman, remember to focus
on the attraction by flirting, teasing, and acting like
a challenge. Basically, all the little things I’ve been
teaching you on my newsletter.
These three “pillars” can *really* make women
like you!
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“Asking Out Women At The Workplace”
I’m often asked, “Marius, I work in retail and
lots of hot women come into the store every day. Should
I be asking them out?”
My advice is to avoid it as you don’t want to
create unnecessary “drama” in the workplace.
Ask yourself these questions:
1) What if one of the customers turns out to
be a psycho and reports you for harassment?
2) What if your boss doesn’t like you getting
more attention from women than he does?
3) What if your co-workers use this as an
excuse to backstab you?
4) What if your female boss likes you and
thinks you’re an asshole for flirting with other
women?
5) What if your boss uses this as an
excuse to fire you?
And the list goes on and on…
Listen. Keep work away from dating.
There’s an old saying, “Don’t sht* where you
eat.”
It TOTALLY applies to dating too.
However, you CAN flirt with these women
lightly IF it can help the store sell more.
If you’re merely flirting with these women for
the purpose of MAKING SALES, then your boss and
coworkers can’t really have anything against you
sine you’re just doing your job. Just avoid taking
it too far or turning your workplace into a
“hunting around” for women!
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techniques that you can use to attract women, check
out my “Smart Dating Newsletter” at:
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I believe them!
- Marius Panzarella
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Posted by Marius Panzarella on January 30, 2007 · Leave a Comment
“The One Question You Should Never Ask On A Date”
Here’s one question you should NEVER ask on
a date, “What would you like to do today?”
If you ask this question, your date’s romantic
respect for you will plummet and her attraction for you
will drop.
Remember one of the golden rules of my “Smart
Dating Course”:
As a man, you should always lead on a date.
It doesn’t matter if she’s hot and beautiful.
It doesn’t matter if she seems like the bossy
type.
It doesn’t matter if she is more sociable than
you.
As a man, it is your responsible to have a
date planned, period!
Always pick a “main” activity to do and WHERE
you’re going to do it. Have backup plans (aka option B
and C) just in case.
Of course, a common complaint is that it seems
“asshole-ish” to “tell women what to do”. But from my
experience, if a woman does NOT want to do something,
she WILL tell you, and that’s when you can let her
pick option B or C…or come up with an option of
her own.
Just remember this: Men lead, women choose!
Tomorrow I will elaborate on this concept and
show you how to ask for a date with confidence.
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“What Does It Mean When A Woman Keeps Looking At You?”
What does it mean if a woman keeps looking
at you?
Well, there are two possibilities. One is
that she is checking you out. Remember that in
most cases, if a woman is not interested in you
at all, she will not even “see” you. So the
fact that she is looking at you could be a sign
that she is curious about you and checking you
out.
Of course, there’s also the possibility
that she’s looking at you because she thinks
you look or act funny in a bad way. This is quite
rare because women often IGNORE the guy they
find disgusting to avoid any contact. However,
when a group of girls gather together, they
may look around for guys to make fun of because
it is “safe” to do so.
To find out which category you belong in,
check out the body language of the woman and
the “context” of the situation. If a woman is alone
and she keeps looking at you and smiling, then
chances are, she’s interested. If a woman is
in a group and the women keep looking at you
and giggling in your direction, then try smiling back
at one of them and see how they react. If she
woman gets excited, it’s a good sign. But if she turns
away in disgust while other woman keeps laughing,
then they’re probably making fun of you. (Once
again, this is quite rare. Most of the time, a
woman who keeps checking you out is at least a bit
interested in you!)
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“Are Women Illogical When It Comes To Dating?”
A comment that I hear from men all the time is
that women are often illogical when it comes to dating.
I must admit that while I agree, at the same time I have
to add another point on top of this one:
Yes, it’s true that women are often illogical
when it comes to dating, but so are men!
As a dating coach, I can tell you how I see
guys do “stupid” things for love every day. You
think a woman is stupid for leaving the nice guy for
the jerk? How about the guy who ruins his career, his
finance, AND his family relationships for a drama girl?
Isn’t that illogical too?
Here’s the truth: attraction works on a different
level than pure logic. If you believe in Freud, then
attraction is in the ID while logic is in the Ego.
Just like a woman cannot force you to become attracted
to her without “turning you on” first, you cannot expect
a woman to be attracted to you without appealing to her
inner desires.
But of course, a fine line has to be drawn between
listening to your ID or your Ego. If you listen to
your ID and go after anything that is pleasurable,
you are either going to end up dying young or locked up
in jail. On the other hand, if you listen to your Ego only,
then you’re going to be one of those boring dudes that
women do not find attractive at all.
Your job as a “Smart Dater” is to learn how to
talk in the secret language of attraction and learn how to
please a woman’s inner desires…WHILE using logic to
screen out baggage women that are BAD for you.
The further you stray from that fine line between
attraction and logic, the more trouble you are going to
find with your love life…so maintain that balance!
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What if a woman you’ve met on the Internet seems to
enjoy chatting with you, but always makes up excuses whenever
you ask her to meet in person?
It means she’s a “professional chatter” – a woman
who’s just interested in teasing men without the “consequences”
of meeting them in person.
Processional chatters are women (sometimes men posing
as women…) who talk to men on the Internet in order to feel
attractive. They aren’t really seeking a relationship or sex.
In fact, some of them are even married or in a relationship
already. They chat with men on the Internet and have cybersex
“just for the kicks.”
Here’s a general rule dealing with these women. If
you bring up meeting for three times and she still gives you
bullsh** excuses, it’s time to block her or delete her and
move on because she’s clearly just wasting your time.
Online dating is a numbers game. If it doesn’t work
out with a certain woman, just move on!
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“Can Alcohol Give You More Confidence On A Date?”
Some of my readers have told me that they like to drink
before or during a date because it builds their confidence.
Personally, I don’t think that’s such a great idea.
More than a few of my past readers have gotten into
trouble while being drunk. One guy started puking in front of
his date. Another guy got his butt kicked after starting a
fight with another guy at a club.
Sure, these guys all thought they were “feeling”
confident. But in reality, they were acting like idiots.
A recent study shows that it actually takes women
LONGER to get drunk than a guy. So if you have just ONE drink
with a woman on a date, you could be acting like an idiot
while your date is COMPLETELY SOBER AND TURNED OFF BY YOUR
ACTIONS. This explains why some guys think they had a “great
date” and are surprised when their dates don’t want to see
them again.
Here’s the lesson of the day: Do NOT try to use
alcohol to give yourself more confidence. Don’t rely on
booze to give you confidence. Work on your self-image
instead!
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Posted by Marius Panzarella on January 29, 2007 · Leave a Comment
“Classes That Will Help You Get Women”
Here are a few classes that you can take to
become more attractive to women:
1) Wine Tasting:
Knowing about wine and where they came from can
help you become more sophisicated and charming. Real romantic
men know their wine because they know how to enjoy life.
2) Cooking:
As I’ve mentioned many times in the past, “food”
is one of the easiest ways to get into a woman’s pants
AND heart. Learn to cook well, and thou shall be
rewarded!
3) Massage:
This is a GREAT way to get a woman ready for
sex. Most women cannot say “no” to a great backrub -
especially if they KNOW you’re good!
4) Music: Learn to play the guitar. Invest
a hundred bucks on a cheap guitar and a few cheap
chord books and learn it for half an hour every
night. You’ll quickly become the center of attention
at house parties.
5) Writing: Take a few creative writing classes and
work on a screenplay or novel in your spare time.
This way, you can call yourself a writer – which raises
your coolness by a couple of points in a woman’s eyes.
6) Dance / Yoga: You’ll be surrounded and
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“Where To Sit At A Restaurant”
In the past month, a few readers have asked
me where I think they should sit at the restaurant
when they go out for dinner with a woman. There
are also questions about whether or not a man should
let a woman face the wall when she sits.
Honestly, I think it really doesn’t matter
as long as it is a quiet spot.
If you sit facing the wall, then see it
as a way of protecting your woman. You’re being
a gentleman and letting her sit at a “safer” spot.
And if you let the woman face the wall,
then use it as opportunity to tease her. Make
up funny stories about what is happening behind
her back and see if she turns around.
Either way will work.
What happens *the most* is that you REALLY
build rapport with her during dinner. If you do
everything right, she should be focusing all her
attention on YOU anyway…so it really doesn’t
matter which way she is facing!
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“Link For Dating Success Stories From Marius Panzarella’s Readers”
Hi. This morning I received the following
email from a long time reader of my dating newsletter:
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I just wanted to tell you that you should put
some new success stories in your newsletters.
I personally like reading new success stories
each week just as much as I like reading Marius P’s
newsletters. They’re fun to read, and what makes them
more fun is if you show your replies to the stories
too.
You should think about it Marius, I’m sure a
lot of your readers would like it.
You can put it at the bottom like you always
do, just not the same ones over and over, and put your
reply under that to make it worth looking at. :D
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I must say I have to agree with this reader.
The truth is, I’ve been so busy writing newsletter
issues and dating articles every day that I’ve become
lazy with the success stories – I usually just copy
and paste from my old ones.
From now on, I will try to use “fresh” success
stories for my newsletter. (If you have not signed up
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With that said, I do have a small collection of
“recent” success stories that I’ve compiled back in
December. They are actually on THIS site. You can read
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Perhaps you will find a few that’ll inspire you!
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“Getting Women Drunk To Get Into Their Pants”
Here’s my view on getting girls drunk to get
into their pants:
DON’T DO IT!
Lots of guys think that it is “easier” to get
a girl hammered before “making a move”. You keep buying a woman
drinks, and then you start advancing once the woman is properly
buzzed and too drunk to resist your charm.
But guess what? That’s called date-rape!
Having sex with a woman who’s too drunk to resist
(or in some cases, even move) is rape. End of story.
Having sex with a woman who’s coming onto you
because she’s drunk is also questionable.
Don’t forget that even if she’s coming onto YOU
while she’s drunk, her “anti-slut defence” could kick in
the next morning and file a date-rape charge against you.
And since other people have seen you leave with her while
she was completely intoxicated, guess who the police is
going to believe? Even if you get out of it, the trouble
won’t be worth it.
Besides, why would you want to have sex with a
semi-conscious drunk who could puke all over you at any
time?
As a Smart Dater, there is absolutely no reason
for you to have to stoop that low. With the skills and
techniques I’ve taught you, you should be able to go out
there are attract women WITHOUT getting them drunk.
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“Does Marius Panzarella Believe In Unconditional Love?”
A question I am often asked is, “Marius,
do you believe in unconditional love when it comes
to dating and relationships? Do you think we should
offer unconditional love to our partners?”
Yes, I do – but only to an extent.
As I always say, you should odder your
love and romance without REALLY expecting anything
in return at the beginning of a relationship.
However, there has to be a limit. If your partner
just keeps on taking and taking without ever
reciprocating, then it’s time to review your
stance.
You HAVE to learn to draw boundaries and
protect yourself from pure exploitation, or
eventually you’re going to be tangled up in a big
mess.
For example, if you girlfriend has a bad
case of depression, sure, by all means try to
offer her your support for a few months. But if
she only gets worse and worse because she refuses
to take care of herself and your words just aren’t
getting to her, then there has to be a point when
you say “enough is enough” and move on with your
life – especially if her problem (whatever it is)
is due to her own actions and attitude.
Loving someone blindly is extremely
dangerous – both for you and for your partner. (If
you just keep on supporting your partner
unconditionally, then the person has no reason too
change…)
At the end of the day, you’ve got to protect
yourself, because if you don’t, nobody else will!
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“A Few Hot Kissing Tips”
Here are a few hot kissing tips.
1) Tilt your head when you kiss.
2) Start out slow…get more aggressive slowly…
and then slow down again.
3) Break the kiss and then go back to kissing
as a way of teasing.
4) Look at the person you are kissing in the
eyes.
5) Hold your date’s face as you kiss.
6) Make sure your lips are soft and not
tensed up.
7) Vary your kissing technique.
8) As saliva build up, remember to swallow.
9) Don’t allow your tongue to go
limp; move it around your partner’s tongue.
10) Know when to stop…and when to advance.
Don’t just keep kissing. Start kissing her neck
and then down to her breasts, for example.
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“Why It Is Okay To Lead On A Date”
A comment I get quite often from flamers
and guys who have doubts about my dating tips is
that it is “wrong” for me to suggest guys to lead
on dates and have things pre-planned because
to these Feminazi’s, leading on a date is
“basically just taking away choice from women.”
I find that silly and absurd. Just because
you have everything planned out well does not
mean you are taking away “choice” from women.
In my experience, in today’s society, if a woman
does not like a suggestion for a date, she WILL
be vocal about it. For example, if you suggest
going to an Italian restaurant and she hates
Italian food, she WILL tell you she wants to
go somewhere else. And if she doesn’t speak up,
then it’s her CHOICE. There is nothing unethical
or evil about planning a date ahead of the time
so that you can be sure you’ll have a GREAT time
together.
(By the way, this is why I often stress
that you should always have a Plan B or C ready
when you’re out on a date. This way, if a woman
does not like Plan A, you can do Plan B or Plan
C and still stay in control!)
As for things like walking in front of
a woman, holding her hand while crossing the
streets, and pulling out her seat for her, these
are proper etiquettes that shouldn’t be part of
any “political correctness” debate. Anyone with
a little bit of experience with dating will
know that most women will *not* have a problem
with you opening doors or pulling out chairs
for her. If a woman REALLY thinks these actions
take away her choice, maybe she should start
dating other women.
Anyway…
As I always say, reality is what matters.
Sure, you can believe the propaganda Feminists feed
you. You can stop leading on a date and start asking
permission for everything. You can act as needy as
you want.
But then don’t whine when women always just
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“10 Signs She Is Too High Maintenance”
Here are 10 signs a woman is too high maintenance.
If you see more than 2 of these signs in your girlfriend,
watch out. See more than 4, and you should consider running
the other way.
1) She is not very mature emotionally.
2) She’s overly jealous and needs constant
reassurance.
3) She’s extremely critical and judgmental of
you and other people.
4) She does not have a life outside the relationship.
Nor does she want one.
5) She does not have any friends.
6) She exhibits bipolar behavior. She can be a real
angel one moment and a nasty bitch the next moment.
7) She can’t take any kind of criticism – not even
a joke.
8) She’s “always” right.
Stuck with such a woman? Send me an email and I’ll
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“How To Use The Pausing Trick On Women And Men”
In negotiatons, the first person to speak during
a period of silence will often lose the negotation.
In dating, you can use the similar concept to
show your dominance in front of a woman or man.
For example, let’s say that you are on a date
with a woman and she’s being unreasonable. She is trying
to justify a bad decision with some logic that doesn’t
really make sense.
Instead of arguing, just keep looking at her
like you’re expecting her to explain further. Most
of the time, she will. Just keep on doing this until
she breaks down and realizes that she is talking in
a circle and not being reasonable. Then move in, give
her a hug, and give her a compromise out of your
sweetness.
Or let’s say you’ll talking to a woman
and another guy is trying to “alpha” you. Instead
of responding to him, just look at him, pause,
raise your eyebrow like he is an idiot, and then
ignore him. This will piss him off more than any
smartass line, because you’re not even giving him
a chance!
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“How To Build Rapport Through Body Language”
Last time I taught you how to build
rapport with women by matching their voice
tone. Today I will show you how to build rapport
with the ladies by mirroring your body language
with theirs.
It’s very similar to the voice tone
exercise Corvette Summer move :
1) Choose an unimportant situation you
don’t get about.
Pick a situation where you don’t care
about the outcome at all, such as a casual
conversation on the bus or a meeting with a
friend of a friend.
2) Match the way they stand or sit.
As you talk to the person, pay attention
to how they are sitting or standing. Adjust your
posture until you are mirroring theirs. If they
are leaning forward, lean forward just a little
bit (but not too much). If they are leaning back,
then relax and sink into your chair.
3) Match their energy.
Next, notice how expressive they are
with their body language. For example, are they
waving their arms around as they speak? Or are
they holding still?
Mirror whatever they are doing. If they
are using a lot of gesture, use a lot of gestures.
You will probably feel the rapport building
up!
4)Mismatch on purpose
Now, try to mismatch your body language
and energy level. Notice how this impacts the
rapport you have been building.
5) Finally, go back to mirroring their
body language and energy level. See how much
rapport you regain.
Next time, I’ll start showing you some
more advanced rapport-building techniques that
you can use. So stay tuned!
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“What If A Woman Leaves You During Rough Times”
What should you do if a woman leaves you
during rough times, such as after you’ve been
fired from your job or hurt in a car accident?
If that happens, you should ask
yourself the following question:
Did she leave you because of your actions,
or did she leave you because of your situation?
This is a VERY important question!
If she has left you because of the “mistakes”
you’ve made in the relationship such as being too needy
or continuing to “push” her when it was clear that she
needed space, then simply use my “Reverse Your Breakup”
program to get her back. (For a free list of common
“breakup mistakes” that may have caused your breakup
with your girlfriend, check out my free report now at:
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But if she had broken up with you because of
your situation (examples: She does not want to be with
a guy in a wheelchair or a guy with no money), then you
should be GLAD that she’s gone. She’s really not
worth your while. (If you don’t believe that, drop me
an email and I’ll take a look at your case.)
But either way, you should learn more about
women and dating before you do anything else. Sign up
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“How To Break Up With A Woman”
Here’s how to break up with a woman:
1) Stop having sex with her at least two weeks
before you break up with her. This is VERY important!
Do not sleep with a woman and then break up with her
the next morning, no matter how tempting it is to do it
“one last time” before breaking up.
2) Start being “too busy” to hangout with her
the week before. Minimize telephone calls and other
contact.
3) Go over to HER house to break up with her.
This way you can just leave without worrying about her
getting home safe. She also won’t be able to break down
and cry in front of a crowd at a public place or refuse
to leave your apartment.
4) Tell her that you do not feel “that way”
towards her anymore.
5) If she tries to bait you into giving her a
“specific reason” for breaking up with her, don’t fall
for it. Just repeat that your feelings have changed.
(A person can’t really argue against that.) Giving her
a “specific” reason will only give her something to
argue OR be upset about.
6) Stay away from her for awhile. Do not try
to “be friends” with her until you’re sure she is
absolutely over you. (And you’re absolutely over her.)
You don’t want to get into an “on and off” cycle and
end up on the Jerry Springer Show one day.
7) Read my “Smart Dating Course
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“How To Compliment A Woman Without Losing Your Power”
I am often asked, “Marius, how can I compliment
a woman without losing my power?”
The answer is really quite simple…
Instead of trying to flatter a woman with
compliments, try to “approve” them with compliments
instead!
Although the compliment itself may carry the
same meaning, if you say it with an “approving tone”
instead of a “sucking up tone”, you will not lose any
status or power by saying the compliment.
Let’s look at some examples of the “flattery”
compliment:
1) “You look so hot in that dress…”
2) “You are such a sexy woman.”
3) “No man has ever made me feel the way you
make me feel before”
These flattery compliments are not “bad.” It’s
just that if you use them too often,the woman may
start taking you for granted and lose her romantic
respect for you.
Now let’s look at some examples of the
“approval” compliment:
1) “Not bad, not bad at all!” (Give her a
kiss, hold her close, and smell her.)
2) “You’re quite the sexy woman, you know.”
(Said in a flirty way.)
3) “If you keep cooking this great, we
should stop eating out.”
4) “I give you a 9 out of 10, and that’s
very high in my books.” (Said in a flirty way.)
See how the underlying meanings are
the same, but you’re not losing your power by
over-complimenting the woman any more?
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“What If Other Guys Hit On Your Girl While You’re Out On A Date”
Worried that other guys may hit on your
girl while you’re out of her? Here are a few tips
to follow:
1) See if she’s flirting back with them
If she’s actively flirting back with them,
then flirt with other girls in front of her and
see how she reacts. If she still does not get it,
go home and leave her there.
2) Don’t lose your cool
Don’t lose your cool no matter what the
other guys do. Losing your cool will only make
YOU look bad in front of your date, even if you
are not at fault.
3) Have protective body language
Show that you’re with her. Put your arms
around her. Hold her hands. Whisper in her ear
and smell her neck. This should be enough to
ward off most competitors.
4) Ignore your competiton
Don’t try to confront your competition
unless it is absolutely necessary – especially
if there is more than one.
For example, a common tactic is for one
guy (a wingman) or several friends to keep you
busy while the other guy hits on your girl.
Ignore ALL of them in the first place.
If you wish to speak, then make it short
and sarcastic. Do a hit and run. Humiliate
your competitor and then go back to ignoring
him. Have a “whatever” look when you speak.
5) Position yourself
Position yourself between your date and
your competitor, with your back to the competitor.
6) Have your friends surround you
If you are with friends, have your friends
surround you and your date.
7) Teach your date to say “no” to other guys
Your girlfriend should know how to
reject other guys who approach her.
8) Leave if necessary
If you run out of options, just leave.
There’s no point in getting into a fight.
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“How To Resume Kino When The Energy Is Low”
Ever wonder what to do when the energy drops
during a date because your date is getting tired?
Here is a great way to resume physical contact
with a woman when she’s tired or the energy is low.
Tickle her.
Surprise her by tickling her on a sensitive
part of her body such as the sides of her waist or the
bottom of her feet. When she jumps, “attack” her
some more by tickling her all over.
Give her opportunities to block you or to
tickle you back. The point is to get her engaged in
a little wrestling match with you.
Finally, suddenly stop and lean in slowly
to kiss her.
There you go, you’ve just re-established
the kino.
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“How To Be More Interesting To Women”
Here are 10 ways to make yourself more interesting
to women.
1) Do fun things all the time, and tell stories about these
fun things that you do to women.
2) Learn a few foreign languages and travel often.
3) Have expertise in at least one or two areas.
4) Be a bit unconventional compared with other guys. Do
things a “normal person” might not do.
5) Have your own opinion instead of just “following what
the crowd thinks.”
6) Have direction in life. If you don’t know why you
are here on this earth or what you would like to do with
your life, it’s time to really think about it.
7) Start a band – even a crappy one.
8) Have good taste in food and clothes. It doesn’t mean
you have to spend a lot of money. But at least learn to
APPRECIATE the good things and have it once in awhile.
9) Be a leader among your friends and community.
10) Have knowledge and insights that the “average Joe”
would not have. Be ready to explain how the world really
works to people.
But of course, just because you’re interesting
doesn’t mean you will get the girls. To be a ladies man,
you will also need to flirt with women actively.
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“How To Get Women To Approach You”
If you need help getting attention from women, you
should consider getting yourself a couple of “props” that
will get women (and people in general) to be curious about
you.
These may be cool clothing or jewelry items that
are a bit unique or out of place, or they may be
gadgets that are a little bit unconventional.
For example, one of my favorite items years
ago was actually the first portable PDA keyboard that came
out. Every time I took it out at the coffee shop, I
would have random strangers asking questions about what is
was. And even if they didn’t ask questions, they would still
have curious glances at it – meaning I could intercept the
eye contact and smile to start a conversation. It’s too
bad PDA’s are so common now!
Another favorite prop of mine was a pair of
“floating sun glasses” (a magic trick) that I would
float on and off casually in front of a crowd. It gave
me tons of attention.
Little animals also work wonders. If you know
a friend with a small dog (it has to be small), borrow
it and take it out for an afternoon. Small dogs
are real chick-magnets! The only downside to them is
that sometimes they get more attention than you!
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“What If You Find Meeting Women Too Easy”
A common complaint that I hear from readers who have
been my readers for a long time is that it is becoming
“too easy” to attract women. (That’s a real quality problem
there, eh?)
As you practice what you learn from this column, my
free newsletter, and my “Smart Dating Course”, you’ll probably
experience similar results one day. Girls who used to never
given you any attention in the past may suddenly give
you more attention than you can handle.
You’re going to be real busy with women.
You may even find yourself a bit bored with them.
What do you do then?
The key is to raise the bar.
Go for women that are more challenging to you.
Work your way up and refine your skills.
Meet women that you “normally” wouldn’t meet.
Demand “more” from yourself instead of
letting competence get to you.
Work on other areas of your life as well. Now
that you have “this” part of your life properly handled,
work on raising your cumulative score in general. This
will help you further your success with the more challenging
women.
With the number of women out there, there’ll
*always* be women who excite you. So never say women
“bore” you.
It’s just an excuse!
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“How To Practice Smart Dating Techniques Effectively”
Here’s an important concept to remember
when you’re out practicing your dating skills:
Focus on your actions, not on the results.
For example, instead of worrying about how
many phone numbers you’ve gotten so far, worry
about how many women you’ve asked.
And instead of worrying about how many
women reacted to your flirting positively, focus
on how many women you’ve approached and the PROCESS
of flirting with these women.
Finally, instead of worrying about getting
a girlfriend or finding your soul mate, focus on
meeting as many new friends – male and female –
as possible. Expand your social circle, and love
will come.
These attitude adjustments may seem tiny
and insignificant, but they will make your
experiences a lot more fun and enjoyable in the
long run!
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“Should You Smile In Front Of Women?”
Apparently there are some dating coaches
out there who tell my readers they should not
smile when they are around women. The logic is that
women like “serious guys” and that smiling will
only make a guy look “goofy” and stupid.
I do not agree with this advice. Just
because you’re smiling doesn’t mean you will look
goofy or stupid. If you smile a nerdy smile that
makes you look more nervous than anything else, then
of course it will work against you. But if you smile
confidently and just share your warmth and positive
energy around the room, I absolutely do not see how
it could hurt you. (Think actors and politicians.
Do they look “stupid” or “goofy” when they smile
in front of the camera?)
Anyhow…as a “Smart Dater”, I think
you SHOULD smile warmly when you are around women
for the following reasons:
1) Smiling and acting cheerful is a major
key to getting a good social life, and having
an active social life is VERY important if
you would like to meet women.
2) It will help you have more playful
energy not just in front of women, but in front
of people in general
3) Smiling will relax your mind and body
and give you better body language.
4) It will make you happy and put you in
a positive frame of mind.
5) It will make women more receptive to
you.
6) It will help keep you out of reach
of negative people.
Now go out there and smile. After all,
smiling does not cost you anything!
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“Why Going To A Movie Makes A Bad First Date”
Here are 7 reasons why going to a movie
makes a bad first date:
1) You won’t get to talk at all. Why bother to go
out if you’re just going to stare at a screen together?
2) You won’t get to make eye contact during the movie.
So much for flirting.
3) Trying to get physical during a movie could be seen
as “cheesy.”
4) Going to a movie for a first date is just too
predictable. You want to be a bit more creative with
your first date ideas.
5) Sometimes you or the woman will get tired during
the movie because you’ve already had a long day.
6) It doesn’t set a very “sensual and romantic” tone -
which could be a problem if you suddenly try to flirt
after the movie.
7) A good movie takes the attention away from you. A bad
movie makes the mood lousy and boring.
If you absolutely “must” go to a movie for your
first date, try to follow the following rules:
1) Go for dinner before (flirt, flirt, flirt!) the movie
and go for drinks after the date. (Once again, flirt, flirt,
flirt!)
2) Stay away from romantic flicks. You will seem average
when compared to the movie star in the movie. Plus, it will
make everything you do look cheesy.
3) Try to watch horror movies if you can. It’s good to
scare girls with a horror movie and then tease her and flirt
with her.
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