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Posted by Marius Panzarella on December 31, 2006 · Leave a Comment
“The Cheap Candles Trick”
Here is a cheap little trick that you can use to have
a SUPER romantic evening with a woman.
1) Go to Costco and buy 300 tea lights. It should cost
you around $6-8. (Or even less when it’s on sale. I once got them
for $5 at Costco.)
2) Light them all when you have a woman over for dinner.
Chances are, as soon as she sees all the candles, she will want
to skip right to dessert.
One word of caution though: You may want to put tin foil
trays under the lights to make sure the wax doesn’t drop all over
your table or whatever surface you put them on. You should also
place the candles FAR away from any flamable material. Do NOT
turn your house into a hire hazard!
Also, remember that this trick is pretty hard to “top”,
so make sure you save it for only a really special occasion!
For more crazy (but practical) dating ideas, check out
my dating newsletter at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
Tens of thousands of men across the world have made it
their “personal secret”. You should do the same!
Thanks,
Marius
Posted by Marius Panzarella on December 30, 2006 · Leave a Comment
“Post Date Checklist”
Here are some questions for you to ask yourself after
a date.
1) Did you make her smile and laugh?
2) Did you flirt with her and tease her?
3) Did you act like a challenge?
4) Did you lead the date?
5) Did you touch her at least a few times?
6) Did you advance?
7) Did you build the emotional intimacy by talking about
things such as her dreams or childhood?
8) Did you try to take her outside her normal environment?
9) Did you invade her personal space?
10) Did you end the date early?
If you have answered “no” to any of the questions, then
you need to go back to my materials and practice some more!
To find out more about how to do the things mentioned
on the list, sign up for my free dating newsletter now at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
I’ll show you what you need to do to be successful
with women!
Thanks,
Marius
Posted by Marius Panzarella on December 29, 2006 · Leave a Comment
“What If A Woman Is Only Attracted To Jerks”
Do you know women who seem to be “only”
attracted to jerks? (Come on now, I am sure everybody
knows at least a couple.)
Today I have a piece of golden advice for
dating such women:
Don’t do it!
If a one-night stand or a short-term relationship
is all that you’re looking for, well, I’m not going to
stop you. (Still, I want you to be VERY careful!)
But if you’re looking to start a long-term
relationship with a woman who has a long history of
dating jerks or the “abusive type”, then I urge you to
rethink.
Because the fact that she’s been attracted to
these guys is a sign that she may have deeper problems
than you think.
It is perfectly normal for a woman to be attracted
to a man who acts like a challenge.
It is also quite normal for a woman to feel attraction
for a jerk.
But a woman who keeps going back to dating jerks…
well…let’s just say that that is NOT normal.
It shows the woman LIKES being mistreated because
of some deeper psychological issues. (Usually it’s because
of low self-esteem, but there are other reasons as well.)
Dating a woman like this is like holding a time
bomb in your hands – you never know when she’s going to
blow up.
If you’re dating such a woman, feel free to send me
an email and I’ll yell at you.
As a “Smart Dater”, there’s absolutely no reason for
you to tolerate these “baggage women”. Date women who are
not good “to” you, but good FOR you instead!
To learn how to attract women who are good FOR you,
sign up for my free dating newsletter at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
Met me turn you into a “pro” with women!
Thanks,
Marius
Posted by Marius Panzarella on December 28, 2006 · Leave a Comment
“How To Gauge A Woman’s Attraction For You”
Here are a few questions you should ask yourself to
gauge a woman’s attraction for you:
1) Does she flirt with you actively?
2) Does she flirt back when you flirt with her?
3) Does she seem willing to “compromise” or to alter
her schedule in order to see you?
4) Does she act especially happy when she is around
you?
5) Does she like to compliment you?
6) Does she mention you in front of her friends?
7) Does she dress up to see you?
8) She keeps invading your personal space with herself?
9) Does she get jealous when you spend time with
other girls?
10) Does she work hard to get your attention?
To find out how you can INCREASE a woman’s attraction
for you, sign up for my free dating newsletter at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
Much of the information on this newsletter is
exclusive and not even available on this website!
More than 70,000 men across the world are already
using this newsletter to date the women they like…
You could be one of them!
- Marius Panzarella
Posted by Marius Panzarella on December 27, 2006 · Leave a Comment
“How To Spruce Up Your Car For A Date”
Here are 10 ways to spruce up your car for your next date:
1) CLEAN IT
Clean your car and organize your belongings! While your
buddies may not mind the mess, women definitely will!
2) GET A CUTE AIR REFRESHER
This may sound silly, but getting a cute air refresher
can give you yet another conversation topic to talk about. (If
it’s cool enough, she will definitely comment on it.)
3) CLEAN YOUR GLOVE COMPARTMENT
Women are naturally curious creatures, so they may
open your glove compartment out of curiosity just to see
what you’ve got in there. (Or just play with the latch until
it opens by accident.) So if you stuff all your garbage
in there, all the junk is going to fall out one of these
days!
4) WASH ALL THE WINDOWS
Wash all your windows every week, and don’t forget
the mirrors!
5) INVEST IN A SMALL CAR VACUMMER
Everyone should have a small car vacuum cleaner.
It really makes a big difference!
6) HAVE BLANKETS AND PILLOWS READY
Have blankets, pillows, and an old sweater ready
in the trunk, in case you want to do some sky-gazing or
cuddle in the wild.
7) HAVE A FEW GOOD CD’s
Have some light romantic music ready, along with
a cheap boom box if you have the space in your trunk.
8) HAVE CONDOMS IN THE GLOVE COMPARTMENT.
Have condoms hidden somewhere in the glove
compartment. You know…just in case…
9) LOVE YOUR CAR
Always love your car and treat it well, no matter
how banged-up it really is. If you act ashamed of the
car you’re driving, women are going to “feel” it and think
it’s a piece of crap too – even if it’s a Mercedes. But
if you act PROUD of it, then women will feel it as well,
even if it’s really not that great.
Want more practical tips? Sign up for my free
dating newsletter at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
Thanks,
Marius
Posted by Marius Panzarella on December 26, 2006 · Leave a Comment
“What If A Woman Asks You If You Have A Girlfriend”
Today’s tip is going to be very short. I’m going to
answer one of the most common questions I receive every
day.
A question that I always get from my readers is:
“Marius, what if a woman asks me about my love life
or if I have a girlfriend while I’m on a first date…when
I haven’t even had a girlfriend for a long time?”
Obivously, you don’t want to “lie” to her and tell
her that you have “many” girlfriends when you don’t.
Nor do you want to tell her that you’re a loser who
hasn’t been on a date for years. (Remember: You need
to remain a challenge!)
So here’s what you tell her…
Tell her “I don’t have a girlfriend right now, but
I do have a couple of prospects.”
When you get to the “couple of prospects” part, tilt
your head a bit, look into her eyes, and smile at her. Then
IMMEDIATELY throw the ball back into HER court by asking,
“How about you? How’s your love life?”
Or…if you wanna tease her, then asks, “How about you?
How’s your love life? You even have one?”
It works like a charm!
For more techniques on how to “handle” yourself on
a date like a Smart Dater (the kind that gets all the girls!)
download my “Smart Dating Newsletter” at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
You’re going to love it!
Thanks,
Marius
Posted by Marius Panzarella on December 25, 2006 · Leave a Comment
“A Great Conversation Technique For Opening Up a Woman”
Have you ever tried to improve your communication
with a woman only to be shot down by a vague answer? Here’s
a technique that you can use to “trap” a woman into giving
you a proper answer:
Instead of just asking a broad question, break the
question down into specific, detailed chunks!
Here’s what most guys say when they converse with
a woman:
Man: What are you thinking?
Woman: I don’t know.
Man: What do you mean?
Woman: I just don’t know, okay?
As you can see, a “broad question” such as “what do you
mean?” doesn’t really lead anywhere. Since the woman is trying
to give an easy answer (“I don’t know”), asking her “How come?”
will only give you another “I don’t know” in return.
However, if you pick out something specific and then
ask for clarification, the woman will have no choice but to
answer you.
For example:
Man: What are you thinking?
Woman: I don’t know.
Man: Well…I know you don’t know, but if you were
to guess, what do you think it might be?
The trick is to take the pressure off her by making
her think that you’re asking her something else, when you’re
really trying to get your first question answered and
therefore opening up the conversation to something more
meaningful then just “I don’t know”’s and “how come”’s.
With a little bit of practice, you can also add a bit
of playfulness in this technique in order to flirt with a
woman.
For example:
Man: So what are you doing on Saturday?
Woman: (playfully) I don’t know.
Man: What do you mean you don’t know? Are you hosting
a little dildoware party at your house for your
girlfriends?
Woman: NO!!!
Man: All right. So you don’t have any specific plans
yet.
Woman: Nope.
Man: Okay then. We’re going to…
Bingo! You’ve just got a date!
For some KILLER information on how to improve your
dating game, check out my dating newsletter at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
These are all time-tested techniques that have
been proven to work “in the fields”. No junk – just pure
techniques that ANYONE can use!
-Marius
Posted by Marius Panzarella on December 24, 2006 · Leave a Comment
“The Little Kino Trick That Should Be Common Sense”
Today I’m going to show you a little “kino trick”
that should be “common sense” for every man.
Next time you go to a crowded area with a woman,
place your hand gently on a woman’s lower back. (Not on her
butt!)
Then guide her through the crowded area.
It’s a great way to initiate contact and she will
think you’re protecting her. (Well, you ARE!)
You can also use the same technique to meet women
in a crowded bar or on a crowded dance floor. As you make
your way across a crowded floor, put your hand on a woman’s
lower back as you say excuse me and push her gently to the
side. As she turns around to make room for you walk through,
make strong eye contact with her and flash her a big,
confident smile.
But don’t say anything. Just keep walking to join
your friends or to approach another woman. Have a lot of fun
with whoever you talk to, because chances are, the girl you’ve
just touched will be watching you.
Wait a bit. Then come back to her and talk to her
this time. If done properly, she’ll be more receptive to you
than if you were to strike up a conversation the first time.
For more ideas on how to meet and pick up women,
check out my dating newsletter at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
You’ll love all the fun you’re going to have!
-Marius
Posted by Marius Panzarella on December 22, 2006 · Leave a Comment
“What If Your Crush Has A Crush On Another Man?
I am often asked…”What should I do if my crush seems to
have a crush on another man?”
My advice is always simple: Never mind the other person.
Just put them completely out of your mind.
It’s not about how you feel about your crush. It’s not
about how much your crush likes the other person. It all comes
back to how your crush feels about YOU.
You should put the other person OUT OF YOUR MIND. It
does NOT matter that the other person exists. It does NOT matter
that your crush likes them much more than you right now.
The ONLY thing that matters is your crush’s attraction
towards YOU.
If your crush is attracted to you enough…she will stop
seeing the other person…and she will make more time for you…
automatically.
Flirt with your crush a lot. Tease your crush. Make your
crush melt in your presence. Build up the sexual chemistry enough
and your crush will want to be with you.
To learn how to flirt with your crush and raise her
attraction for you, sign up for my free dating newsletter at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
You’ll learn exactly what you need to do to get your crush
to fall in love with you!
Thanks,
Marius
Posted by Marius Panzarella on December 20, 2006 · Leave a Comment
“Is It Risk, Or is It Reward?”
Something good to do when you’re uncertain about
approaching a woman is to compare the risk with the
possible reward.
Here’s a little bit of “Panzarella Probability”.
It’s not as fancy or complicated as Non-Euclidian Physics,
but it does serve its purpose in the dating game.
Whenever you approach a woman, she either goes
for you or she doesn’t. In other words, you have an at
least 50 percent chance of success.
(This is a nice way of looking at things,
isn’t it?)
But if you do NOTHING, then your chances of success
will be 0 percent for sure.
Listen: You are not dating her now. There’s
NOTHING for you to risk losing at all. So just go up to
her and work your charm.
There is NOTHING to lose and EVERYTHING to gain.
Not sure how to approach a woman. Find out the
best ways to approach women from my dating newsletter
at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
-Marius
Posted by Marius Panzarella on December 18, 2006 · Leave a Comment
“How To Stay Together With A Woman”
Here are a couple of tips on how to keep to keep
a woman’s interest in you high:
a) Fun and Romance: A lot of people stop flirting
once they’re in a relationship. Since they have successfully
courted each other and do not have to worry about attracting
each other anymore, they stop flirting and settle down into
a routine.
Big mistake.
Attraction comes and goes. Just because a woman
was attracted to you when she first met you doesn’t mean
she will CONTINUE to be attracted to you if you don’t do
anything to keep the attraction high.
Don’t just read my course, get a girlfriend,
and throw it away until she dumps you. Study it and
apply the concepts for life.
b) Be attentive: A lot of guys like to slack off and
become less attentive as time goes on. They stop paying
attention to their women and end up losing them.
Don’t make the same mistake.
Try to notice the details. Do thoughtful things.
Leave little messages that say “I’ve been thinking about you…”
Compliment her when she does something good.
c) Talk to her: Have at least one good talk every
week. Maybe before bed. Maybe when you’re walking in the park.
The time and location does not matter. Doing it is much more
important.
This will help you solidify the bond with her. I
don’t care how busy you’re with work. I don’t care what
other dating coaches have taught you. (“Never call a woman”,
etc) If you can’t even spare an hour on your girlfriend once
a week, then it’s really your fault if the relationship turns
sour.
d) Remain in control: Some guys use the techniques
I’ve taught them to seduce a sexy girl they’ve always wanted,
only to give up their control and start kissing the girl’s
ass. Remember: everything I’ve said about remaining in
control of yourself still applies after the initial
courtship!
Never lose control! Be a man!
By the way, remember that when I say “stay in
control”, I don’t mean you should “control a woman”. What
I really mean is to CONTROL YOURSELF and your OWN ACTIONS.
e) Don’t Use Money To Substitute Anything: Under NO,
NO, NO circumstances should you attempt to please a woman
with money and physical gifts. Wealth is NOT an alternative
for love. Money can buy you sex, but it can’t buy you love.
I don’t care how rich and busy you are. Never, never pamper
a woman with money. It will eventually ruin your
relationship – I’ve seen it happen countless times.
For more practical dating tips, please sign up
for my free dating newsletter at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
You’ll learn more about women and dating than
most guys ever will in a life time!
Thanks,
Marius
Posted by Marius Panzarella on December 17, 2006 · Leave a Comment
“How To Let A Woman Know You Are Flirting”
I am often asked, “How will women know I am flirting with
them?” Some readers even email me to say, “I flirt all the time,
but women just don’t know I am flirting.”
If you’re one of these guys, the solution is not to flirt
harder, it’s to flirt better. Chances are, women don’t know you’re
flirting because you’re not using the right body language and
voice tone. In other words, women don’t know you’re flirting with
them because you’re not really flirting.
You’ve got the words, but you haven’t got the moves.
All right…let me ask you a question…how do you know your
buddy isn’t really trying to kill you when he mock-wrestles with
you?
The answer is obvious. Even though he’s grabbing you and
pinning you down, he’s probably smiling and not using all of his
strength. But of course, you won’t be thinking about any of that.
You’ll “just know” he’s playing with you.
The same thing applies to flirting. Women will “just know”
you’re flirting with them provided you have the right voice tone
and body language. For example, you may elongate your vowels and
slow down your speech. Or you may have a naughty gleam in your
eyes when you talk to a woman. Or you may move your body in a
sensual way.
Here’s the magic of flirting: As long as you have the
right voice tone and body language, women will know you’re playing
with them and let you get away with saying or doing all sorts of
crazy things. Under the right circumstances, they may even let
you advance much further than they usually let other guys because
she enjoys “playing” with you.
To learn how to have the proper voice and body language
for flirting, check out my dating newsletter at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
Thanks,
Marius
Posted by Marius Panzarella on December 16, 2006 · Leave a Comment
“Is Flirting Bad Or Immoral?”
A complaint that I get from readers (well, flamers)
all the time is that I want my students to “flirt too much”.
There are many people who believe that flirting is
immoral or “wrong”. I’ve received countless emails – many of
them flame mails – about how I should stop teaching guys how to
flirt with women so that the guys can “be themselves”.
These flamers have no idea what flirting is really about.
To me, flirting is just being playful and having fun. It
isn’t about “seducing” anyone. It isn’t about playing mind games.
It’s not even about picking women up. It’s about making other
people feel good.
Just because I flirt a little doesn’t mean I am sleazy or
manipulative. In fact, people (hopefully including you if we have
had email correspondents in the past) often agree that I’m one of
the warmest and most sincere guys they’ve ever met. Yet, I flirt
with anything that crosses my path, be it women, animals, or even
little old ladies waiting for the bus!
If you have any “moral issues” with flirting, then just
keep in mind that flirting is a way of giving, not a way of taking.
Here’s what a Christian reader of mine has suggested to me
in the past. (Not exact quote…I am paraphrasing him…)
“See flirting as a way of giving attention to people. Think
of it as a way to share your warmth. See it as a way to make other
people feel good about themselves, not as a way to get anything
in return.”
So go ahead and flirt all you want!
To learn how to flirt with women, check out my “Smart Dating
Newsetter” at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
You will find ton of flirting techniques that you won’t
find anywhere else!
-Marius
Posted by Marius Panzarella on December 15, 2006 · Leave a Comment
“How To Attract Women By Showing Your Approval”
Today I am going to show you a very simple trick
that you can use to make a woman feel good.
Lots of guys think that it is a good idea to
“flatter” a woman. Personally, I think it’s even better
to “acknowledge” a woman and show her your “approval”.
This way, instead of “sucking up” to her or over-praising
her, you’re just “approving” her and making her feel
good without losing your own status. (Actually, this will
help you GAIN status because men who can afford to
“approve” how women are usually men with power and status.)
Here are some ways you can “approve” a woman instead
of sucking up to her.
1) Add A Limit.
Instead of telling a woman she’s the most
compliment> person in the world, let her know that she’s
the best person in a certain environment. (In other words,
she’s cool but still has room to improve before she can
impress you completely.)
Example:
“You know…you’re the coolest person I’ve met tonight.”
2) Make A Comparison
Compare a woman with other people. This way, you
will make her feel special WITHOUT sucking up to her.
Example:
“Most girls/guys I’ve met are not
as as you.”
3) Make An Objective Statement
Make an objective statement that “qualifies” her as
a member of an elite group. (One that you’re probably part
of!)
Example”
“Well, I guess you’re obviously a man/woman who
enjoys the finest thing in life. That’s good”
With practice, you can also act like a challenge
and throw in some qualification statements that you’ve
learned from my newsletter and Smart Dating Course,
such as:
“You’re pretty smart for your age.”
“I change my opinion about redheads. Actually,
not yet…”
Throw her a couple of these, and she should
be dying to impress you!
Want more killer lines? Sign up for my dating
newsletter now at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
-Marius
Posted by Marius Panzarella on December 14, 2006 · Leave a Comment
“What To Do With A Jealous Girlfriend”
I am often asked, “What should I do if my girlfriend
is jealous?”
Well…it depends on HOW jealous she is.
If she’s a normal woman who gets jealous every once in
awhile, then you don’t have too much to worry about. In fact,
it’s good that she DOES gets a bit jealous every now and then.
It shows she still sees you as a stud.
In that case, you can just “defuse” her jealousy by
teasing her playfully . For example, if your girlfriend calls
a woman a bitch after the woman talks to you at a party, just
say something like, “Nah. She’s not a bitch. She just has
good taste. And so do you.” Then give her a kiss.
Problem solved.
But if your girlfriend is one of those women with a
“chronic” jealousy problem, then you’re in trouble.
Never forget that a person’s jealousy usually comes
from insecurity. This is why EVERYONE gets jealous every
once in awhile…because nobody is perfect and we all do have
our own insecurities.
So if a woman is VERY jealous ALL THE TIME, it’s
a sign that she is very insecure…
And guess what?
Insecurity means low self-esteem, and low self-esteem
means BAD CHARACTER.
If you’re a student of the “Smart Dating System”, then
you already know what bad character means…
FIND ANOTHER WOMAN!
I have said this a thousand times and I will say it
again:
Remember that you cannot change a woman’s character.
You have to accept her for who she is BEFORE you enter the
relationship. If you try to play therapist, her attraction
for you is going to drop very fast and you’ll most likely
end up as her “friend”.
In other words, you CANNOT do anything to “help”
her become less jealous. You cannot cure a woman’s jealousy
or insecurity. It’s something that she has to do on her
own.
The other alternative, of course, is to learn to
“tolerate” her jealousy. But let me warn you now: as time
goes on, it will get harder and harder, and you’ll probably
be in for a very rough ride.
You have been warned!
For more “girlfriend management” tips, check out my
“Smart Dating Newsletter” at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
Thanks,
Marius
Posted by Marius Panzarella on December 13, 2006 · Leave a Comment
“What If You Suspect She’s After Your Money?”
Today’s tip is going to very short.
A question that I get from my readers *all the time*
is, “What if you suspect a woman is after your money?”
The answer is very simple with this one:
DO A TEST!
Cut back the amount of money you spend on her. Don’t
buy anything for her. Don’t take her out to expensive
dinners. Cut out on your “quality of life” with her while
maintaining the same kind of attention you have given her
in the past.
Then watch her VERY closely to see how she reacts.
Does her attraction seem to drop? Or does she still
enjoying being with you?
If she’s still happy with you, then it shows you did
NOT need to pamper her with materialistic things to attract
her to begin with. (You’ve wasted all that money, buddy!)
Good. Keep it that way and use your HEART instead of your
wallet to attract her from now on.
But if she’s disatified or seems to whine about
money a lot, then it’s a sign she could be a goldigger.
In that case, keep dating her WITHOUT spending another
dime on her. If she stays, all right. Good for her. But if
she wants to leave you, then let her leave. Golddiggers
are really not worth it!
For more practical dating tips that actually WORK,
check out my “Smart Dating Newsletter” at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
-Marius
Posted by Marius Panzarella on December 12, 2006 · Leave a Comment
“Why You Should Be Careful With Flirting Over Email”
Today we’re going to talk about the danger of flirting
with a woman through email before you have a strong rapport
with her.
Many guys have asked me how they can attract a woman
they have just met by sending them emails with “hypnotic
words”. They want to know things such as how they can
“describe the sensations” of all the naughty things they would
like to do to these women so that the women will fall in love
with them by just reading their emails.
Guess what? It doesn’t work that way. You *cannot*
expect to attract a woman just be writing sheets and sheets
of “romantic language” to her.
In fact, you will probably scare her away.
The trouble with flirting over email is that there’re
NO “romantic calibration” at all. There is NO way to judge her
by her body language if she’s interested in what you’re saying
at all. As a result, you could be going down the wrong path
without knowing.
In real life, you can see her reactions adjust your
flirting accordingly. But in an email, there’s no way for you
to get any kind of feedback. You could start going in the wrong
direction at ANY time, and keep on going on in the wrong direction
after.
For example, you could talk all about how much you
would enjoy rock-climbing or going star-gazing with her – when
the woman is not even interested in these things.
Or you could think you’re teasing her and joking around
with her, when she thinks you’re actually insulting her.
Because without body language and voice language,
a lot of your flirting and teasing may become “lame”. The women
may take your teasing “literally” because you’re not there to
express yourself.
So what’s the solution?
Well…it’s pretty simple…
BE A MAN and don’t try to attract women by writing
emails.
Pick up the phone and call the woman. This way you
can use your voice tone to show your playfulness and also get
feedback in real time.
Or better yet, ATTRACT HER IN REAL LIFE.
If you absolutely must flirt with a woman over email,
then make sure you keep your emails SHORT. For example,
when I email a woman the first time, I usually say nothing
except “Knock knock, is there?”
Try this, and if a woman responds positively, then
you can send a few more short messages and finally ask
if she has Instant Messenger.
This way, you can interact with her in real time!
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Posted by Marius Panzarella on December 11, 2006 · Leave a Comment
“How To Touch A Woman On A First Date”
Today I’m going to teach you how to make a woman
feel more comfortable with touching or making out with you
by doing something REALLY simple at the beginning of a
date.
Personally, I think the first 5 minutes of a date
is the MOST important. If you act nervous or “not totally
comfortable” with a woman, it’s going to create an awkward
mood for the rest of the evening. As a result, you’re
probably going to get even MORE nervous as the evening
progresses. All the odds will be stacked against you.
Furthermore, in my experiences a woman will often
establish all her “boundaries” within that first 5 minutes. For
example, if you act like a wimp who’s afraid of physical
contact when you arrive at her door, she’s going to EXPECT
you to remain that way throughout the evening. And if you
don’t, she’s going to give you RESISTENCE because you’re
“not acting normal.”
So here’s EXCATLY what I want you to do next time
you pick up a woman from her house. As soon as you see her,
tell her she looks great and give her a friendly hug. Make
sure that the hug as CASUAL and FRIENDLY as possible.
This will put a woman at ease and also “get her ready” for
more physical contact as the evening progresses.
If you want, you can take a deep breathe as you
hug her.
Then simply take her hand without ANY hesitation
and lead her out the door.
There. You don’t even have to worry about holding
her hand anymore.
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Marius
Posted by Marius Panzarella on December 10, 2006 · Leave a Comment
“What If Your Girlfriends Needs More Space”
What should you do if your girlfriend tells
you she needs “more space” in the relationship?
Should you whine about it?
No.
Should you try to convince her how much you love her?
No.
Should you get jealous because she wants to spend
more time with her friends?
No.
What you SHOULD do is to pull back from the
relationship and focus on YOUR life…even MORE than she does.
Why? Because when a woman needs more “space”, it means
you’re being too needy and you’re suffocating her. It means
her attraction for you is DROPPING and if you keep on pushing
her, she’s going to dump you.
At this point, if you force her to “work things out”,
you will only end up pushing her AWAY since you already have
one foot in the negative zone.
So instead of pushing her away from you, you should
PULL BACK and focus on YOUR life.
Focus on improving your life, working towards your
goals, and creating a stronger self-image.
Because chances are, if she needs more space, you
probably haven’t been spending a lot of time with your own
life outside your relationship.
By focusing too much on a relationship, you risk
losing out what life has to an offer. As a result, you will
become even MORE needy overtime as you lose the grip on
the rest of the world. One day, you will wake up and
find that you “cannot live without her”, and ironically,
that’s usually when a woman will dump you.
A healthy relationship requires SPACE for both
parties to grow. So give her some space, and give YOURSELF
some space too.
As crazy as it may sound to you if you’re a needy
person right now, it may actually be one of the best things
you can do for your relationship!
For more “girlfriend management” tips, check out
my “Smart Dating Newsletter” at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com/
Unlike most other programs on the Internet, my
newsletter won’t just help you “seduce” women. It can help
you attract AND keep a “quality” woman that you won’t mind
having as a real girlfriend!
-Marius
Posted by Marius Panzarella on December 9, 2006 · Leave a Comment
“What If Your Girlfriends Wants To See Other People?”
What does your girlfriend mean when she says you
should both see other people?
As a Smart Dater, it should only mean one thing:
her attraction for you has dropped so much that the
relationship is about to end.
A woman does not just wake up one day and want
to start seeing other people. Usually, when she wants
to see other men outside an existing relationship, it’s
because she wants to meet other men without feeling guilty
OR without facing complete rejection if a man rejects
her. (She will still have a guy at home to go home to.)
In other words, your girlfriend only wants to see other
guys because she’s not attracted to you anymore, but at
the same time, she wants to keep you around as a “backup”
in case her new boyfriend turns out to be a creep. In fact,
she may even see you as a “tool” to get new boyfriend jealous.
So what do you do when a woman wants to “see other
people”?
Well, honestly there’s not much you can do. If you
disagree, she will probably dump you right there
since the attraction is so low anyway.
Your best bet is to end the relationship right
there OR to agree to see other people too. But either way,
you want to actually start seeing other people and let
her know ALL about it. Show her that you ARE capable of
attracting other women and that you are NOT going to just
sit there and be her “backup plan.”
If she freaks out and begs for you to come back, good.
Otherwise, just move on. She’s not worth your time!
For more practical dating and relationship advice,
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You’re going to wish you had signed up earlier!
-Marius
Posted by Marius Panzarella on December 8, 2006 · Leave a Comment
“10 Signs You Should Leave A Woman”
Here are 10 signs you should leave a woman:
1) She is addicted to drugs.
Sorry, call me a jerk, but there’s no compromise for
this one. I’ve seen WAY too many readers get burned by going
out with junkies.
2) She has cheated on you more than once.
Letting her come back the first time was already a
mistake. Don’t make the same mistake again.
3) You don’t like being with her except for the sex.
You can get sex off any woman. So no matter how good
sex with a particular woman is, it can NOT be the only reason
to stay with her.
4) You know she doesn’t like you.
If you know that she does’t like you, then you should
also know that she’ll leave you as soon as she finds someone
better.
5) She is too needy and demanding.
Women who are a tiny bit needy is okay. But if a woman
is extremely demanding of you, then you should find someone
who’s not as demanding.
6) She comes between you and your friends.
women come, women go, but best friends are for life.
Don’t lose your friends – or when you finally break up with
a woman, you’re going to find yourself without any friends!
7) She doesn’t respect you.
If a woman doesn’t show you the respect you deserve,
leave without looking back. It will NOT work out anyway.
8) You don’t respect her.
I you don’t respect a woman as your equal, you’re not
going to be happy with her in a relationship. You’ll either
be unhappy, or you’ll cheat.
9) She has constant emotional problems.
Don’t fall pray to drama queens and other emotional
vampires. They will suck all the energy out of you and then
move on to their next victims.
10) You don’t like yourself when you’re with her.
If you don’t like who you are when you’re not with a
woman, she is NOT going to make a good long-term girlfriend
for you no matter how hot she is.
11) You’re not physically attracted to her anymore.
Never stay with a woman just because you’re afraid
of hurting her should you break up. It will only hurt her more
in the end.
12) You keep thinking, “Maybe things will get better…”
After hearing dozens of cases from my readers every week,
I can guarantee you that it won’t.
For tips on how to attract AND “choose” the kind of women
you SHOULD date, check out my newsletter at:
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I’ll be waiting for your success story!
Posted by Marius Panzarella on December 7, 2006 · Leave a Comment
“10 Signs You Are About To Get Dumped”
1) She’s Always Too Busy Too See You
Life is all about priorities. If a woman is always
too busy to see you, but yet she has time to go shopping,
hang out with her girlfriends, or even go for coffee with
that cute guy at work, it’s a sign you’re not important
in her life anymore.
2) She Gets Mad At You For Really, Really Stupid Things
Women will often use “little excuses” to show their
negative feelings towards you before a breakup. Nothing you
do will be up to her standards, and she will find every
opportunity to let you know you’re not up to her standards.
See this as a warning of what’s to come.
3) She Screens You Out When You Call
If she stops answering your calls directly and
lets you go right to her voicemail, it’s a sign that she
has stopped caring. If she really, really, really wanted
to talk to you, don’t you think she would have picked up?
4) Her Friends Suddenly Seem Distant
If her friends has always “liked” you in the past
but are now all suddenly acting “distanced” whenever
you’re in their presence, it’s a sign they may know
something you don’t know – such as you’re about to get
dumped.
5) You Fight All The Time Over Little Things
A little bit of fighting is okay in a relationship.
But if you fight ALL the time over the tiniest things, it’s
a sign the relationship is not going to work.
6) She Doesn’t Hold Your Hand Anymore
If she does not want to show any affection in
public, it’s a sign the romantic feelings are gone. It won’t
be long before she dumps you.
7) She Has Stopped Having Sex
If she has stops having sex or getting physically
intimate with you, that’s another sign her attraction for you
has dropped and you’re about to get dumped.
8) She Doesn’t Seem Attracted To You Anymore
Do you get the feeling that she’s not that into you
anymore? Guess what? Your intuition is probably right.
9) She Wants “Space”
If a woman asks for “space”, it’s a sign she’s feeling
suffocated by the relationship. Back off a bit and give her some
space. If you push now, you will only push her into breaking up
with you.
10) She Wants To See Other People
If a woman wants to “see other people”, it’s a sign
the relationship is almost over. Don’t believe in any of
her excuses. The truth is, if she were still VERY attracted
to you, she wouldn’t even dream of seeing other people!
Do you see any of these signs? Do you have a
relationship in trouble? Sign up for my dating tips
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It may still not be too late to turn your relationship
around!
Thanks,
Marius
Posted by Marius Panzarella on December 6, 2006 · Leave a Comment
“10 Kissing Techniques”
Here are a couple of kissing techniques that you can use.
Remember to vary them to keep things exciting!
1) Kissing Technique: Triumverat
Kiss her lightly between the eyes, then on the tip of
the nose, and finally on the lips.
2) Kissing Technique: Top And Bottom
Kiss her on her top lip, then the bottom lip, and
finally both.
3) Kissing Technique: Lick Her Lightly
Run the tip of your tongue slowly along your girl’s lips.
4) Kissing Technique: Kiss Her Earlobes
Gently kiss, nibble, and suck on her earlobe. This trick
can drive a woman WILD.
5) Kissing Technique: Kiss Her Neck
Trace the sides of her neck with your lips and tongue.
6) Kissing Technique: Front OF Neck
Kiss the front of her neck with your lips and tongue.
7) Kissing Technique: Tease And Denial
Kiss everywhere but her lips, until she pulls you to
their lips. You can also use this trick on other sensitive
spots. For example, you can tease one of her nipples by kissing
AROUND it until you finally kiss it.
8) Kissing Technique: The Sensual Kiss
Look in her eyes and whisper you want to kiss her.
Press your lips gently to theirs’, caress their lips with yours
and give her a passionate kiss.
9) Kissing Technique: Forehead Rub
Rub your forehead with your girl gently and kiss her.
10) Kissing Technique: Nose Rub
Gently rub the tips of your noses together and kiss.
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Posted by Marius Panzarella on December 5, 2006 · Leave a Comment
“Is It A Date If She Brings Other Friends?”
A question that my readers ask me all the time is,
“If a woman brings other friends when we hang out, is it
a date?”
The answer is a simple NO!
It is ONLY a date if there are just the TWO of
you. If there are other people involved, it’s a gathering,
not a date.
With that said, all hope is not lost. The girl
may still be interested in you. If she spends a lot of
time flirting and talking with you ALONE during the
gathering, there’s a chance that she’s still into you.
In that case, flirt back and invite her to
hang out – with just the two of you.
However, if she doesn’t actively flirt with
you alone, then you’ll need to try flirting with her
and see if she “gets the idea”.
If she starts paying you more attention than
her other friends, that’s a very good sign.
Otherwise, start talking to and flirting with
her girl friends!
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-Marius
Posted by Marius Panzarella on December 3, 2006 · Leave a Comment
“How to Tell When A Woman Is Interested In You”
Lots of readers have written me to tell me they do not know when a woman is interested. Here are a few signs she MAY be interested.
1) You catch her checking you out.
2) Her eyes sparkles when you talk to her.
3) She strokes her outer thigh lightly when you talk to her.
4) She’s always laughing at your jokes sincerely, no matter how lame they are.
5) She smiles broadly at you.
6) She flirts with you.
7) She looks straight at you and then flips her hair.
8) She plays with her shirt buttons when she talks to you.
9) She follows you around.
10) She’s especially “obedient”.
11) She seeks your approval.
12) She leans over and whispers in your ear.
13) She touches herself while she talks.
14) She invades your space with objects.
15) She asks people lots of questions about you.
16) She talks about you a lot in front of other people.
17) She tenses up when you touch her but does not attempt to move away at all.
18) She dresses up to see you.
19) She calls you or talks to you for no reason.
20) She likes to play with your hair.
21) She likes to leave traces behind in your house or apartment.
22) She gets jealous when you flirt with other women.
23) She keeps invading your personal space with herself.
24) She is extremely touchy – but only with you.
25) She wants to cook for you.
In my newsletter, I often teach you how to ATTRACT
women so that they will be DYING to give you these signs.
To learn more about how to make a woman fall HARD for you,
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- Marius Panzarella
P.S. For are 25 more signs a woman is interested in you.
Posted by Marius Panzarella on December 2, 2006 · Leave a Comment
How To Have Confident Body Language Around Women
There’s no question that having the right body language
can project a sense of self-confidence when you’re talking
to women. Today I am going to teach you a few tricks on how
to use “confident body language” to help you attract women.
1) Broad smile
Have a broad smile on your face. As a beginner, try to
aim for what I call a “baby smile”. Smile openly and sincerely
like a baby. Later on, you’ll be able to tone it down to a more
serious “James Bond” kind of smile. But for now, stick to the
baby smile. It will help get you the kind of attention you need!
2) Relax your face muscles
Make sure that your whole face is relaxed. (Even your
smile should be relaxed.) If you show any kind of tension on
your face, women are going to know you’re nervous. Practice
relaxing your facial muscles in the mirror. Smile and tighten
your cheeks, hold for a few seconds, and then release.
Do this 10 times every day.
3) Strong eye contact
Make sure you keep strong eye contact with the person
you’re talking to. Looking at the ground convey shyness and
submissiveness – which is what you do NOT want.
It helps to try to look “past” the woman’s eyes and
gaze into her soul.
4) Don’t break eye contact upon meeting
When you first meet a woman, don’t break eye contact
until she does. This will demonstrate your masculinity and
your status as an alpha male.
5) Keep palms open.
Keep your palms open or only slightly closed when
you’re with a woman. Do not clinch them into fists. Don’t
stick them into your pockets or hold onto your shirt or jacket.
6) Stand with feet wider apart.
Stand with your feet wider apart than you usually do.
Open up, take up more room, and be “grounded”.
7) Lift up your chest
Expose your chest like a soldier. It is a sign of the
alpha male. The alpha male proudly shows off his chest as a
symbol of dominance. The beta male tries to cover it up because
opening up makes him feel vulnerable.
8) Slow down your breathing
Slow down your breathing. Breath EASY! Breath from
your rib cages, not from your chest.
9) Shoulders up
Keep your shoulders up without tightening them. Don’t
hunch. Hunching is often perceived as a sign of having low
self-esteem. Always stand tall and walk tall!
10) Move slower
Move slowly using broad movements. Make sure all of
your movements are slow and relaxed. Don’t have any kind of
fast, “flaming” movements or any “jerky” movements that are
often associated with insecurity.
11) Lean forward…and then lean back.
When you talk to a woman, lean forward when the
conversation is going good. But don’t stay in that position
the whole time, you also want to lean back some times to
“let go of the tension”.
12) Take up room
Take up as much room as you can when you sit, stand
and walk. If you have trouble opening up, do the following
exercise. Imagine yourself as a roughneck and think how
they move. Do the same.
13) Invade people’s personal space
Don’t be afraid of moving into a woman’s personal
space. Keep getting closer and closer to her. It’ll show
that you’re not afraid.
14) Touch people
Touch women on the elbow casually when you
laugh at their jokes. Don’t be afraid to hug a woman
when the opportunity arises.
15) Have purpose
Have purpose with your life and know what you’re
going after. Raise up the social hierarchy ladder.
Acting like an alpha male in can help you have the right body
language naturally.
For more dating tips and exercises that can help you
become more confident and attractive in women’s eyes, check
out my dating newsletter at:
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It contains many exclusive articles that are not
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definitely not something you want to miss out!
Thanks,
Marius
